How to be a femme ally

princessbelle · 11-14-2011, 02:56 PM

Ohhhhhhhhhhh i love the lists!!!!!

I've gained some FABULOUS femme ally relationships this past year and i seriously don't know how i survived without them before that. They are not all necessarily femmes themselves either.

Some more "things".

A Femme Ally:

~ Will tell you "you f*cked up" and help you figure out a way to "unf*ck it".

~ Will hold your hand when you cry just cause you feel like crying.

~ Will keep reminding you how strong you are, even when you don't feel like it.

~ Will advise you when you ask but knows you will make your own decision and be happy for you when you do.

~ Will listen intently when the sound of your voice changes and she/hy/he just "knows" this is important to you even when it seems trivial.

~ Will always answer the phone when you call or at least call you back. It's something you can count on.

~ Will remind you they think you are beautiful. No matter how fat or ugly or bitchy you feel that day.

~ Will just always be there, when the rest of the world has let you down and you feel you don't have a soul who understands.....a femme ally does.

11-14-2011, 02:56 PM	#7
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,497 Times in 5,198 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Ohhhhhhhhhhh i love the lists!!!!! I've gained some FABULOUS femme ally relationships this past year and i seriously don't know how i survived without them before that. They are not all necessarily femmes themselves either. Some more "things". A Femme Ally: ~ Will tell you "you fcked up" and help you figure out a way to "unfck it". ~ Will hold your hand when you cry just cause you feel like crying. ~ Will keep reminding you how strong you are, even when you don't feel like it. ~ Will advise you when you ask but knows you will make your own decision and be happy for you when you do. ~ Will listen intently when the sound of your voice changes and she/hy/he just "knows" this is important to you even when it seems trivial. ~ Will always answer the phone when you call or at least call you back. It's something you can count on. ~ Will remind you they think you are beautiful. No matter how fat or ugly or bitchy you feel that day. ~ Will just always be there, when the rest of the world has let you down and you feel you don't have a soul who understands.....a femme ally does. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou