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I see this isn't a popular idea with peeps to post a "would like to meet" as no one has followed suit in the thread... I take it there's a butch-femme dating site that of more use that people use. Linky, anyone?
oh, and I'm good with holidays. *cough*. just sayin, like. In case someone charming is travelling through london/oxford... I know some very good kick ass real ale pubs with very good food and know oxford/london quite well for alternative queer night life... |
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god, if i were younger and butch and not in the UK and cool enough, i would so be responding to this one. Sigh at an available (but not) Honeybarbara.
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good evening ladies!!! just thought I'd sliiiide on in and say hello to all you lovely femmes!!
just a short add for now....52, single, available butch in NYC looking for a single, available femme within driving distance (preferably) see pics in gallery enjoy your evening ![]() Jay |
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i haven't had a date off of OKCupid. i am poly but have been busy with work, gained a BUNCH of weight, and otherwise have placed a number of roadblocks in front of dating outside my D/s (which i am free to do and want to do at some point). ANYWAY, i am a member of OKCupid and love the folks they send my way. They seem like real and cool people. i do not know if there is an OKCupid for the UK.
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Hey I'm 32..., haven't given up hope yet! Be nice just to meet other singles to do things with
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I am single too. I have recently signed onto several of the dating sites (Zoosk, Compatible Partners, Butch-Femme-dating etc), but all of them require monthly fees just to even see possible matches, or to respond in any way. These sites even advertised "Free" matches! OK, I guess getting matched was free, but anything else was different. I have to wait till later this week (XMas shopping, rent, other first of the month type bills cut it kinda close for me last paycheck) to be able to find out.
I did see several very interesting possibilities, and most fairly close by to me too. Soooo.... So, singles, how many of you have used these sites to find others, and what were your results? (working on putting myself out there a bit.. not wanting to rush into anything, but I need and deserve to have a little fun!) |
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I'm also tired of getting my hopes up with people, only to find out that they didn't think it was a date, and aren't interested in kissing me goodnight and texting me the next day.
I'm on OKCupid (1grlentourage), but haven't gotten any dates from there. I'm also here, and have pics of my band geekery. 30, scientist, femme, wants to be treated like she's something special. I love doing nice things for a partner, or even a date, it's in my nature to be that way. I love it even more when I truly feel like someone listens to me when I talk, and cares about how I feel. And I would REALLY like to be kissed, it's been a long time. I'm also not about to pretend I am any good at writing personal ads. ![]()
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I'm posting for a femme friend of mine. I'll come back and post her official ad, but here's what I've got on her since I know her.
She's early 40's (apparently that's an issue for some butches), femme, into leather and more than just a fashion statement, smart, gainfully employed, wry sense of humor, GOURMET cook (I'm not exaggerating and she makes a mean PIE), and sexy. Poly or monogamous if it works. Multi-racial Jew via Native American and Black American. Prefers California, she lives in San Francisco area. She's open to blind dates. She's looking for dates and see how it goes, no rush to the altar. Email me via the site with your email address. Rope-- |
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btw i meant if i WERE in the UK. In fact, if i were, i might ask for a date anyway and hope she might mistake me for a butch who wears eyeliner.
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LOL aw, darlin, we could have a naughty femme night in. I *do* take brief forays in that direction. y'know, sometimes us gals gotta give each other comfort, y'know? lol |
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I'm in the UK (Essex)....only, I'm a Femme....
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lol hey darlin! Essex is pretty, I was just there the other weekend and am headed back for a walk on the mashes soon.
so I take it I'm recruiting for a *cough* pyjama party femme orgy now? I could do that. but I need a leather gimp. any volunteers? |
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I was in Henley-on-Thames a couple of months ago (I used to live there a few years ago)…. I now live near the marshes, unless you mean the Maldon marshes, then I don't, lol!
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haven't a fuckin clue which marshes, luv! LOL
I'm just learning now as I had never been there before. Oh, hey, if you are interested: http://boards.gingerbeer.co.uk/index.php?topic=105025.0 I know bar wotever does this kind of stuff weekly on a tues but I figure a sat eve might suit some people more who are coming from a distance. ![]() |
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there were sensitive members at bar wotever?? That doesn't sound like when I used to go!! you must have had a bad audience night? The room was usually full of delightful letches. Well. I haven't gone since it left kings cross when it was above the piss-play fuck club for gay men. I hope it hasn't gotten prudish. My heteroflexible mate got up and played an irish style folk tune on a fiddle and changed to words to having a hot load of jesus' love in her mouth (and other various sexual acts with the saviour) and no one blinked. It would be sad to have lost that randy aspect.
So then, what did you do that got some of the more delicate creatures in a bit of a flap? and did Ingo spank you? |
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