What have you learned?

kittygrrl · 12-27-2011, 12:27 PM

lying to yourself is the worse kind of lie

macele · 12-27-2011, 02:27 PM

Miss Tia, your dog may be allergic to raw carrots. i am lol ... seriously.
they make my ears itch LOL. crazy itching!

kitty, my momma always says, what's worse than doing wrong, ...
to know it's wrong and still do it. a little on the same line as lying to yourself.

i've learned that the space between the stars can be mine if i work hard enough to get there. and if i don't, i'll forget there's space to be had in a universe that holds more than one kind of heaven.

kittygrrl · 12-27-2011, 02:55 PM

what is a true friend? Plenty of people think they have tons of people who truly love them and will stand by them..if they do they are blessed..to me a true friend is someone who's knows you inside and out and still loves you no matter what..who will face death with you and count themselves lucky to have been a part of your life..i haven't been lucky like that yet, every "friend" i've ever had has in one way or another betrayed me (this maybe karma) but I digress. I let very few people in my life close to me, but if I consider you a friend, yes i will face death with you and if i have to give up mine to save yours..that's friendship (at least the only kind that counts)

boobookitty · 04-19-2012, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl

what is a true friend? Plenty of people think they have tons of people who truly love them and will stand by them..if they do they are blessed..to me a true friend is someone who's knows you inside and out and still loves you no matter what..who will face death with you and count themselves lucky to have been a part of your life..i haven't been lucky like that yet, every "friend" i've ever had has in one way or another betrayed me (this maybe karma) but I digress. I let very few people in my life close to me, but if I consider you a friend, yes i will face death with you and if i have to give up mine to save yours..that's friendship (at least the only kind that counts)

I have learned that I have two "true" friends in my life,

... and that people who lack the maturity to have adult conversations are an endless source of amusement.

sylvie · 04-19-2012, 08:20 PM

i have learned:

- there will always be mean-spirited people, and the best way to respond to that is to kill them with kindness..
- that the outdoors, & enjoying nature is my prescription to a positive day!
- that being a gentle being, doesn't mean i lay down and take it.. i'm strong and independent, even if i walk in a gentle way on this planet , and THIS planet too, lol..
- that Daddy, ALWAYS has my back..

Ginger · 04-22-2012, 11:07 AM

I learn and forget and painfully relearn the same message over and over: I am no one's priority. But I am my own priority. I am the one who must put things in place to ensure I will be taken care of it in my later years. This doesn't have to be a bad thing or a sad thing. This can be an exciting and liberating thing. I have a lot of resources and choices at my fingertips, and I can make something beautiful out of it to look forward to.

I am looking for a financial planner to consult with. I am fantasizing about my long-term peace and happiness.

Lady_Di · 04-22-2012, 11:11 AM

Love is.

Love can never die.

Love is Eternal.

NorCalStud · 04-22-2012, 11:21 AM

Even if you know they will anyway? Give consent ever for troopers to search your vehicle. Your resistance to "the man's" pressure will be video taped and while your shit or money will be taken; your case in court will be dismissed or reduced. Police are currently breaking probable cause laws and regularly violating our fourth ammendment rights. Check out vipr units supposedly used by tsa who has been hired to find terrorists on our interstate hiways and oh yeah might as well do drug interdiction too. I leave you with this statistic...10 x's more often the troopers cars are pointed toward east traffic going west...why? That money is coming home and they want that shit. Vipr units or "icecream trucks" xraying us all the time. Every state but four or five has em.

girl_dee · 05-01-2012, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by IslandScout

I learn and forget and painfully relearn the same message over and over: I am no one's priority. But I am my own priority. I am the one who must put things in place to ensure I will be taken care of it in my later years. This doesn't have to be a bad thing or a sad thing. This can be an exciting and liberating thing. I have a lot of resources and choices at my fingertips, and I can make something beautiful out of it to look forward to.

I am looking for a financial planner to consult with. I am fantasizing about my long-term peace and happiness.

Not being a priority is very hurtful indeed. i am so glad you are in control, because i've learned that sometimes you have to do what you have to do for YOU.

i learn that it feels better to read words of someone who has felt exactly as i have, that's pretty awesome

kittygrrl · 12-27-2011, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by macele

i've learned that the space between the stars can be mine if i work hard enough to get there. and if i don't, i'll forget there's space to be had in a universe that holds more than one kind of heaven.

I love this, it's an ultimate truth

12-27-2011, 12:27 PM	#1
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kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,407 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,611 Thanked 21,980 Times in 7,094 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	learned (the hard way) what is a true friend? Plenty of people think they have tons of people who truly love them and will stand by them..if they do they are blessed..to me a true friend is someone who's knows you inside and out and still loves you no matter what..who will face death with you and count themselves lucky to have been a part of your life..i haven't been lucky like that yet, every "friend" i've ever had has in one way or another betrayed me (this maybe karma) but I digress. I let very few people in my life close to me, but if I consider you a friend, yes i will face death with you and if i have to give up mine to save yours..that's friendship (at least the only kind that counts)

04-19-2012, 08:20 PM	#5
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	i have learned: - there will always be mean-spirited people, and the best way to respond to that is to kill them with kindness.. - that the outdoors, & enjoying nature is my prescription to a positive day! - that being a gentle being, doesn't mean i lay down and take it.. i'm strong and independent, even if i walk in a gentle way on this planet , and THIS planet too, lol.. - that Daddy, ALWAYS has my back.. __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney

04-22-2012, 11:07 AM	#6
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,295 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I learn and forget and painfully relearn the same message over and over: I am no one's priority. But I am my own priority. I am the one who must put things in place to ensure I will be taken care of it in my later years. This doesn't have to be a bad thing or a sad thing. This can be an exciting and liberating thing. I have a lot of resources and choices at my fingertips, and I can make something beautiful out of it to look forward to. I am looking for a financial planner to consult with. I am fantasizing about my long-term peace and happiness. Last edited by Ginger; 04-22-2012 at 11:15 AM. Reason: confusion

04-22-2012, 11:21 AM	#8
NorCalStud Member How Do You Identify?: gaea's Daddy and Fiance Preferred Pronoun?: Ours Relationship Status: Engaged with gaea:-) Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Island Mountain Posts: 440 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,630 Thanked 1,465 Times in 359 Posts Rep Power: 18918588	Do Never!!!!!!!!!!!! Even if you know they will anyway? Give consent ever for troopers to search your vehicle. Your resistance to "the man's" pressure will be video taped and while your shit or money will be taken; your case in court will be dismissed or reduced. Police are currently breaking probable cause laws and regularly violating our fourth ammendment rights. Check out vipr units supposedly used by tsa who has been hired to find terrorists on our interstate hiways and oh yeah might as well do drug interdiction too. I leave you with this statistic...10 x's more often the troopers cars are pointed toward east traffic going west...why? That money is coming home and they want that shit. Vipr units or "icecream trucks" xraying us all the time. Every state but four or five has em. __________________ "Love the questions" ...Rainier Marie Rilke...Letters to a young poet Che

12-27-2011, 02:27 PM	#2
macele Member How Do You Identify?: a bold-assed maximus Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: mississippi Posts: 1,066 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,178 Thanked 3,230 Times in 847 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Miss Tia, your dog may be allergic to raw carrots. i am lol ... seriously. they make my ears itch LOL. crazy itching! kitty, my momma always says, what's worse than doing wrong, ... to know it's wrong and still do it. a little on the same line as lying to yourself. i've learned that the space between the stars can be mine if i work hard enough to get there. and if i don't, i'll forget there's space to be had in a universe that holds more than one kind of heaven.

04-22-2012, 11:11 AM	#7
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