The Paranormal

[LaneyDoll]

Originally Posted by TCB

okay so I'm curious to know everyone's thoughts. I would say for the past 1-2 years I have been having dreams of my step-mother.

I'd also been having strange experiences in this house ( she passed away here around 5-6 years ago). The "Activity" has since stopped, nothing has happened in about 9 months. During the period of activity, I was having dreams about her, and I had one recently again.

She and I had a rocky relationship. We weren't on best of terms when she passed due to cancer. When she is in my dreams, she never speaks. I don't know if it's because she can't, or she doesn't want to.
I almost feel like she doesn't see me or she ignores me on purpose. I'm having a hard time figuring it out.

My question is, do you think this has any paranormal relation? Some say the other side can communicate to you through dreams.

Any thoughts?

I think that her silence is a way of telling you that there was nothing left to say. She is showing that she is at peace and perhaps you should be as well.

[Glenn]

I think she still had some issues with you being in her space. I'd try to talk to her. I stayed in an old house for a year and had mean dreams of a man yelling, telling me that he did'nt want anything to change, plus, the usual tapping, thumping, footsteps, doors opening, etc. I described what he looked like to the family and they said it was him. Then I saw the pic, and it was him! Usually though, I had loving dreams, and talked in them with the folks I had bonded deeply with.

[TCB]

Originally Posted by smouldering

Hey TCB, it does sound like the two could be related.. What I am feeling is that she is waiting for you to say something to her in your dreams do you know what i mean? Perhaps she needs for you to tell her that it is okay to speak? OR it could be she's just trying to teach you a lesson lol

i have been having a lot of dreams of my mom and my dad lately, my dad passed in January of 2005 and my mom passed away just this past March.. and n the last week or so my daughter has told me she's heard someone calling her name but then no one is there, while i've been seeing an increase of shadows and orbs.

Hey Smouldering, thanks for the input. I wish I was able to know how to control my dreams and talk to her.....wouldn't that be fun....lol

Originally Posted by ButchEire

If you've seen "An American Haunting," it might explain the activity AKA psychokinetic haunting or psychokinetic paranormal phenomena. It's still a form of haunting, but emanates from the individual and not necessarily from the deceased. Just a theory.

I have seen American Haunting but I don't remember it that vividly. Perhaps I'll need to watch that again. Interesting, thank you

Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

I think that her silence is a way of telling you that there was nothing left to say. She is showing that she is at peace and perhaps you should be as well.

That's an interesting perspective. I know exactly what I'm thinking in these dreams, and it's always the same..."Why the hell won't she talk to me?"
It's almost like she doesn't want to talk to me, I really don't know.

Originally Posted by popcorninthesofa

I think she still had some issues with you being in her space. I'd try to talk to her. I stayed in an old house for a year and had mean dreams of a man yelling, telling me that he did'nt want anything to change, plus, the usual tapping, thumping, footsteps, doors opening, etc. I described what he looked like to the family and they said it was him. Then I saw the pic, and it was him! Usually though, I had loving dreams, and talked in them with the folks I had bonded deeply with.

Any energy I may have felt hasn't been negative so to speak. It's just been there. There really isn't any negativity in the dreams either, she just won't say anything.

It's all very confusing, but quite fascinating to think about!