One Boi One Femme

[crashhere4eva]

I don't make a lot of money so if you want a rich boi, keep lookin. I'm a keeper not just a catch so if want to just catch me but not keep me, keep fishin. I like to paint, do drag king acts, I like mud, a morning coffee on the beach, bringing you flowers for no reason, sitting with you in the porch swing and makin you laugh until you pee yourself. I'm not perfect, I have fears but most of all I'm a diamond in the rough that should be yours.

I want everlasting love, someone to grow old with, live with and die with. If it's possible I would like to have kids but I realize that may not happen. I want a Femme who sets herself apart from the other Femmes. I want a Femme who sees beyond my tough exterior to the very weak and vulnerable places yet still knows that I am her hero. One who knows that no matter what I'm going through, I will always have the strength to hold her. I want a Femme who's life revolves around love and living as opposed to money and negativity. One who laughs more than she complains, one who embraces challenges more than running from them, one who loves more than fights, one who holds tight without being bitter, one who admires more than resents, one who walks beside me in life. One who gives me her body instead of just her hand, her mind instead of just her thoughts, her heart instead of just her feelings, her spirit instead of just her memories and her soul instead of just her breath. I want to do the same for her. I guess it's best summed up in saying I want to feel like I'm at home. Thank you,

[Delish]

Thats EXACTLY the way a love should be!!!

[1QuirkyKiwi]

Would feel like coming home to my Boi/Butch.

[crashhere4eva]

Bois/Butches/Guys: Tell the Lovely Ladies 1 thing that they do which breaks down our defenses. I'm talkin about our deep secrets that get to our soul not just our crotch. We already know know about their hair, the way they tap their nails on the counter, their scent, their skirts, the way their jeans hug their hips, their killa eyes, their killa smile, their lipstick on our cheeks(I could go on foreva). NOT that stuff.... I'm talkin about the deep stuff. Let's risk our pride and tell em.

I will start the party:
Ladies, you break me down when you represent/respect me publicly.

[msW8ing]

Originally Posted by crashhere4eva

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I will start the party:
Ladies, you break me down when you represent/respect me publicly.

For me personally..i love doing my hair and make up and getting all dolled up for Hym..i want him to be proud to have me on Hys arm..although my Daddy tells me all the time that Hy is proud and i am beautiful no matter what...but..i know i feel more beautiful if i've taken the time to get all dolled up for Hym. And the look in Hys eyes and growl in Hys voice..well that right there just makes it all worth it.

[crashhere4eva]

Originally Posted by crashhere4eva

Bois/Butches/Guys: Tell the Lovely Ladies 1 thing that they do which breaks down our defenses. I'm talkin about our deep secrets that get to our soul not just our crotch. We already know know about their hair, the way they tap their nails on the counter, their scent, their skirts, the way their jeans hug their hips, their killa eyes, their killa smile, their lipstick on our cheeks(I could go on foreva). NOT that stuff.... I'm talkin about the deep stuff. Let's risk our pride and tell em.

I will start the party:
1. Ladies, you break me down when you represent/respect me publicly .

2. Okay, here it goes... got the balls to put up anotha one: Ladies, you break me down when you act as if I am no less of a boi when I show vulnerablilty. In fact it breaks me down even more when you admire and cherish that I show you that. In essence, it makes me stronger because I can show it.

[msW8ing]

For me personally..my Daddy is so steadfast and strong..Hy was born to be a Daddy..you can just know this if you spend one minute around Hym..Hys pure essence screams Daddy..but Hy is only human..and has moments when Hy needs to be able to not be the strong one..and i am so proud that Hy knows Hy can lean on me..that i am a strong woman as well as Hys Daddys girl...i love Hym more for showing me this side..Hy is amazing in every sense of the word..my Daddy is my hero..and i think Hy is more brave when Hy shows me that side. It takes a bigger person to admit when they are struggling than to hide it imho.

[crashhere4eva]

Originally Posted by MsW8ing

For me personally..my Daddy is so steadfast and strong..Hy was born to be a Daddy..you can just know this if you spend one minute around Hym..Hys pure essence screams Daddy..but Hy is only human..and has moments when Hy needs to be able to not be the strong one..and i am so proud that Hy knows Hy can lean on me..that i am a strong woman as well as Hys Daddys girl...i love Hym more for showing me this side..Hy is amazing in every sense of the word..my Daddy is my hero..and i think Hy is more brave when Hy shows me that side. It takes a bigger person to admit when they are struggling than to hide it imho.

MsW8ing, Thank you for sharing this. I love the input. Yes, hym being stronger because of leaning on you is the kind of thing I am talking about. Love the post.

[crashhere4eva]

We wish we may, we wish we might, we wish that someday would be tonight...

[sweetiefemme]

Originally Posted by crashhere4eva

I don't make a lot of money so if you want a rich boi, keep lookin. I'm a keeper not just a catch so if want to just catch me but not keep me, keep fishin. I like to paint, do drag king acts, I like mud, a morning coffee on the beach, bringing you flowers for no reason, sitting with you in the porch swing and makin you laugh until you pee yourself. I'm not perfect, I have fears but most of all I'm a diamond in the rough that should be yours.

I want everlasting love, someone to grow old with, live with and die with. If it's possible I would like to have kids but I realize that may not happen. I want a Femme who sets herself apart from the other Femmes. I want a Femme who sees beyond my tough exterior to the very weak and vulnerable places yet still knows that I am her hero. One who knows that no matter what I'm going through, I will always have the strength to hold her. I want a Femme who's life revolves around love and living as opposed to money and negativity. One who laughs more than she complains, one who embraces challenges more than running from them, one who loves more than fights, one who holds tight without being bitter, one who admires more than resents, one who walks beside me in life. One who gives me her body instead of just her hand, her mind instead of just her thoughts, her heart instead of just her feelings, her spirit instead of just her memories and her soul instead of just her breath. I want to do the same for her. I guess it's best summed up in saying I want to feel like I'm at home. Thank you,

This femme loves porch swings watching the sunset, and flowers!

[*Anya*]

Crash, any woman that would fall for you will be fortunate indeed! It is clear that you have a loving heart and are looking for the "real thing".

I know there are many femmes on here that are single, are around your age, or younger and looking for the same thing, babies and all.

It will come to you!

PS: this is not me throwing my hat in the ring! My baby-making days are over

I just love what you wrote and wanted to tell you to hang in there!

[crashhere4eva]

Originally Posted by Anya/Georgia

Crash, any woman that would fall for you will be fortunate indeed! It is clear that you have a loving heart and are looking for the "real thing".

I know there are many femmes on here that are single, are around your age, or younger and looking for the same thing, babies and all.

It will come to you!

PS: this is not me throwing my hat in the ring! My baby-making days are over

I just love what you wrote and wanted to tell you to hang in there!

Anya,
Thank you Doll . Yes, I am very loving and do want the "real thing" but I can be stubborn, prideful, suspicious, and impatient. Howeva, yes they would be fortunate because I would be steadfast. I have met many many many wonderful Femmes and have been blessed with their affection and attention. The key is 4 things: 1. Single (I won't get with anyone who is taken or who is trying to get to me before they break up with someone else). How you get you girl is how you lose your girl. 2. Mutual attraction 3. Steadfastness, constancy 4. Putting up with me! lol
As for the baby thing, I would love to have babies with someone but I know at my age that may not happen. I do love children and would welcome dating a single mother as well of course. I do not neccassarily have to have kids and babies. My main objective is a wife, one wife foreva. No need to keep hats on LOL

[sweetiefemme]

Originally Posted by crashhere4eva

Anya,
Thank you Doll . Yes, I am very loving and do want the "real thing" but I can be stubborn, prideful, suspicious, and impatient. Howeva, yes they would be fortunate because I would be steadfast. I have met many many many wonderful Femmes and have been blessed with their affection and attention. The key is 4 things: 1. Single (I won't get with anyone who is taken or who is trying to get to me before they break up with someone else). How you get you girl is how you lose your girl. 2. Mutual attraction 3. Steadfastness, constancy 4. Putting up with me! lol
As for the baby thing, I would love to have babies with someone but I know at my age that may not happen. I do love children and would welcome dating a single mother as well of course. I do not neccassarily have to have kids and babies. My main objective is a wife, one wife foreva. No need to keep hats on LOL

I completely agree with #1, I won't date someone who is hungup on or still dating/married to someone else. #2 there has to be attraction. #3 I call that devotion (my favorite word) As for #4 I think in any relationship comes with the need to 'put up' with one another to some degree. Each of us come with quirks. You will find your very special wife, you seem like a great boi!

[Sweet_Amor_Taino]

Originally Posted by crashhere4eva

Anya,
Thank you Doll . Yes, I am very loving and do want the "real thing" but I can be stubborn, prideful, suspicious, and impatient. Howeva, yes they would be fortunate because I would be steadfast. I have met many many many wonderful Femmes and have been blessed with their affection and attention. The key is 4 things: 1. Single (I won't get with anyone who is taken or who is trying to get to me before they break up with someone else). How you get you girl is how you lose your girl. 2. Mutual attraction 3. Steadfastness, constancy 4. Putting up with me! lol
As for the baby thing, I would love to have babies with someone but I know at my age that may not happen. I do love children and would welcome dating a single mother as well of course. I do not neccassarily have to have kids and babies. My main objective is a wife, one wife foreva. No need to keep hats on LOL

You are so right my freind !!