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01-30-2010, 02:56 PM
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In your opinion, do Old Fashioned/Old School and Stone go hand in hand? Just wondering what interpretations there might be... 
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03-03-2010, 03:36 PM
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Opinion….Interpretations…My disclaimer…What you are about to read is totally my opinion and has nothing to do with how anyone else may feel about OFOS. It’s all my opinion and how I interact with the world, not just the realm of the Butch-Femme Dynamic. What is OFOS? Maybe it would be easier to say what it is not. I believe for some the idea of OFOS is the Ward and June Clever life. It is that idea has caused a rejection of OFOS for some people…That it is outdated, therefore irrelevant today. OFOS is not keeping the little woman is the kitchen so dinner is on the table when the Butch comes home from a long day at work. OFOS is not a Butch taking care of everything because the Femme is unable. OFOS is not just opening the door for Femmes. OFOS is not about who is on top or bottom. In my opinion OFOS is all about love, respect, honor and loyalty. None of which should be exclusively OFOS. All of these things should be part of one’s living code of ethics. For me, OFOS is a way of life. I open a door for a Femme or even a Butch to honor and respect that person, not because I am Butch and that is what I am suppose to do. An OFOS Femme appreciates these gestures because she knows it is done out of love, honor and respect, not because she cannot do it herself. I walk on the street side with my hand on the small of her back or holding her elbow because I care, honor and respect her. She allows me to do so because she knows it is how I honor her. I walk in front of her, grasping her hands behind me as we wander through a crowded room. This keeps her from getting bumped and she allows me to do so because she respects that this is how I show my caring and respect for her. For the life of me, I don’t understand why simply courtesy has dropped to the wayside and are called old fashioned. For me, it is anything but old fashioned. It is the way I choose to move through this world. Why do I feel so alone? OSB |
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03-03-2010, 06:07 PM
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Glad this is bumped up. I forgot this thread was here. Sayin hey...from OSOF-er
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03-03-2010, 06:32 PM
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03-03-2010, 07:10 PM
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I cant imagine dating anyone who wasnt OFOS. I think the older I get, the more I appreciate the basics: someone who is courteous, respectful, entertaining, tastefully charming, genuinely warm, offers a woman quiet adoration without suffocation, and most of all can classically slow dance without stepping on the dance floor, to my music that isnt heard on the jukebox by anyone but him...
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03-03-2010, 07:27 PM
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03-06-2010, 07:40 AM
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Well, now...I am new to this site, but have been on line in the B-F community for over 5 years. I think as I have grown older, I have gotten more vocal...I wonder if it it because I really don't care what people think of me, I am just me and that is that.
With that being said, here are the thought running through this brain of mine..... Wow, this thread was opened in November and has only had 30 posts and only 350 views...... Which then leads to.... I guess I really am a dinosaur and I am all alone... or People see OFOS and assume you have to be old as dirt to be OFOS and are not interested..... or even It's that folks have had a run in with the person that opened the thread and won't go here because of that. I don't know that and I don't know Ol Jet, just saying what is going through my head. Having values of loyalty, honor and trust are not Old Fashioned, Old School and should never go out of style. OSB |
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03-12-2010, 03:28 PM
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My kind of old school.
Actually, I mimed this rendition in a 1950s drag show years ago, with my buddy, D.J. who is now FTM. He played Johnny Angel and I played White Buck Ford. The girlies swooned. heh, heh. [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3ydPIrktKY"]YouTube- tears on my pillow -sha na na-[/ame] |
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