Letting Go Of Friendships

Gemme · 11-17-2011, 02:35 PM

I've held a grudge and I've let folks go. It depends on the situation as to which method is used.

Holding a grudge requires more energy and time then just letting someone go. When I let them go, I've dwelled on it and have come to the conclusion that it's best that I don't associate with them any longer. Like a thread being cut...snip....they are gone and I rarely give them the mental energy of thinking about them.

Grudges require mental maintenance and are usually short term for me. I get annoyed with keeping the fires stoked and will usually cut them out too, after I hit my snipping point. Whenever and wherever that is for them marks the end of the road for us as a unit, be it friends or lovers or family.

11-17-2011, 02:35 PM	#1
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,926 Times in 25,667 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	I've held a grudge and I've let folks go. It depends on the situation as to which method is used. Holding a grudge requires more energy and time then just letting someone go. When I let them go, I've dwelled on it and have come to the conclusion that it's best that I don't associate with them any longer. Like a thread being cut...snip....they are gone and I rarely give them the mental energy of thinking about them. Grudges require mental maintenance and are usually short term for me. I get annoyed with keeping the fires stoked and will usually cut them out too, after I hit my snipping point. Whenever and wherever that is for them marks the end of the road for us as a unit, be it friends or lovers or family. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.