What if you don't like Butch Cock?

[Apocalipstic]

Originally Posted by Just_G

Thank you for being so open to discuss this. Nothing wrong with taking things slow to see what happens...that, in itself, could be quite sexy and fun.

I am quite the opposite, penetration was painful prior to my hysto, but now...whoa! I had to go 38 years without THAT?! Now I have lost time to make up for! Though I don't prefer butch cock; it's just not for me....femme cock is from time to time.

Thank you so much for being a Gentleman and hearing what I had to say!

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by princessbelle

So yeah back to topic.

I happen to love BC. However, when i first came out to myself as a lesbian, oh so many moons ago, I didn't like it at all. Or should i say i didn't like the "idea" of it. Maybe i was going through the acceptance phase and i just didn't understand it. It felt male to me. I was shocked the first time i even knew it existed. Call me green, i sure was. I didn't make the connection it was part of my partners body. Now it is a no brainer for me and "it" just totally is part of my partner's body, no doubt about it.

It took a few years to wrap my head around it. I can certainly understand why some people may not like it at all. To each his/hys/her own for sure.

Curious if any one else went through anything similar?

Now i love it and can't imagine life or a relationship without it. But it was a journey.

Shit.

So THAT'S what I've been doing wrong.

And here, all this time, I've been wrapping my hands and mouth and well........around it.

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

*sigh* I'm the one who cross posted to show no one was saying they didn't like butch cock, no other reason.

You weren't the only one.

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

OK so back on topic.

I like BC, but since my hysterectomy am afraid of it.

In my last relationship I was the more likely of us to strap on and I love that. Penetration leading up to and after my hysto has mostly been painful and I am really hesitant to see if my penetration with BC days are over. Kind of tortured about it to be honest.

I have slept with one person since then where penetration was comfortable and very pleasurable, but no BC was involved, except for orally which I quite enjoyed. I thought I was dead as a woman before this, and will always be eternally grateful to this person for making me feel whole again.

When the time is right, I hope to take it really slow with a kind and patient lover and see what happens. It messes with my head to have painful sex.

So yes, I like BC, but am not sure what place it will play in my life in the future.

Start small! There's no shame in being a member of the club.

At least, that's what they tell me.

Originally Posted by BullDog

I find the idea of starting a thread for others to be a strange concept- especially a spin-off from another thread and if it is on a topic that doesn't pertain to the person starting it. In my opinion people should just start threads that are of interest to them and not presume to know what others need or want to talk about.

I've done it and I'll probably do it again, cuz I'm nosy, pushy, and controlling like that.



Now, to be perfectly honest, I have cycles in which I can't get enough of it and then there are periods of time when I just don't feel the need.

Wow. It only took me 5 minutes, but I finally wound up on topic. Wee!