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Old 12-22-2011, 11:10 AM   #1
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Hey all you sexy, gorgeous peeps:
The Claymeister is officially SPRUNG!!!!! Waiting on paperwork..and me and county will be going home...to sleep for about 3 days!! She is exhausted......bless her heart!!!! I could have never made this journey so incredibly well or so quickly...without her...andf all of you....I heart you all. I am still very weak...Hgb. is 9.5....BUT home is best medicine...
I have lots of reading and thanks for all of you....please bear with me...I am GOING HOME!!! Yeayyyyyyy....Clay
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Hey all you sexy, gorgeous peeps:
The Claymeister is officially SPRUNG!!!!! Waiting on paperwork..and me and county will be going home...to sleep for about 3 days!! She is exhausted......bless her heart!!!! I could have never made this journey so incredibly well or so quickly...without her...andf all of you....I heart you all. I am still very weak...Hgb. is 9.5....BUT home is best medicine...
I have lots of reading and thanks for all of you....please bear with me...I am GOING HOME!!! Yeayyyyyyy....Clay
Fantastic News! Glad you are doing well! Good to have you back with us!
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Hey all you sexy, gorgeous peeps:
The Claymeister is officially SPRUNG!!!!! Waiting on paperwork..and me and county will be going home...to sleep for about 3 days!! She is exhausted......bless her heart!!!! I could have never made this journey so incredibly well or so quickly...without her...andf all of you....I heart you all. I am still very weak...Hgb. is 9.5....BUT home is best medicine...
I have lots of reading and thanks for all of you....please bear with me...I am GOING HOME!!! Yeayyyyyyy....Clay
Finally! Woo Hoo! A long time coming, I know! Congrats on the cancer being contained. That means no chemo for you, right?

How much weight did you lose from not being able to eat? I lost 20lbs (granted, I got the surgery done twice, 2 weeks apart, but, still...)!
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Hey all you sexy, gorgeous peeps:
The Claymeister is officially SPRUNG!!!!! Waiting on paperwork..and me and county will be going home...to sleep for about 3 days!! She is exhausted......bless her heart!!!! I could have never made this journey so incredibly well or so quickly...without her...andf all of you....I heart you all. I am still very weak...Hgb. is 9.5....BUT home is best medicine...
I have lots of reading and thanks for all of you....please bear with me...I am GOING HOME!!! Yeayyyyyyy....Clay
Welcome home Clay! Rest, relax and recover. It must be so nice to be back in your own bed I'm so glad Country was there for you. Country - thankyou so much for the fantastic updates on Clays progress through this difficult time for you both!
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The Claymeister is officially SPRUNG!!!!! Waiting on paperwork..and me and county will be going home...to sleep for about 3 days!! She is exhausted......bless her heart!!!! I could have never made this journey so incredibly well or so quickly...without her...andf all of you....I heart you all. I am still very weak...Hgb. is 9.5....BUT home is best medicine...
I have lots of reading and thanks for all of you....please bear with me...I am GOING HOME!!! Yeayyyyyyy....Clay

Fantastic,glad u r going home,tonight u will get the best sleep u have had iuna while in your own bed...nothing like being home.Take all the thime u need to get your strength back,we all will be hear when u want to post any thing.
Country,thank u for all u have done,u r indeed a special person..
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hey peeps....just a quick note..I am up and about today...still weak, BUT al uphill from here on out..and Home Health will be here Monday to assess my needs, and PT will be coming as well...
I am still not real clear in the brain...BUT want to post so pardon all the typos...lol..
DAPPER: best I can tell between 35 and 45 lbs...in last 8 to 10 weeks....with MOST being last 3 to 4 weeks. I am getting some of the ensure drinks when we go to grocery store..
COUNTY: I heart you, darling!!! YOU have made this so much more pleasureable, been so selfless, and I know your back and hip suffered with that miserable "gaucho" sofa you endured for TWO WEEKS, and woke every time with a sweet smile...YOU simply ROCKKKKKKK....
I heart ALL of you.....Merry Christmas, I know I have the MOST amazing one in a few years now...thank, you....all your sweet messages, PM's, etc and calls...smiles.....later peeps...
I made COUNTY go get a nap in...I am waiting for my baby dachsie to come home..I haven;t seen her in 2 weeks....whooohooo....I HEART YOU ALL>>..Clay
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Way to go claybaby.

Boost Plus and other Store Brand protein drinks available for variety until you can blend your own ~ CVS, Walgreens, etc.

Kudo's to County and Caregivers .



Jo, and julieisafemme thinking of you and your Mom's during this tough time and in a season of love and giving.

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Super fast update then I'm headed back to the ER....Mom's picc line was halfway out last night, so waiting and waiting to get it replaced today.

Struggling with pain meds....docs in FL don't prescribe but send to a separate pain management doc. Of course, they neglected to mention this (and mom neglects to mention that she's almost out) until we have difficulty getting a refill right before the holiday weekend.

Nightmare.

I'm kicking desks (figuratively speaking) and shouting at people (for real) ...and we have a short-term solution, an appointment with said pain mgmt specialist...and it'll all be okay...but it's taking a heck of a toll on me in the process.

My research, thanks to all this, also makes me think that a lot of her dizziness, fatigue and lack of appetite may be in part due to the morphine she's been on since the spring.
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Super fast update then I'm headed back to the ER....Mom's picc line was halfway out last night, so waiting and waiting to get it replaced today.

Struggling with pain meds....docs in FL don't prescribe but send to a separate pain management doc. Of course, they neglected to mention this (and mom neglects to mention that she's almost out) until we have difficulty getting a refill right before the holiday weekend.

Nightmare.

I'm kicking desks (figuratively speaking) and shouting at people (for real) ...and we have a short-term solution, an appointment with said pain mgmt specialist...and it'll all be okay...but it's taking a heck of a toll on me in the process.

My research, thanks to all this, also makes me think that a lot of her dizziness, fatigue and lack of appetite may be in part due to the morphine she's been on since the spring.
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hey peeps....just a quick note..I am up and about today...still weak, BUT al uphill from here on out..and Home Health will be here Monday to assess my needs, and PT will be coming as well...
I am still not real clear in the brain...BUT want to post so pardon all the typos...lol..
DAPPER: best I can tell between 35 and 45 lbs...in last 8 to 10 weeks....with MOST being last 3 to 4 weeks. I am getting some of the ensure drinks when we go to grocery store..
COUNTY: I heart you, darling!!! YOU have made this so much more pleasureable, been so selfless, and I know your back and hip suffered with that miserable "gaucho" sofa you endured for TWO WEEKS, and woke every time with a sweet smile...YOU simply ROCKKKKKKK....
I heart ALL of you.....Merry Christmas, I know I have the MOST amazing one in a few years now...thank, you....all your sweet messages, PM's, etc and calls...smiles.....later peeps...
I made COUNTY go get a nap in...I am waiting for my baby dachsie to come home..I haven;t seen her in 2 weeks....whooohooo....I HEART YOU ALL>>..Clay
The pecan flavored Ensure drinks are really good! Glad you are going to get the pup back soon!

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Super fast update then I'm headed back to the ER....Mom's picc line was halfway out last night, so waiting and waiting to get it replaced today.

Struggling with pain meds....docs in FL don't prescribe but send to a separate pain management doc. Of course, they neglected to mention this (and mom neglects to mention that she's almost out) until we have difficulty getting a refill right before the holiday weekend.

Nightmare.

I'm kicking desks (figuratively speaking) and shouting at people (for real) ...and we have a short-term solution, an appointment with said pain mgmt specialist...and it'll all be okay...but it's taking a heck of a toll on me in the process.

My research, thanks to all this, also makes me think that a lot of her dizziness, fatigue and lack of appetite may be in part due to the morphine she's been on since the spring.
Gosh, Jo. I am so sorry this is happening. Please keep us updated.
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You didn't answer me about the chemo?Hey DAPPER: I am so sorry....I did forget to asnwer you about the chemo ? NO...no chemo OR rad. for me..it was ALL gotten with surgery AND I am "officially CANCER FREE"...yayyyyyyy Hugs to you and TF from County & I...smiles
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So happy to hear that you are home and that Heidi will be with you soon! We've been praying and am so glad to hear you're doing well.

We have been so grateful to Countyfemme for her reports to us. Thanks you!!!
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Hello All. Thank you very much for all the nice posts. My Mom is doing remarkably well. No nausea and no pain since going into the hospital. She saw the oncologist today and he said her blood work looks good, no temperature and her blood pressure is good. She has the ok to come for the family Christmas. That is a wonderful thing. She is still very tired but is getting up every day and doing things in the house. We are so blessed in that all four of her children live five minutes from her house. We have all skills to lend to her care. Add to that a good family friend who is a critical care nurse and her sister who is a nurse and we are set! I know she won't get better but it means so much that right now she is feeling good and not in pain.

Claybaby I am so happy you are home! I know my Mom is so much happier in her own bed without the nurses poking her all night!

Many blessings to you all and happy holidays.
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Julie:
Thanks so much for the well wishes...and yes it IS good to be in my own space again....smiles...we are catching up on some much needed sleep...I,too, am still having some bouts with the nausea BUT I am also on a very strong antibiotic...for 4 more days...yayyyyy....and I just take a Zofran disintegrtaing nausea pill and hold the nausea at bay...smiles..
Big hugs to you, to your mom, and all your family..enjoy every moment...smiles..Merry Christmas from my family to yours....Clay
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