Your Death and Post-Death Preferences

Apocalipstic · 10-24-2011, 08:21 AM

I don't want to die alone.
Thats all for now

More later.

tapu · 10-24-2011, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Apocalipstic

I don't want to die alone.
Thats all for now

More later.

Do you mean, like, die alone in the frozen tundra? Or, die alone without a lover there?

Andrea · 10-24-2011, 08:55 AM

As others have said: Harvest what can be used and then cremate me. Place me as close to Rene as possible. Preferably within his arms. This is if Rene goes first.

If I go first Rene gets to decide because my wishes go against his religion and I don't wish to put him through that.

No funeral. We agree on that. A celebration of life would be a nice touch but not required.

princessbelle · 10-24-2011, 08:58 AM

I have one rule in my relationship...that's that i go first.

I do not want to be left alone. Send me out with a song, a toast and a tip of your hat. I'd much rather be "over there" than here by myself.

hot-not · 10-24-2011, 09:04 AM

I love love love to have parties and I entertain frequently. When I die I want my friends to threw the biggest damn party I have ever had; loud music, outside fire, dancing, drinking, meeting new people, quiet places to talk, fun games to play... I want them to party as though I am there ...

My body was a vessel - when I die give it to whom ever may benefit from it and burn the rest.... it anyone needs to see my dead body for psychological acceptance that I am gone--see it fast cause there will be no funeral or viewing of the body.

If I die very old-- I son will have to have his children and their children throw the party... Smiiles

Apocalipstic · 10-24-2011, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by tapu

Do you mean, like, die alone in the frozen tundra? Or, die alone without a lover there?

Now that you mention it, I would prefer not do freeze to death.

lol!!!!

It does not have to be a lover, but I would like someone I love to be holding my hand as I dies, yes.

I would like to be cremated with icons of the Virgen de la Guadalupe and my ashes maybe added to a coral reef, something water related.

I would like "I am the Walrus" to be played.

macele · 10-24-2011, 02:11 PM

i am a donor.

i don't want to be viewed, nor do i want to be at a funeral home. i want a service held at the church, ... this is for my mother and daddy. i want their lives to remember with mine. preach, sing, play the piano, ... the old-fashioned southern way. this is not about just me.

i want to be buried. because i'm going to rise again. like a phoenix! where i am buried, i don't mind.

make me comfortable. mesh shorts and a white tshirt. socks, i want brand new socks on lol.

life should be remembered. memory is one of our greatest gifts. i just hope the memories of me are remembered in caring, in competition, in imagination, in written words, celebrated with laughter and tears. yes, tears. i love tears.

Queerasfck · 10-24-2011, 02:16 PM

Organ donor-yes
cremated-yes
ashes thrown out over Heinz Field-hell yes!

10-24-2011, 08:21 AM	#1
Apocalipstic Pink Confection How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dating Myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 4,266 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,195 Thanked 11,362 Times in 2,838 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I don't want to die alone. Thats all for now More later. __________________

10-24-2011, 08:55 AM	#3
Andrea Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mature Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Her/She Relationship Status: I heart Rene Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: California Posts: 3,755 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,427 Thanked 14,939 Times in 3,022 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	As others have said: Harvest what can be used and then cremate me. Place me as close to Rene as possible. Preferably within his arms. This is if Rene goes first. If I go first Rene gets to decide because my wishes go against his religion and I don't wish to put him through that. No funeral. We agree on that. A celebration of life would be a nice touch but not required. __________________ I am very spoiled! What we think about and thank about, we bring about! Today I will treat my body with love and respect.

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princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,496 Times in 5,198 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I have one rule in my relationship...that's that i go first. I do not want to be left alone. Send me out with a song, a toast and a tip of your hat. I'd much rather be "over there" than here by myself. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

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hot-not Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minneapolis MN Posts: 363 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 42 Thanked 227 Times in 53 Posts Rep Power: 2429387	Party like I am there!! I love love love to have parties and I entertain frequently. When I die I want my friends to threw the biggest damn party I have ever had; loud music, outside fire, dancing, drinking, meeting new people, quiet places to talk, fun games to play... I want them to party as though I am there ... My body was a vessel - when I die give it to whom ever may benefit from it and burn the rest.... it anyone needs to see my dead body for psychological acceptance that I am gone--see it fast cause there will be no funeral or viewing of the body. If I die very old-- I son will have to have his children and their children throw the party... Smiiles

10-24-2011, 02:16 PM	#8
Queerasfck Senior Member How Do You Identify?: still ballin' Relationship Status: Triple X Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west side Posts: 2,544 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,716 Thanked 6,488 Times in 1,638 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	the rumors are true Organ donor-yes cremated-yes ashes thrown out over Heinz Field-hell yes! __________________ http://www.advertisingarchives.co.uk...28750fb328.jpg

10-24-2011, 02:11 PM	#7
macele Member How Do You Identify?: a bold-assed maximus Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: mississippi Posts: 1,066 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,178 Thanked 3,231 Times in 847 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	i am a donor. i don't want to be viewed, nor do i want to be at a funeral home. i want a service held at the church, ... this is for my mother and daddy. i want their lives to remember with mine. preach, sing, play the piano, ... the old-fashioned southern way. this is not about just me. i want to be buried. because i'm going to rise again. like a phoenix! where i am buried, i don't mind. make me comfortable. mesh shorts and a white tshirt. socks, i want brand new socks on lol. life should be remembered. memory is one of our greatest gifts. i just hope the memories of me are remembered in caring, in competition, in imagination, in written words, celebrated with laughter and tears. yes, tears. i love tears.