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09-14-2011, 02:40 PM
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*Do you (or would you) go out with someone you met online, such as from a dating site, chat room, BFP, etc.? (this can be local or long distance or both)
I am currently in a LDR with someone I met online. It has been almost 2 years! *Do you go out on blind dates? (set up by friends, co-workers) I have been on one blind date and it lasted 7 years. *Would you go out with someone who has dated someone you know? Someone I know or Someone who was in a relationship with them? YES to someone I know - MAYBE to someone who previously was with them. Depends on my relationship with the Someone. If it is a good friend, absolutely NOT! *Which do you think is better: meeting and dating people from an online source, or meeting and dating people you meet in real life? I have had both and I cannot say one is better than the other. It really depends on the person you are dating. I am also really quirky when it comes to online relationships. Dreamer and I have been seeing one another for almost two years. I just don't understand how people can say they are IN LOVE and in a relationship, when they have never met. How can you know, when you have never shared physical energy. I know love can be BIG for some people, but I am fairly literal in every sense. I do not consider phone sex to be sex, as the same way as sharing your physical body with another. It took me well over a year of admitting to myself and others, that I was even in a relationship. Even though, we had spent time together physically and I love this person. We are not together full time, and so it is hard for me to understand. Even though my relationship was committed. I hope that makes sense. I just have a hard time grasping the idea of online (I am in love with you and we have never met) relationships. Julie
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09-14-2011, 06:09 PM
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09-14-2011, 06:54 PM
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Not sure if I could go as far as getting married online without meeting the person in real life... but I certainly won't invalidate what someone else perceives as a "marriage" for them. |
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09-14-2011, 07:19 PM
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I've gone out both with people that I've met online and through blind dates. I haven't been out with someone that one of my friends have dated, however. I think that both methods have possibilities, but I probably tend to be more wary when meeting people for the first time, when I have met them online.
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09-14-2011, 08:32 PM
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09-14-2011, 08:50 PM
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09-14-2011, 09:18 PM
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semantics... lol :P
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09-14-2011, 09:49 PM
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I have done the online relationship thing, and it just doesn't work for me. I have been burned too many times from it. I would rather have someone I can actually spend time with in person and have real dates, sex, etc. I think it is just too difficult to really get to know someone only through online and phone conversations. And I just want a flesh and blood hand to hold.
I have never been on a blind date. I would not date the ex of a friend of mine. |
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