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Gina · 12-09-2011, 08:44 AM

While I was shopping yesterday - I bought myself a purple sleep mask that says: *Wake me with Coffee*

midwest chick · 12-09-2011, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Gina

While I was shopping yesterday - I bought myself a purple sleep mask that says: *Wake me with Coffee*

Oh, I soooo want a pink one! Where did you get it?

blueeyes226_l · 12-09-2011, 09:20 PM

Hi people,
I hope all is well with all of you. I hope all of you had a Thanksgiving not like mine. My daughter and her hubbie came and belive me it wasn't a nice Thanksgiving. It will take some time for my heart heals from her crap.Her and I got in to it 3 times. What am I thankful for....They left the day after Thanksgiving.

One of the things-I brought Jon some candy he likes and was going to give it to him so I disn't have to pay postage. Shelly,my daughter, informed me They DID NOT like that candy. I said well I gave Jon some last year and he seemed to be happy about it. She told me NOT TO get them any thing. There was nothing they needed or wanted. Because,they just go out and buy what they need and want. If I give or send them any thing it will get returned. She blew up again and I said well never mind shelly I'll take care of it. She said something to me and I said I'll take care of it. I told her to scue it Shelly and tossed the candy in the trash can. She also told me she will not pay for my casket and so on. (I had told er my life Ins was made out to her but she would have to pay the rest of what my life Insurance will not pay. What a duirty look I got from her. I asked her if her and Jon got there blood typ done to see if they matched my blood typ. She more or less told me to go to H**l. She didn't like my friend Kodey who ate Thanksgiving with us. She pulled more crap but,I know you have a feeling what all had gone on.Some of You know the trouble I have had with the family. Honest to God I wanted to grab her and shake the stuffing out of her.She really had me ticked. Pluse,my Mom had one of her heart spells from all the crap from her. I belive Shellys money has gone to her head pluse his money to. I love my daughter very much but,my Kidney Dr. was me to try to stay away from stresful stuff. It makes my kidneys slah off even more.
I'm having test done to see if I can get a kidney. My kidneys are only 24% working. If it drops to 10% that willn't substan life.
Take care and be safe,
blueeyes226_l

LadyRain · 12-10-2011, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

Hi people,
I hope all is well with all of you. I hope all of you had a Thanksgiving not like mine. My daughter and her hubbie came and belive me it wasn't a nice Thanksgiving. It will take some time for my heart heals from her crap.Her and I got in to it 3 times. What am I thankful for....They left the day after Thanksgiving.

One of the things-I brought Jon some candy he likes and was going to give it to him so I disn't have to pay postage. Shelly,my daughter, informed me They DID NOT like that candy. I said well I gave Jon some last year and he seemed to be happy about it. She told me NOT TO get them any thing. There was nothing they needed or wanted. Because,they just go out and buy what they need and want. If I give or send them any thing it will get returned. She blew up again and I said well never mind shelly I'll take care of it. She said something to me and I said I'll take care of it. I told her to scue it Shelly and tossed the candy in the trash can. She also told me she will not pay for my casket and so on. (I had told er my life Ins was made out to her but she would have to pay the rest of what my life Insurance will not pay. What a duirty look I got from her. I asked her if her and Jon got there blood typ done to see if they matched my blood typ. She more or less told me to go to H**l. She didn't like my friend Kodey who ate Thanksgiving with us. She pulled more crap but,I know you have a feeling what all had gone on.Some of You know the trouble I have had with the family. Honest to God I wanted to grab her and shake the stuffing out of her.She really had me ticked. Pluse,my Mom had one of her heart spells from all the crap from her. I belive Shellys money has gone to her head pluse his money to. I love my daughter very much but,my Kidney Dr. was me to try to stay away from stresful stuff. It makes my kidneys slah off even more.
I'm having test done to see if I can get a kidney. My kidneys are only 24% working. If it drops to 10% that willn't substan life.
Take care and be safe,
blueeyes226_l

am so sorry all this is happening to you. Family sure can be rotton. I think cause they are related they think they can say and do anything. I have my 16yr old grandaughter living with me right now. her parents dont WANT HER!! Imagine treating a child like a puppy!! She is a good kid!

blueeyes226_l · 12-10-2011, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain

am so sorry all this is happening to you. Family sure can be rotton. I think cause they are related they think they can say and do anything. I have my 16yr old grandaughter living with me right now. her parents dont WANT HER!! Imagine treating a child like a puppy!! She is a good kid!

Sorry aboutr your grandaughter. She must be feeling bad about things. Thank God she has you -your care and love for her. The teen years can be ruff as it is with out being treated like a puppy. Give her a hug from me.

Sunny · 12-29-2011, 10:02 AM

Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!!!! May it be better than 2011.

nycbutch · 12-29-2011, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Sunny

Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!!!! May it be better than 2011.

couldn't have said it better myself, Sunny!!! Wishing you all the best, my friend!!!

Jay

Vlasta · 12-11-2011, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

Hi people,
I hope all is well with all of you. I hope all of you had a Thanksgiving not like mine. My daughter and her hubbie came and belive me it wasn't a nice Thanksgiving. It will take some time for my heart heals from her crap.Her and I got in to it 3 times. What am I thankful for....They left the day after Thanksgiving.

One of the things-I brought Jon some candy he likes and was going to give it to him so I disn't have to pay postage. Shelly,my daughter, informed me They DID NOT like that candy. I said well I gave Jon some last year and he seemed to be happy about it. She told me NOT TO get them any thing. There was nothing they needed or wanted. Because,they just go out and buy what they need and want. If I give or send them any thing it will get returned. She blew up again and I said well never mind shelly I'll take care of it. She said something to me and I said I'll take care of it. I told her to scue it Shelly and tossed the candy in the trash can. She also told me she will not pay for my casket and so on. (I had told er my life Ins was made out to her but she would have to pay the rest of what my life Insurance will not pay. What a duirty look I got from her. I asked her if her and Jon got there blood typ done to see if they matched my blood typ. She more or less told me to go to H**l. She didn't like my friend Kodey who ate Thanksgiving with us. She pulled more crap but,I know you have a feeling what all had gone on.Some of You know the trouble I have had with the family. Honest to God I wanted to grab her and shake the stuffing out of her.She really had me ticked. Pluse,my Mom had one of her heart spells from all the crap from her. I belive Shellys money has gone to her head pluse his money to. I love my daughter very much but,my Kidney Dr. was me to try to stay away from stresful stuff. It makes my kidneys slah off even more.
I'm having test done to see if I can get a kidney. My kidneys are only 24% working. If it drops to 10% that willn't substan life.
Take care and be safe,
blueeyes226_l

I am so sorry what is happening with your daughter . We as a parents should be enjoying are children and grandchildren . Hopefully one day she realizes that everything you teach her will surfaces and be daughter you raised . It's very painful and trust me I understand .

I am wishing you the best .

sending you a cyber hugs

Vlasta

LadyRain · 12-11-2011, 12:05 PM

SOOO I am in the car taking my GD to apply for a pt job in the neighborhood. Her phone rings....hello its your mom,,,why are you not commin home for christmas? OMG...so I have the kid and have booked her on a flight with us to my partners sisters in washington dc for christmas. Since the kid has been here i have heard nothin from her mother. Our trip was planned months ago! I spent bookoo bucks to get her on the same plane with us, what was i gonna do leave her here with the housesitter??Now I have to take the kid down to her mothers after we get back on the 28th.Its only 1 1/2 hrs away in another state. I may just hang myself!! So glad i have u guys to covetch with here..it helps!!

rustedrims · 12-11-2011, 03:39 PM

Just watched the Bengals loose in the last 8 seconds of the game..I can say more but i will stop there with respect for the Ladies in here..

Rain and Blue..
I was going through a real hard time after the break-up with my "X" and a guy at work told me that it always gets worse before it gets better..Ya know what he was right..It did get worse then better..Gotta wait it out..I do not speak to my father or sister at all.My older sister and mom have "kicked me in the face"..I stay away from them..Keep in contact with the kids and my younger Brother..That is how i made it better for myself..I am ok with it but it still hurts..

Ruthie..
Cook.??. MMMM..Do you pack lunches to..??..

Clay..
Got my back..Thanks Bro..Should i be ascared of Ruthie..??..

Gina..
Save the best for last..Ok one more time the glitter is in the top drawer on the left purple on the right pink..Let me know when it is getting low so i can re-fill the drawers..Bengals suck..Great to see you in here..!!!..

s..

morningstar55 · 12-11-2011, 03:51 PM

just peeking in.. .. guess i have some catching up to do.. heh...
nap time here.. then heading to nashville land.... yayy..
**yawwnnn**

Gina · 12-12-2011, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by rustedrims

Just watched the Bengals loose in the last 8 seconds of the game..I can say more but i will stop there with respect for the Ladies in here..

Rain and Blue..
I was going through a real hard time after the break-up with my "X" and a guy at work told me that it always gets worse before it gets better..Ya know what he was right..It did get worse then better..Gotta wait it out..I do not speak to my father or sister at all.My older sister and mom have "kicked me in the face"..I stay away from them..Keep in contact with the kids and my younger Brother..That is how i made it better for myself..I am ok with it but it still hurts..

Ruthie..
Cook.??. MMMM..Do you pack lunches to..??..

Clay..
Got my back..Thanks Bro..Should i be ascared of Ruthie..??..

Gina..
Save the best for last..Ok one more time the glitter is in the top drawer on the left purple on the right pink..Let me know when it is getting low so i can re-fill the drawers..Bengals suck..Great to see you in here..!!!..

s..

Rusted - now the glitter is all over the place - but ya know Sparky looks good in antlers and glitter...You know I have no love for the *Bungles* and I know you prefer them over the Browns - but other teams are doing pretty good..(Not the Chiefs - did you see the way the Jets smashed them??) Let it rain let it rain let it rain...weather update for you...

blueeyes226_l · 12-12-2011, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain

SOOO I am in the car taking my GD to apply for a pt job in the neighborhood. Her phone rings....hello its your mom,,,why are you not commin home for christmas? OMG...so I have the kid and have booked her on a flight with us to my partners sisters in washington dc for christmas. Since the kid has been here i have heard nothin from her mother. Our trip was planned months ago! I spent bookoo bucks to get her on the same plane with us, what was i gonna do leave her here with the housesitter??Now I have to take the kid down to her mothers after we get back on the 28th.Its only 1 1/2 hrs away in another state. I may just hang myself!! So glad i have u guys to covetch with here..it helps!!

Hey Rain,
I wish you the very best in all of this. I don't even know what to do with my "kid" and her hubbie is a jurk. Any was sendinhg u a hug.

blueeyes226_l · 12-12-2011, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Vlasta

I am so sorry what is happening with your daughter . We as a parents should be enjoying are children and grandchildren . Hopefully one day she realizes that everything you teach her will surfaces and be daughter you raised . It's very painful and trust me I understand .

I am wishing you the best .

sending you a cyber hugs

Vlasta

It is hard do to my Mom isn't to get up set. Shelly,my daughter,called he two times but didn't talk to me. I enjoyed my daughter when she was little. I rember those day. They would good. I could tell her things about the family but,I think it would hurt her and distory her. I think her hubbie is controling her from what I seen when they was here. I don't like him at all. I don't trust him. My mother found out today ibehind 1 eye she has a blood clot the othere eye has a groth. so,I don't know what all is going on.~~~~

Gina · 12-09-2011, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by midwest chick

Oh, I soooo want a pink one! Where did you get it?

I got it at Bed, Bath & Beyond...Love that store!!

12-09-2011, 08:44 AM	#1
Gina Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: Lady, Her, she...etc.. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Somewhere Over The Rainbow in Kansas Posts: 85 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 378 Thanked 155 Times in 44 Posts Rep Power: 2225694	Just for me... While I was shopping yesterday - I bought myself a purple sleep mask that says: Wake me with Coffee

12-09-2011, 09:20 PM	#3
blueeyes226_l Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch-I am who I am Relationship Status: single and looking Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: near Olean,N.Y. Posts: 119 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 107 Times in 57 Posts Rep Power: 172	Thanksgiving-Hello Hi people, I hope all is well with all of you. I hope all of you had a Thanksgiving not like mine. My daughter and her hubbie came and belive me it wasn't a nice Thanksgiving. It will take some time for my heart heals from her crap.Her and I got in to it 3 times. What am I thankful for....They left the day after Thanksgiving. One of the things-I brought Jon some candy he likes and was going to give it to him so I disn't have to pay postage. Shelly,my daughter, informed me They DID NOT like that candy. I said well I gave Jon some last year and he seemed to be happy about it. She told me NOT TO get them any thing. There was nothing they needed or wanted. Because,they just go out and buy what they need and want. If I give or send them any thing it will get returned. She blew up again and I said well never mind shelly I'll take care of it. She said something to me and I said I'll take care of it. I told her to scue it Shelly and tossed the candy in the trash can. She also told me she will not pay for my casket and so on. (I had told er my life Ins was made out to her but she would have to pay the rest of what my life Insurance will not pay. What a duirty look I got from her. I asked her if her and Jon got there blood typ done to see if they matched my blood typ. She more or less told me to go to H**l. She didn't like my friend Kodey who ate Thanksgiving with us. She pulled more crap but,I know you have a feeling what all had gone on.Some of You know the trouble I have had with the family. Honest to God I wanted to grab her and shake the stuffing out of her.She really had me ticked. Pluse,my Mom had one of her heart spells from all the crap from her. I belive Shellys money has gone to her head pluse his money to. I love my daughter very much but,my Kidney Dr. was me to try to stay away from stresful stuff. It makes my kidneys slah off even more. I'm having test done to see if I can get a kidney. My kidneys are only 24% working. If it drops to 10% that willn't substan life. Take care and be safe, blueeyes226_l

12-29-2011, 10:02 AM	#6
Sunny Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: New Jersey Posts: 423 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 396 Thanked 745 Times in 283 Posts Rep Power: 6521617	Hi Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!!!! May it be better than 2011. __________________ Sunny

12-11-2011, 12:05 PM	#9
LadyRain Member How Do You Identify?: StoneFemme Preferred Pronoun?: Hey You.!! Relationship Status: very stuck... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: new england Posts: 180 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 45 Thanked 312 Times in 128 Posts Rep Power: 3554044	The drama continues SOOO I am in the car taking my GD to apply for a pt job in the neighborhood. Her phone rings....hello its your mom,,,why are you not commin home for christmas? OMG...so I have the kid and have booked her on a flight with us to my partners sisters in washington dc for christmas. Since the kid has been here i have heard nothin from her mother. Our trip was planned months ago! I spent bookoo bucks to get her on the same plane with us, what was i gonna do leave her here with the housesitter??Now I have to take the kid down to her mothers after we get back on the 28th.Its only 1 1/2 hrs away in another state. I may just hang myself!! So glad i have u guys to covetch with here..it helps!! __________________ TBI Survivor

12-11-2011, 03:39 PM	#10
rustedrims Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Northern Ohio close to Lake Erie and ice-cream places Posts: 445 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,125 Thanked 2,554 Times in 368 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Hello everyone.. Just watched the Bengals loose in the last 8 seconds of the game..I can say more but i will stop there with respect for the Ladies in here.. Rain and Blue.. I was going through a real hard time after the break-up with my "X" and a guy at work told me that it always gets worse before it gets better..Ya know what he was right..It did get worse then better..Gotta wait it out..I do not speak to my father or sister at all.My older sister and mom have "kicked me in the face"..I stay away from them..Keep in contact with the kids and my younger Brother..That is how i made it better for myself..I am ok with it but it still hurts.. Ruthie.. Cook.??. MMMM..Do you pack lunches to..??.. Clay.. Got my back..Thanks Bro..Should i be ascared of Ruthie..??.. Gina.. Save the best for last..Ok one more time the glitter is in the top drawer on the left purple on the right pink..Let me know when it is getting low so i can re-fill the drawers..Bengals suck..Great to see you in here..!!!.. s..

12-11-2011, 03:51 PM	#11
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	just peeking in.. .. guess i have some catching up to do.. heh... nap time here.. then heading to nashville land.... yayy.. yawwnnn __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.