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Magically Delicious
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I don't make resolutions
In my younger years, I never kept any of them I will continue to improve on myself That's all I have for now Oh and perhaps find some inspiration, so I can write more
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Senior Member
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Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?:
girly, she Relationship Status:
fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !!
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![]() -2012 will be all about family & friendships..new & old.. i will reconnect with family & friends, people i've been thinking about, people i need to make amends with, people i will work on forgiveness for & people i've fallen out of touch with.. i will open myself up to making brand new friendships, and taking time to let all the people i love know every moment that i can, how much they mean to me. i will never be too busy to connect with people that i love, whether by phonecalls, e-mails or planned get togethers..i will make it a point to remember birthdays, anniversarys & check in with those i know need that.. Life is too short to ever have to say the words "i wish i would have said or done", when it's too late.. NO more pushing people out of my life, i'm worthy of friendships & my addiction is no longer my best friend.. Learning to let go of food, and distancing the people in my life that need distancing. -i will continue to work on my addiction/eating disorder. Though it's pushing me completely out of my comfort zone, i will continue to push myself & put it out there for all to see as a means of not only helping others who need it, but helping myself by keeping myself accountable.. i will continue to attend meetings everyday - i will continue to see my Counsellor (specific to ED's) and i will continue to see my Dietician (also specific to eating disorders).. i will find a sponsor, i will continue to use all of my tools and i will pick up additional tools to add to my tool belt - i am worth all of this & 2012 will be my first year of recovery! -Weight loss - i have already lost 71 lbs, and 2012 will be about losing the additional weight i want to lose. i will continue losing weight the healthy way, by eating right and exercising.. i will be faithful about using the tools i have to keep me motivated each day and i will not beat myself up if i fall down, because everyday is a brand new start .. i will learn to give myself credit where credit is due, and i will learn to NOT be obsessive about the weight loss, because it's more about the health than it is the weight loss.. All the good choices i make daily ensure a healthier, happier more well-adjusted me! - smile more, be here in the PRESENT, appreciate the moments always, POSITIVITY, work on my self-esteem, wish on stars, take chances, embrace my unique & beautiful self, be FIERCE, love like there's no tomorrow, detach myself from stress & dramas, take time for my hobbies & find new ones, have FUN & always gain knowledge.. Life is too short to not enjoy everyday to it's fullest. - Volunteering, paying it forward, always being supportive & helpful when i have the opportunity, work on ways to give back concerning poverty, eating disorders & addictions, low self esteem, community issues, children & hunger, queer community.. Mtn & i are always talking about ways we will give back, and it's something that is so important to our well-being and positive minds, and in turn it helps sprinkle love & warmth anywhere it's needed.. We've generous, caring hearts and the world could use a whole lot of that ! -Lastly, financial re-building... The last few years have been extremely difficult, financially due to my addiction, my binges were costly and i'm embarrassed to say i put certain things off which has literally not been good for my financial situation.. Having started to get a grasp on my addiction/eating disorder - i am making 2012 my year to shine, catching up with everything, budgeting, smart shopping, coupon cutting, looking for sales, being aware and getting a grasp - i've already started to and it's already making such a significant difference.. talk about a wonderful feeling.. Not putting money towards binges has clearly made a huge difference, and being smart about everything will be a big help too..
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my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page:
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Infamous Member
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I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?:
Bitch Relationship Status:
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This is the only resolution I am guaranteed to keep...
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Member
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Athlete/tomboi Preferred Pronoun?:
she, her, cutie Relationship Status:
Estoy recibiendo cómodo con él Join Date: Apr 2010
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2012 will be about progressing and moving forward with my current adventures; while accepting surprises/changes that may come across my path...
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"She walks a different path than some of us, but those on her wavelength enjoy the journey with her." --DLOS
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Senior Member
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Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?:
I Relationship Status:
Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011
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I don't want to set my sights too high. So I'm thinking maybe:
Get up every day. Do not sleep in street clothes. Walk outside at some point, other than just to take the dog out. Speak to one person every day whom I did not birth. (The dog does not count.) Seems daunting, but I've got to start somewhere....
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Senior Member
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BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm. Preferred Pronoun?:
Anything Respectful! Relationship Status:
Single, Happy, not Desparate or Looking, but Open to Possibilities... Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Europe and Aotearoa on a 5:2 ratio.
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I don't make resolutions....I'm always a work in progress. I may not be very good at it sometimes, but, I do the best I can.
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Senior Member
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Femme Preferred Pronoun?:
Lady Relationship Status:
single Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Texas
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2011 was a great year, I , I mean... WE accomplished alot and will continue:
Continue to get things organize in my home , get more household repairs done. And just to change up my gym routine going to start weight lifting this year, Eat less meat and dairy. Try more vegetarian recipes. Oh and meditate more! I'm so excited!
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