What TO DO in a relationship..... - Page 15

girl_dee · 11-21-2011, 08:57 PM

Go on trips together, get out of the house and enjoy each other!

Hot monkey sex is a bonus!

bright_arrow · 11-21-2011, 11:29 PM

Remind each other that you are a partnership, not a competition.. and so therefore, it's "One for all and all for one!"

SoulShineFemme · 11-22-2011, 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ONLY

Remember her favorite snacks and .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble
I am teasin' Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny
Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song

I love it when you do these things for me. I am so lucky. XO.

girl_dee · 11-23-2011, 06:14 AM

Greet your love with a warm cup of coffee !!!!

amiyesiam · 11-23-2011, 12:10 PM

do the things that make them happy
especially if those aren't the things you would want done for you.
Feeling like you have been heard and having someone follow up on that is an awesome feeling!

Corkey · 11-23-2011, 01:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amiyesiam

do the things that make them happy
especially if those aren't the things you would want done for you.
Feeling like you have been heard and having someone follow up on that is an awesome feeling!

This.... precisely.

girl_dee · 01-28-2012, 07:44 PM

learn from your mistakes and become a better partner/person

Kenna · 01-28-2012, 07:55 PM

Honor the friendship and familiarity you share... because it's very unique and will never compare or be the same with someone else... allow yourself to enjoy and not regret the connection you share ...don't regret, only relish and respect

girl_dee · 01-28-2012, 07:59 PM

Believe in each other!

Mr Nice Guy · 01-28-2012, 08:26 PM

Be real with each other.

girl_dee · 01-28-2012, 08:40 PM

be the same wonderful person in real time as you are on line

MysticOceansFL · 01-28-2012, 08:50 PM

If you can't be truthful and honest at friendship level how can you be anything else , and also was there ever a friendship to start? It takes time to get to know someone.

princessbelle · 01-28-2012, 09:23 PM

Go to bed together....and cuddle

girl_dee · 02-02-2012, 08:36 PM

write love notes, we love that sorta thing!

softheart · 02-03-2012, 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG

Make promises you keep.
Make yourself easy to love.
Make the one you love feel safe and secure.
No matter what, make the one you love know she is a priority.
Talk about everything, and be brutally honest, even if it's difficult.
Treat her like a queen, and love her in all ways , always.
Build a bond together that noone or no thing can come between .
Apologize for your mistakes, make amends and do better next time. Then make amends again.
Take responsibility for your actions .
Validate her feelings by listening, stop what your doing, even when you're busy and pressed for time.
Always make time for her needs , even if your tired ,injured or bored.
Just a few things I always try to do when I love someone. It doesn't guaranty she won't still choose to walk away, but I don't think it hurts anything.

I love this!

TimilDeeps · 02-03-2012, 09:12 PM

Be real . . . .

Martina · 02-03-2012, 11:33 PM

Keep your car in good repair so you can go visit Her when She wants to see you.

NorCalStud · 02-04-2012, 12:11 AM

Be patient

girl_dee · 02-04-2012, 02:55 PM

be realistic about things you like or don't dislike in the beginning, that annoying small annoying detail will become a monstrosity after you get serious!

~ocean · 02-04-2012, 03:08 PM

have your own friends as well as mutual friends. everyone needs space

11-23-2011, 12:10 PM	#285
amiyesiam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/they Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: pa Posts: 2,703 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,488 Thanked 10,135 Times in 2,161 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	do the things that make them happy especially if those aren't the things you would want done for you. Feeling like you have been heard and having someone follow up on that is an awesome feeling! __________________ A year from now you will wish that you started today~Karen Lamb

01-28-2012, 08:50 PM	#292
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	If you can't be truthful and honest at friendship level how can you be anything else , and also was there ever a friendship to start? It takes time to get to know someone. __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

01-28-2012, 09:23 PM	#293
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,496 Times in 5,198 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Go to bed together....and cuddle __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

02-04-2012, 12:11 AM	#298
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11-21-2011, 08:57 PM	#281
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11-21-2011, 11:29 PM	#282
bright_arrow ☆ the stars are aligned ☆ How Do You Identify?: one queer mama Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: married to my Boo Daddy <3 Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: nor cal Posts: 2,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,644 Thanked 9,363 Times in 2,296 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Remind each other that you are a partnership, not a competition.. and so therefore, it's "One for all and all for one!"

11-23-2011, 06:14 AM	#284
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Greet your love with a warm cup of coffee !!!!

01-28-2012, 07:44 PM	#287
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	learn from your mistakes and become a better partner/person

01-28-2012, 07:55 PM	#288
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,194 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Honor the friendship and familiarity you share... because it's very unique and will never compare or be the same with someone else... allow yourself to enjoy and not regret the connection you share ...don't regret, only relish and respect

01-28-2012, 07:59 PM	#289
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Believe in each other!

01-28-2012, 08:26 PM	#290
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01-28-2012, 08:40 PM	#291
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02-02-2012, 08:36 PM	#294
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02-03-2012, 09:12 PM	#296
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02-03-2012, 11:33 PM	#297
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,286 Times in 4,167 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Keep your car in good repair so you can go visit Her when She wants to see you.

02-04-2012, 02:55 PM	#299
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	be realistic about things you like or don't dislike in the beginning, that annoying small annoying detail will become a monstrosity after you get serious!

02-04-2012, 03:08 PM	#300
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