Butch Buyers Guide

BullDog · 02-02-2010, 02:00 PM

This harness is so damn comfortable and it's machine washable.

http://store.babeland.com/harnesses-...-joque-harness

MsDemeanor · 02-02-2010, 02:26 PM

I thought that this thread would be about buying butches, a sort of shopper's guide for the single femme or for someone looking to trade in on a newer model.

My bad.

Abigail Crabby · 02-02-2010, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by MsDemeanor

I thought that this thread would be about buying butches, a sort of shopper's guide for the single femme or for someone looking to trade in on a newer model.

My bad.

me

Me too - rushed right in with my wallet and some 50% off coupoons

Kimbo · 02-02-2010, 08:22 PM

A must in every butch's accessory bag

The cup can be a bit big and they are great to wear under leather and I love the way they fit...

They also really enhance my experience because I feel more.. I'd highly recommend them.

http://www.qtantra.com/store/index.p...products_id=76

Write14u · 02-02-2010, 08:54 PM

Aslanleather.com is pretty good. They're the makers of much of the leather stuff you see on other sites, anyway.
The jaguar is a nice one.

Hack, the spandex harness that Christie posted up higher seems to allow for balls out, although, I think aesthetically speaking, I like the one Kimbo linked to (but that's just me.)

I just bought the same packing harness you did but haven't worn it yet. How do you like it?

Hack · 02-02-2010, 09:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Write14u

Aslanleather.com is pretty good. They're the makers of much of the leather stuff you see on other sites, anyway.
The jaguar is a nice one.

Hack, the spandex harness that Christie posted up higher seems to allow for balls out, although, I think aesthetically speaking, I like the one Kimbo linked to (but that's just me.)

I just bought the same packing harness you did but haven't worn it yet. How do you like it?

I find it to be quite comfortable if I remember to wear it low. I have a tendency to want to "hitch" everything up. lol But I if I just wear it low, where it naturally sits, it is easy to wear. The times I've tried to wear it higher made everything feel...askew...if you know what I mean.

Jess · 02-03-2010, 05:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kimbo

A must in every butch's accessory bag

The cup can be a bit big and they are great to wear under leather and I love the way they fit...

They also really enhance my experience because I feel more.. I'd highly recommend them.

http://www.qtantra.com/store/index.p...products_id=76

Had this one for years, the only issue I had with it during sex was the "snaps" were rather uncomfortable for my partner. There is good "ow" and bad "OW"...

DapperButch · 02-03-2010, 08:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kimbo

A must in every butch's accessory bag

The cup can be a bit big and they are great to wear under leather and I love the way they fit...

They also really enhance my experience because I feel more.. I'd highly recommend them.

http://www.qtantra.com/store/index.p...products_id=76

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jess

Had this one for years, the only issue I had with it during sex was the "snaps" were rather uncomfortable for my partner. There is good "ow" and bad "OW"...

I have used these shorts too, and although the snap problem makes sense (and is a good point of caution), my partner (ex) never said this was a problem for her.

However, again, I am a big Terra Firma fan, so I was never using these shorts on a regular basis with a partner.

AtLast · 02-02-2010, 10:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsDemeanor

I thought that this thread would be about buying butches, a sort of shopper's guide for the single femme or for someone looking to trade in on a newer model.

My bad.

ROLF!!! Hey, I clicked over thinking it was butch fashion thread!!!

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Originally Posted by Abigail Crabby

me

Me too - rushed right in with my wallet and some 50% off coupoons

Double ROLF!!! But, no coupons!

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Originally Posted by Write14u

It is pretty comfortable, but if you're bigger, beware because it doesn't tighten up that well. Go smaller on it. I wish I had bought the smaller version.

Bully- I love this model. It is great for those of us that just don't like the feel (and smell) of leather. I find it to be very comfortable, easy to clean and no problems with control. And my comment has nothing to do with anyone's style of sexuality. LOL.... and the sound of cinching and uncinching can be a great post-sex conversation starter!

Thinking about the royalties on the terra-firma... used one for a long time and remember when it was practically the only made! Really glad to see harnesses out now that are not made from leaather, though. Feel like I have a choice.

violaine · 02-03-2010, 04:39 PM

[QUOTE=MsDemeanor;43312]I thought that this thread would be about buying butches, a sort of shopper's guide for the single femme or for someone looking to trade in on a newer model.

My bad.

Write14u · 02-02-2010, 02:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BullDog

This harness is so damn comfortable and it's machine washable.

http://store.babeland.com/harnesses-...-joque-harness

It is pretty comfortable, but if you're bigger, beware because it doesn't tighten up that well. Go smaller on it. I wish I had bought the smaller version.

BullDog · 02-02-2010, 03:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Write14u

It is pretty comfortable, but if you're bigger, beware because it doesn't tighten up that well. Go smaller on it. I wish I had bought the smaller version.

I got the large. According to the chart I could have gone with either size and didn't have a problem tightening it for me, but smaller one might have worked for me too. I think it's very comfortable and it does stretch so probably the small would work for most who fit within that size waist range they recommend.

Hack · 02-02-2010, 05:00 PM

Maybe I'm old school, but I've long been a fan of the Terra Firma for sexual activities. I recently bought a very comfortable harness for packing, and it was fairly inexpensive. It's called the Undercover Harness on the babeland site. I pack with the Goodfella, and this harness works great, and is easily the most comfortable I've used. I took at a look at the Spareparts harness, but I prefer to, um...wear my balls outside the harness. The Spareparts harness doesn't really allow for that. But it did look really comfortable.

IrishGrrl · 02-02-2010, 06:42 PM

My harness is the Tera Firma, and I love it!

BullDog · 02-02-2010, 07:02 PM

I have the terra firma too. It's a great harness, but my new one is a lot more comfortable.

DapperButch · 02-02-2010, 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hack

Maybe I'm old school, but I've long been a fan of the Terra Firma for sexual activities. I recently bought a very comfortable harness for packing, and it was fairly inexpensive. It's called the Undercover Harness on the babeland site. I pack with the Goodfella, and this harness works great, and is easily the most comfortable I've used. I took at a look at the Spareparts harness, but I prefer to, um...wear my balls outside the harness. The Spareparts harness doesn't really allow for that. But it did look really comfortable.

Old School Harness wearer too...Terra Firma - tight against the body and stays in place no matter what!

Hack · 02-02-2010, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

Old School Harness wearer too...Terra Firma - tight against the body and stays in place no matter what!

I hear ya, Dapper. I like to strap tight too. Better cock control.

DapperButch · 02-02-2010, 09:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hack

I hear ya, Dapper. I like to strap tight too. Better cock control.

Exactly.

Jess · 02-03-2010, 05:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hack

Maybe I'm old school, but I've long been a fan of the Terra Firma for sexual activities. I recently bought a very comfortable harness for packing, and it was fairly inexpensive. It's called the Undercover Harness on the babeland site. I pack with the Goodfella, and this harness works great, and is easily the most comfortable I've used. I took at a look at the Spareparts harness, but I prefer to, um...wear my balls outside the harness. The Spareparts harness doesn't really allow for that. But it did look really comfortable.

Are you using the vixskin Goodfella? I find it a bit to em, firm for everyday packing. Great for fucking , anal and blow jobs... not so much for packing. At least for me.

The shorts type harness Christie linked does allow for balls out.

Still looking for the perfect pack and play ( for me).

Jess · 02-03-2010, 05:43 PM

Do we have a fashion thread? Or can we use this space for that also?

Need to find some clothing sites that offer well rounded apparel. Casual, dress, etc for folks my age. I will wear some clothes that are fairly youthful, but at 46 , I don't tend to like a lot of today's styles.

"Pants on the ground, pants on the ground.. lookin like a fool with your pants on the ground"!

The girl says I need to stop shopping the clearance rack at Wally World or thrift stores... Any ideas folks?

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Kimbo Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Eligible Butchelor Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Seattle Posts: 591 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 432 Thanked 551 Times in 257 Posts Rep Power: 119	A must in every butch's accessory bag The cup can be a bit big and they are great to wear under leather and I love the way they fit... They also really enhance my experience because I feel more.. I'd highly recommend them. http://www.qtantra.com/store/index.p...products_id=76

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