What TO DO in a relationship.....

Corkey · 09-22-2011, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Ebon

What's that now?

Q-tips?

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ruffryder · 09-22-2011, 05:40 PM

DON'T GIVE UP ON SOMEONE YOU CAN'T GO A DAY WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT.

HOLD HER AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE AND JUST BE.

Lazy Daze · 09-23-2011, 05:44 AM

Do what works for you and your partner, don't let others tell you how your relationship Should be.

Laugh together everyday at all the crazy stuff you encounter

Share everything~ feelings, the bed, the covers (hint hint honey!), even your ice cream cone

Don't be afraid, don't expect to be hurt, don't keep your guard up. They are not your past, and they shouldn't have to pay for what the past has done to you

Communicate!!!

Love with all you have, and accept the love you are given~ he has shown me what it is truly like to be LOVED and I am completely in love with him bc of it

Tawse · 09-23-2011, 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Lazy Daze

Share everything~ even your ice cream cone

She better not touch my ice cream.. them's fighten words.. O.o I'll buy her her own ice cream.. or make her her own dish... O.o lol

somethings are just sacred lol

Lazy Daze · 09-23-2011, 06:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Tawse

She better not touch my ice cream.. them's fighten words.. O.o I'll buy her her own ice cream.. or make her her own dish... O.o lol

somethings are just sacred lol

His ice cream and gelatto always tastes waaaaaaay better than mine tho! Lol

Tawse · 09-23-2011, 06:57 AM

LOL Funny enough - that's what Gillian always says.. even if we order the same ice cream.

I've also noticed when we order appetizers - she eats all the food on "my" side of the bowl/plate before starting on her side...

I have my eye on you ladies... lol

Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 07:19 AM

Make time for each other..........and the other side of that token - make time for yourselves.

No one can *be* your everything - do all the things you like to do together, but don't forget you had friends and family before the relationship.....make time for them just as you did before.

Tuck lil notes in their lunchbox, bag, purse etc

Be silly together - Life is too short to be too serious all the the time.

Be each other's support system, even if you can't mend the hurt or upset, you can listen and just be there for them.

Be you always - You are the person they fell for -

Accept them as they are - if you've made the right decision you don't need to try to change them.

Be true to him/her and most of all be true to yourself.

If you argue - be kind - words hurt, name calling hurts....

Go to neutral corners until you can comunicate on adult levels -

Most of all - love with with all you have, but always love yourself as much.

Remember they fell in love with you - not the you they want you to be.

Remember you fell in love with them, not the them you want them to be.

LaneyDoll · 09-23-2011, 07:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Abigail Crabby

If you argue - be kind - words hurt, name calling hurts....

OMG you are so right!!! Even words that seem harmless carry a huge sting. I will get over the fight but those words stick. I always wonder, "Do I really seem needy/ridiculous/mean?"

Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

OMG you are so right!!! Even words that seem harmless carry a huge sting. I will get over the fight but those words stick. I always wonder, "Do I really seem needy/ridiculous/mean?"

Indeed, is there ever a reason to call someone stupid or be hateful. How can someone say they love you when all that comes from their mouth are obscenties about you?

Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Tawse

She better not touch my ice cream.. them's fighten words.. O.o I'll buy her her own ice cream.. or make her her own dish... O.o lol

somethings are just sacred lol

I don't know if I could stick to that lol - I just know the Meester is gonna buy something I didn't think I wanted and now do want. hehehehehe

Bard · 09-23-2011, 08:04 AM

I share my Ice Cream with Desd and she with me unless she get some icky mix that is then she is on her own
we just have to watch out for the ice cream sniffing cat who will beg and try everything to get a lick

Lazy Daze · 09-23-2011, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Bard

I share my Ice Cream with Desd and she with me unless she get some icky mix that is then she is on her own
we just have to watch out for the ice cream sniffing cat who will beg and try everything to get a lick

Desd is as lucky as me! I eat his yummy chocolate gelatto and ice cream, and then go eat the flavors he buys for me!

Tawse · 09-23-2011, 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Abigail Crabby

I don't know if I could stick to that lol - I just know the Meester is gonna buy something I didn't think I wanted and now do want. hehehehehe

Gillian can't stand dark chocolate - but just let me get some new dark chocolate something or another - she HAS to have a taste. I tell her "you won't like it" but she doesn't care. So she gets it.. tries it.. spits it out and all I can do is mourn the death of that bit of dark chocolate she spit out.

Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Tawse

Gillian can't stand dark chocolate - but just let me get some new dark chocolate something or another - she HAS to have a taste. I tell her "you won't like it" but she doesn't care. So she gets it.. tries it.. spits it out and all I can do is mourn the death of that bit of dark chocolate she spit out.

OMG that is just not right !!!! Dark Chocolate is to be revered and savored.........I mourn with you my friend.......but I do understand her need to try.....it's innate......Yours just might taste better than mine lol

09-23-2011, 05:44 AM	#3
Lazy Daze Member How Do You Identify?: * Preferred Pronoun?: * Relationship Status: * Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: * Posts: 1,036 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,665 Thanked 2,808 Times in 745 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Do what works for you and your partner, don't let others tell you how your relationship Should be. Laugh together everyday at all the crazy stuff you encounter Share everything~ feelings, the bed, the covers (hint hint honey!), even your ice cream cone Don't be afraid, don't expect to be hurt, don't keep your guard up. They are not your past, and they shouldn't have to pay for what the past has done to you Communicate!!! Love with all you have, and accept the love you are given~ he has shown me what it is truly like to be LOVED and I am completely in love with him bc of it __________________ *In a world where you can be anything..be Yourself*

09-23-2011, 07:19 AM	#7
Abigail Crabby Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Princess Relationship Status: Single, but sociable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mount Airy, NC Posts: 4,226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,554 Thanked 9,668 Times in 2,484 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Make time for each other..........and the other side of that token - make time for yourselves. No one can be your everything - do all the things you like to do together, but don't forget you had friends and family before the relationship.....make time for them just as you did before. Tuck lil notes in their lunchbox, bag, purse etc Be silly together - Life is too short to be too serious all the the time. Be each other's support system, even if you can't mend the hurt or upset, you can listen and just be there for them. Be you always - You are the person they fell for - Accept them as they are - if you've made the right decision you don't need to try to change them. Be true to him/her and most of all be true to yourself. If you argue - be kind - words hurt, name calling hurts.... Go to neutral corners until you can comunicate on adult levels - Most of all - love with with all you have, but always love yourself as much. Remember they fell in love with you - not the you they want you to be. Remember you fell in love with them, not the them you want them to be. __________________ Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust Turns whatever happens to you into a positive...

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09-22-2011, 05:40 PM	#2
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09-23-2011, 06:57 AM	#6
Tawse Member How Do You Identify?: TG Gender Queer Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Atlanta Posts: 730 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,973 Thanked 2,733 Times in 642 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	LOL Funny enough - that's what Gillian always says.. even if we order the same ice cream. I've also noticed when we order appetizers - she eats all the food on "my" side of the bowl/plate before starting on her side... I have my eye on you ladies... lol