What TO DO in a relationship.....

girl_dee · 10-17-2011, 05:54 AM

have great wild spontaneous SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sachita · 10-17-2011, 06:51 AM

give each other space and don't smother.
Really like each other

ONLY · 10-17-2011, 06:59 AM

Know how she likes her coffee and have it set to brew just in time for her to enjoy before she heads off to work.......also set YOUR clock to wake at least half hour BEFORE the coffee starts to brew so you have time to.......well.....have time to show her just how much you know her and loooooooooove her and then enjoy coffee in bed. So worth waking up a couple of hours before you have to leave for work

*Anya* · 10-17-2011, 07:49 AM

To risk your heart, your vulnerability, your feelings...

even if it does not work out for you.

No regrets for trying.

girl_dee · 10-17-2011, 01:54 PM

dont get into ruts!!!

ONLY · 10-19-2011, 08:06 PM

Draw her a bath in the evening... her book within reach or the cd player with her favorite cd in it (a choice to what she prefers that evening), candles (a scent she enjoys, I would put lavender for my girl ), a glass of wine (a drink she enjoys, my lady happens to enjoy a glass of wine) and do this just because.........and depending on how things go, you can go and see her after while and just sit beside her by the tub........and have the bed made up with fresh new sheets and more candles and ready for some loooooovemaking

princessbelle · 10-19-2011, 08:08 PM

Be present in the time you have together and make sure the other person knows what they mean to you.

Never forget to tell your partner you appreciate the little things.

Starbuck · 10-27-2011, 01:54 AM

Be honest! Don't carry something around in your head, not letting your partner know. It just makes the inevitable that much more painful.

Soft*Silver · 10-27-2011, 02:57 PM

chose her above any friend you might have. ANY friend. Make HER your best friend. Its ok to have other friends,important to have other friends, but not at the cost of your relationship

be faithful. Or get out. Either way you are the hero in your relationship. Even if you dont follow thru but want to, know she Knows you want to. It hurts. Like Dee said, if you need out, get out, dont make her suffer because you lack balls to be a hero in your relationship.

like yourself more than she loves you. Dont let her carry your self esteem. She isnt strong enuf, no matter how strong she is

10-17-2011, 06:51 AM	#2
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,992 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	give each other space and don't smother. Really like each other __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

10-17-2011, 06:59 AM	#3
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139964	Know how she likes her coffee and have it set to brew just in time for her to enjoy before she heads off to work.......also set YOUR clock to wake at least half hour BEFORE the coffee starts to brew so you have time to.......well.....have time to show her just how much you know her and loooooooooove her and then enjoy coffee in bed. So worth waking up a couple of hours before you have to leave for work __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

10-17-2011, 07:49 AM	#4
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,449 Times in 7,284 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Don't be afraid... To risk your heart, your vulnerability, your feelings... even if it does not work out for you. No regrets for trying. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

10-19-2011, 08:06 PM	#6
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139964	Draw her a bath in the evening... her book within reach or the cd player with her favorite cd in it (a choice to what she prefers that evening), candles (a scent she enjoys, I would put lavender for my girl ), a glass of wine (a drink she enjoys, my lady happens to enjoy a glass of wine) and do this just because.........and depending on how things go, you can go and see her after while and just sit beside her by the tub........and have the bed made up with fresh new sheets and more candles and ready for some loooooovemaking __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

10-19-2011, 08:08 PM	#7
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,496 Times in 5,198 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Be present in the time you have together and make sure the other person knows what they mean to you. Never forget to tell your partner you appreciate the little things. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

10-17-2011, 05:54 AM	#1
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10-17-2011, 01:54 PM	#5
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,830 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	dont get into ruts!!!

10-27-2011, 01:54 AM	#8
Starbuck Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Soft Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Oklahoma City Posts: 2,436 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,378 Thanked 2,148 Times in 756 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Be honest! Don't carry something around in your head, not letting your partner know. It just makes the inevitable that much more painful. __________________ To forgive is to set the prisoner free, And then discover the prisoner was you.

10-27-2011, 02:57 PM	#9
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,903 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	chose her above any friend you might have. ANY friend. Make HER your best friend. Its ok to have other friends,important to have other friends, but not at the cost of your relationship be faithful. Or get out. Either way you are the hero in your relationship. Even if you dont follow thru but want to, know she Knows you want to. It hurts. Like Dee said, if you need out, get out, dont make her suffer because you lack balls to be a hero in your relationship. like yourself more than she loves you. Dont let her carry your self esteem. She isnt strong enuf, no matter how strong she is __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears