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Old 10-03-2011, 05:38 PM   #1
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sitting at the beach, or on the beach...seeing the dolphins frolic in multiples....smiles
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The beach.
Flying a kite.
The woods.
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Old 10-03-2011, 06:39 PM   #4
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something i dont do nearly enough---going to the beach.....just walking up the path to the beach,the sound of the waves i can actually start to feel all the negative crap starting to slip away....sometimes if i let things build up,and dont go for a long time,then usually i have to spend some time there for it to work its magic,but it always works!

also-sometimes-just driving in the car,windows down,music blaring!
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Walking on a dirt trail in the woods along side a creek with dog in tow. Or biking on a dirt trail in the woods.

Driving with the top down.

Sitting on the beach watching the waves.
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A few months ago, I began meditating every morning........I love it!

I meditate with special, quiet and soothing music (no lyrics).
That gives me peace for the rest of my day.

I paint. That gives me massive amounts of peace.

Third, while it has been a difficult task at times, I found that toxic people took away my peace, so I got rid of those who brought toxicity to my life. Easier said than done. But well worth it.

I am peace~filled and happy. LIFE. IS. GOOD!

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The quietness and peace one can sense in my church sanctuary on a weekday afternoon when the outside world is way too stressed.

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Understanding pain so I can recognize and dwell in happiness and joy.
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Old 10-03-2011, 11:20 PM   #10
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