Hello to all in overseas.

Ebon · 10-28-2011, 12:22 PM

Hello Vlasta and welcome. You can be yourself here.

WolfyOne · 10-28-2011, 12:35 PM

((((((Vlasta))))))

You can talk or write anyway you want around me
I don't care at all, but of course, you already know that
Sometimes I think some just don't or can't take the time to understand
There are plenty of peeps here that WILL GET YOU and take the time to know you

I for one, am glad that you're posting here again
I get to see your posts every day on FB, but you've been missed here, too

Please, this time around, don't let anyone chase you away
If you need help expressing yourself and can't find correct or adequate words, just ask
I know that once someone knows YOU, they'll adore you as much as some of us have over the years

Thinker · 10-28-2011, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Vlasta

Thank you so much for your reply Thinker

and welcome I just always felt I am not welcome here. Honest! I am really in a deep depression what to do with my life right now. I don't belong here and the same time I can't go back to my country. I am getting old to start all over again. I had done this one too many times in my life. I lived in a few different countries, yet I no longer have that strength. I have a need to be myself even if anyone disagrees with my views. I am coming from different society.

My house in GA isn't option to rent. I owe two other houses in SC and renting was just a disaster, more money after renters. I wouldn't get even my mortgage if I rent my home due to a present economy I have very good financing rate 4.1 since I bough points to lower my rate .

As , I am getting old I have some medical issues and as a nurse clinician I am lucky to work for one of the best Atlanta hospitals where technology and doctors are experienced and they are my friends taking a good care of me .
Atlanta is a gay men town. I believe it’s due to socioeconomics issues. Lesbians are much in disadvantage in many cases. I feel it’s so wrong, but that’s the way it is here.

I am sorry that people thinking I am a moron due to my English writing and the same time I do understand. I am equally picky in my language about writing, context and spelling.

thanks again for your reply and being supportive .

Vlasta

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

((((((Vlasta))))))

You can talk or write anyway you want around me
I don't care at all, but of course, you already know that
Sometimes I think some just don't or can't take the time to understand
There are plenty of peeps here that WILL GET YOU and take the time to know you

I for one, am glad that you're posting here again
I get to see your posts every day on FB, but you've been missed here, too

Please, this time around, don't let anyone chase you away
If you need help expressing yourself and can't find correct or adequate words, just ask
I know that once someone knows YOU, they'll adore you as much as some of us have over the years

No way!! Don't let anyone chase you off! And if people treat you badly because of something so beautiful as language then here's something real effective to tell them in English........

Ready?

Tell them, "Hey! Eff off d-bag!!"

And then go on your merry way.

You've always been a sharp, savvy, sophisticated lady around these parts. Don't let anyone ever tell you differently!

Vlasta · 10-28-2011, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

((((((Vlasta))))))

You can talk or write anyway you want around me
I don't care at all, but of course, you already know that
Sometimes I think some just don't or can't take the time to understand
There are plenty of peeps here that WILL GET YOU and take the time to know you

I for one, am glad that you're posting here again
I get to see your posts every day on FB, but you've been missed here, too

Please, this time around, don't let anyone chase you away
If you need help expressing yourself and can't find correct or adequate words, just ask
I know that once someone knows YOU, they'll adore you as much as some of us have over the years

(((( Wolfy)))... back at ya

You are the one with such good heart and my savior always. I will never forget when we met six years ago and you with Mo dealt with my 300 lb suitcases.... lol. What a nightmare

Yes, I and you battle on FB almost daily since I have been home. However, FB is full of drama and some people on my friends list plastered on my wall things that could been simply send by message. Needless to say I unfriend them and to be honest I unfriend everyone from community except few that I know of they integrity and to prevent more episodes like that. I do have my coworkers and friends from overseas that they no need to be reading crap like that.

I am not so sure about being adored ... lol ... I was doomed from day one in community dating someone locally not knowing they have a long distance relationship with other femme . I found out almost two years later and I wrote her letter of apology and finally then I understood why there was so much anger towards me.

Anyway, thanks, love ya and see you on FB in few

Vlasta · 10-28-2011, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Ebon

Hello Vlasta and welcome. You can be yourself here.

Hello Ebon. Thanks for welcome, encouragement and stopping by. I will try to be myself. I have to admit I am not so good at. I have a tendency to keep personal things inside. To some people on the boards I come across as a hard, stuck up person when in the reality, inside I am very sensitive.

I am aware that a written communication is my major obstacle and can be interpreted as a negative reply which wasn’t meant to be.

thanks again

Vlasta

girl_dee · 10-28-2011, 06:28 PM

Vlasta! HI!!!! Welcome !!!!

The_Lady_Snow · 10-28-2011, 06:31 PM

Hey Vlasta!!!

Welcome!!!!!

Bella~Vita · 10-28-2011, 06:44 PM

My Peachhhhhhhhhhh .... welcome

Vlasta · 10-28-2011, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Kat_Fl

My Peachhhhhhhhhhh .... welcome

My Orange !!!!!!

where have you been ? I need to catch up with you .Our regular talks bitching , crying on phone together and much more . I haven't been able to travel a long distance due to my four surgeries on my tumors . I can't sit in car for a long period time yet , but getting there . I would definitelly take your FL weather right now . It's cold here and I don't even want to go out there .

love ya always

Oiler41 · 10-28-2011, 08:36 PM

Hello Vlasta! It's good to see you here! I'm really sorry that you have felt that you were not welcomed here. Perhaps you can give this place another try?? We truly are happy to see you here!

Hugs to you,

Glynn

JoSchmooze · 10-28-2011, 06:47 PM

Welcome Vlasta. May I ask, what is your native tongue? Perhaps if we knew that one of us might have that language in their bag of tricks.

I understand about being too old to feel like you can't start all over again. It's difficult, this growing old business. Why California? Perhaps you could talk with us about that one - to start with....

Don't let anyone chase you off. Hang in there, read the threads and contribute what you want to. Relax, because this group of people have no intention of running anyone off! Perhaps we might even be able to find you some lesbian community there in Atlanta!

Again, welcome!

The_Lady_Snow · 10-28-2011, 07:02 PM

If anyone harrases you Vlasta you can report it to the Moderators!!!

Vlasta · 10-28-2011, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Hey Vlasta!!!

Welcome!!!!!

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

If anyone harrases you Vlasta you can report it to the Moderators!!!

Hi sexy thang! I know I can report someone even it's not my style. However, I can't say I have been harassed by anyone on boards in the past.

Yet, my reason for leaving before, I felt, I was being moderated lil too much. After few posts I was given advice in other words to shut f up. It really hurt my feelings since there were some that posted things that my hair went straight up on my head.

I will do some reading here and not to be jumping into discussions without any knowledge. I was looking your pictures in gallery and you look great. I am proud of myself, because I gained some weight and I am no longer asked if I have bulimia..lol

hugs to ya

Vlasta · 10-28-2011, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee

Vlasta! HI!!!! Welcome !!!!

Back at ya

. I know , I know I should listen to your advice back then . I am not even sure if you remember .

10-28-2011, 12:22 PM	#1
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10-28-2011, 12:35 PM	#2
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,392 Times in 4,138 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	((((((Vlasta)))))) You can talk or write anyway you want around me I don't care at all, but of course, you already know that Sometimes I think some just don't or can't take the time to understand There are plenty of peeps here that WILL GET YOU and take the time to know you I for one, am glad that you're posting here again I get to see your posts every day on FB, but you've been missed here, too Please, this time around, don't let anyone chase you away If you need help expressing yourself and can't find correct or adequate words, just ask I know that once someone knows YOU, they'll adore you as much as some of us have over the years __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

10-28-2011, 06:31 PM	#7
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JoSchmooze Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He, hym, mister or "sir", like I get called by strangers! Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Right here, surrounded by technology Posts: 1,830 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19,267 Thanked 10,989 Times in 1,627 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	*Welcome Vlasta. May I ask, what is your native tongue? Perhaps if we knew that one of us might have that language in their bag of tricks.* I understand about being too old to feel like you can't start all over again. It's difficult, this growing old business. Why California? Perhaps you could talk with us about that one - to start with.... Don't let anyone chase you off. Hang in there, read the threads and contribute what you want to. Relax, because this group of people have no intention of running anyone off! Perhaps we might even be able to find you some lesbian community there in Atlanta! *Again, welcome!* __________________ *Live your life in such a way that* *when your feet hit the floor* *in the morning,* *Satan shudders and* *says, "Oh God, he's up!"*

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10-28-2011, 07:02 PM	#12
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,077 Times in 15,670 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	Idea! If anyone harrases you Vlasta you can report it to the Moderators!!! __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden