Ask a trans person!

SelfMadeMan · 11-08-2011, 08:03 PM

I am married to a queer identified woman... she knew I was transitioned when we met - I had been transitioned for years, so even though she didn't have to deal with the person she loved changing genders in the relationship, she did have to deal with how it affected her own identity. She still IDs as queer, she still thinks women are hot, she just happened to fall in love with a transman

As for why a lesbian would date a transman... I don't think we necessarily choose who to love, sometimes love chooses us.

11-08-2011, 08:03 PM	#11
SelfMadeMan Member How Do You Identify?: Transsexual Man Preferred Pronoun?: Male Relationship Status: Married to The Woman of My Dreams <3 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 802 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 796 Thanked 2,668 Times in 527 Posts Rep Power: 18972346	I am married to a queer identified woman... she knew I was transitioned when we met - I had been transitioned for years, so even though she didn't have to deal with the person she loved changing genders in the relationship, she did have to deal with how it affected her own identity. She still IDs as queer, she still thinks women are hot, she just happened to fall in love with a transman As for why a lesbian would date a transman... I don't think we necessarily choose who to love, sometimes love chooses us. Last edited by SelfMadeMan; 11-08-2011 at 08:06 PM.