Would Like To Meet... a thread for your personal ad

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2012, 01:48 PM

I see this isn't a popular idea with peeps to post a "would like to meet" as no one has followed suit in the thread... I take it there's a butch-femme dating site that of more use that people use. Linky, anyone?

oh, and I'm good with holidays. *cough*. just sayin, like. In case someone charming is travelling through london/oxford... I know some very good kick ass real ale pubs with very good food and know oxford/london quite well for alternative queer night life...

Martina · 01-01-2012, 01:51 PM

god, if i were younger and butch and not in the UK and cool enough, i would so be responding to this one. Sigh at an available (but not) Honeybarbara.

Library_girl · 01-01-2012, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by honeybarbara

I see this isn't a popular idea with peeps to post a "would like to meet" as no one has followed suit in the thread... I take it there's a butch-femme dating site that of more use that people use. Linky, anyone?.

I think it's a great idea and I'm surprised no one has posted their own ad. (maybe I will post mine). And I'd love a link for a b/f dating site, a good one, for this side of the pond.

nycbutch · 01-01-2012, 05:30 PM

good evening ladies!!! just thought I'd sliiiide on in and say hello to all you lovely femmes!!

just a short add for now....52, single, available butch in NYC looking for a single, available femme within driving distance (preferably) see pics in gallery

enjoy your evening

Jay

Martina · 01-01-2012, 08:00 PM

i haven't had a date off of OKCupid. i am poly but have been busy with work, gained a BUNCH of weight, and otherwise have placed a number of roadblocks in front of dating outside my D/s (which i am free to do and want to do at some point). ANYWAY, i am a member of OKCupid and love the folks they send my way. They seem like real and cool people. i do not know if there is an OKCupid for the UK.

nicetgurl_30 · 01-01-2012, 11:03 PM

Hey I'm 32..., haven't given up hope yet! Be nice just to meet other singles to do things with

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 01-03-2012, 11:43 AM

I am single too. I have recently signed onto several of the dating sites (Zoosk, Compatible Partners, Butch-Femme-dating etc), but all of them require monthly fees just to even see possible matches, or to respond in any way. These sites even advertised "Free" matches! OK, I guess getting matched was free, but anything else was different. I have to wait till later this week (XMas shopping, rent, other first of the month type bills cut it kinda close for me last paycheck) to be able to find out.

I did see several very interesting possibilities, and most fairly close by to me too. Soooo....

So, singles, how many of you have used these sites to find others, and what were your results?

(working on putting myself out there a bit.. not wanting to rush into anything, but I need and deserve to have a little fun!)

1QuirkyKiwi · 01-03-2012, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

I am single too. I have recently signed onto several of the dating sites (Zoosk, Compatible Partners, Butch-Femme-dating etc), but all of them require monthly fees just to even see possible matches, or to respond in any way. These sites even advertised "Free" matches! OK, I guess getting matched was free, but anything else was different. I have to wait till later this week (XMas shopping, rent, other first of the month type bills cut it kinda close for me last paycheck) to be able to find out.

I did see several very interesting possibilities, and most fairly close by to me too. Soooo....

So, singles, how many of you have used these sites to find others, and what were your results?

(working on putting myself out there a bit.. not wanting to rush into anything, but I need and deserve to have a little fun!)

I still have a profile on Butch-Femme-dating, but, only sign in now when I get a message from someone. I have had many dates from UK based sites, Women at tangowire and PinkCupid/Sofa....the latter two also have women looking within Europe, which is great for me.

Best of luck!

msW8ing · 01-05-2012, 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

I am single too. I have recently signed onto several of the dating sites (Zoosk, Compatible Partners, Butch-Femme-dating etc), but all of them require monthly fees just to even see possible matches, or to respond in any way. These sites even advertised "Free" matches! OK, I guess getting matched was free, but anything else was different. I have to wait till later this week (XMas shopping, rent, other first of the month type bills cut it kinda close for me last paycheck) to be able to find out.

I did see several very interesting possibilities, and most fairly close by to me too. Soooo....

So, singles, how many of you have used these sites to find others, and what were your results?

(working on putting myself out there a bit.. not wanting to rush into anything, but I need and deserve to have a little fun!)

There are only two that I know of that are free to join and free to communicate..I've made some dear friends from these sites..but that's I seek now...but there are many that are looking for LTR and dating...Plenty of Fish and OK Cupid. I have friends that met on these sites and are still together after all this time..I like them because there is something for everyone from a yard sale buddy...to a lunch/dinner companion to a serious relationship. Good luck!!!!

ScandalAndy · 01-05-2012, 07:55 AM

I'm also tired of getting my hopes up with people, only to find out that they didn't think it was a date, and aren't interested in kissing me goodnight and texting me the next day.

I'm on OKCupid (1grlentourage), but haven't gotten any dates from there. I'm also here, and have pics of my band geekery.

30, scientist, femme, wants to be treated like she's something special. I love doing nice things for a partner, or even a date, it's in my nature to be that way. I love it even more when I truly feel like someone listens to me when I talk, and cares about how I feel. And I would REALLY like to be kissed, it's been a long time.

I'm also not about to pretend I am any good at writing personal ads.

Rope · 10-26-2012, 10:39 AM

I'm posting for a femme friend of mine. I'll come back and post her official ad, but here's what I've got on her since I know her.

She's early 40's (apparently that's an issue for some butches), femme, into leather and more than just a fashion statement, smart, gainfully employed, wry sense of humor, GOURMET cook (I'm not exaggerating and she makes a mean PIE), and sexy. Poly or monogamous if it works. Multi-racial Jew via Native American and Black American.

Prefers California, she lives in San Francisco area. She's open to blind dates.

She's looking for dates and see how it goes, no rush to the altar.

Email me via the site with your email address.

Rope--

Martina · 01-01-2012, 02:23 PM

btw i meant if i WERE in the UK. In fact, if i were, i might ask for a date anyway and hope she might mistake me for a butch who wears eyeliner.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2012, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by June

As I recall, she doesn't discriminate against a bit of eyeliner.

#Talkingaboutherwhenshe'snothere

I would pin you down and lick the eyeliner off your face, martina.

LOL

aw, darlin, we could have a naughty femme night in. I *do* take brief forays in that direction. y'know, sometimes us gals gotta give each other comfort, y'know? lol

1QuirkyKiwi · 01-01-2012, 02:57 PM

I'm in the UK (Essex)....only, I'm a Femme....

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2012, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by 1QuirkyKiwi

I'm in the UK (Essex)....only, I'm a Femme....

lol hey darlin! Essex is pretty, I was just there the other weekend and am headed back for a walk on the mashes soon.

so I take it I'm recruiting for a *cough* pyjama party femme orgy now?

I could do that. but I need a leather gimp. any volunteers?

1QuirkyKiwi · 01-01-2012, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by honeybarbara

lol hey darlin! Essex is pretty, I was just there the other weekend and am headed back for a walk on the mashes soon.

so I take it I'm recruiting for a *cough* pyjama party femme orgy now?

I could do that. but I need a leather gimp. any volunteers?

Pyjama party femme orgy….sounds good to me!

I was in Henley-on-Thames a couple of months ago (I used to live there a few years ago)…. I now live near the marshes, unless you mean the Maldon marshes, then I don't, lol!

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2012, 03:12 PM

haven't a fuckin clue which marshes, luv! LOL

I'm just learning now as I had never been there before. Oh, hey, if you are interested:

http://boards.gingerbeer.co.uk/index.php?topic=105025.0

I know bar wotever does this kind of stuff weekly on a tues but I figure a sat eve might suit some people more who are coming from a distance.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2012, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by June

I would suggest you meet up with Ciaran, but I suspect one of you (probably him) would be dead within the hour. I am not sure what color prison garb is across the pond, but it seems to be equally unflattering regardless of geographical location.

Happy New Years, Barb!

<3

really? that's sounds interesting..... I'm intrigued now.

Happy NY Juney!! <3 *MWAH*

Ciaran · 01-02-2012, 03:05 AM

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Originally Posted by June

I would suggest you meet up with Ciaran, but I suspect one of you (probably him) would be dead within the hour. I am not sure what color prison garb is across the pond, but it seems to be equally unflattering regardless of geographical location.

I'm not sure about the colour but hopeful that, if I ask the judge nicely, he / she would allow me to get the prison garb styled by Roberto Cavalli. If so, it would make my time behind bars that bit easier.

In any event, with my record of bribery, I might just be able to get off with a fine

Quote:

Originally Posted by honeybarbara

I know bar wotever does this kind of stuff weekly on a tues but I figure a sat eve might suit some people more who are coming from a distance.

The last time I went to Bar Wotever was two years ago when I did a striptease. NEVER AGAIN !!! - I think that I'm still wanted for causing shock and upset to the more sensitive members of the audience

imperfect_cupcake · 01-02-2012, 05:32 AM

there were sensitive members at bar wotever?? That doesn't sound like when I used to go!! you must have had a bad audience night? The room was usually full of delightful letches. Well. I haven't gone since it left kings cross when it was above the piss-play fuck club for gay men. I hope it hasn't gotten prudish. My heteroflexible mate got up and played an irish style folk tune on a fiddle and changed to words to having a hot load of jesus' love in her mouth (and other various sexual acts with the saviour) and no one blinked. It would be sad to have lost that randy aspect.

So then, what did you do that got some of the more delicate creatures in a bit of a flap? and did Ingo spank you?

01-01-2012, 05:30 PM	#4
nycbutch Junior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: moved on and ready to start again Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: nyc Posts: 76 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 276 Thanked 144 Times in 42 Posts Rep Power: 1165395	single butch good evening ladies!!! just thought I'd sliiiide on in and say hello to all you lovely femmes!! just a short add for now....52, single, available butch in NYC looking for a single, available femme within driving distance (preferably) see pics in gallery enjoy your evening Jay __________________ my theme song.... http://youtu.be/39gpaDnjW4I

01-01-2012, 11:03 PM	#6
nicetgurl_30 Member How Do You Identify?: Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: AR Posts: 133 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 122 Thanked 214 Times in 89 Posts Rep Power: 295940	All the single ladies Hey I'm 32..., haven't given up hope yet! Be nice just to meet other singles to do things with

01-05-2012, 07:55 AM	#10
ScandalAndy Member How Do You Identify?: human femme spitfire Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: it's official! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: east coast USA Posts: 1,167 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,758 Thanked 3,217 Times in 753 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Board games and dessert wine I'm also tired of getting my hopes up with people, only to find out that they didn't think it was a date, and aren't interested in kissing me goodnight and texting me the next day. I'm on OKCupid (1grlentourage), but haven't gotten any dates from there. I'm also here, and have pics of my band geekery. 30, scientist, femme, wants to be treated like she's something special. I love doing nice things for a partner, or even a date, it's in my nature to be that way. I love it even more when I truly feel like someone listens to me when I talk, and cares about how I feel. And I would REALLY like to be kissed, it's been a long time. I'm also not about to pretend I am any good at writing personal ads. __________________ The joy of discovery is certainly the liveliest that the mind of man can ever feel. - Claude Bernard (1813-78)

10-26-2012, 10:39 AM	#11
Rope Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: polyamorous Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 304 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 79 Thanked 1,277 Times in 212 Posts Rep Power: 8577864	I'm posting for a femme friend of mine. I'll come back and post her official ad, but here's what I've got on her since I know her. She's early 40's (apparently that's an issue for some butches), femme, into leather and more than just a fashion statement, smart, gainfully employed, wry sense of humor, GOURMET cook (I'm not exaggerating and she makes a mean PIE), and sexy. Poly or monogamous if it works. Multi-racial Jew via Native American and Black American. Prefers California, she lives in San Francisco area. She's open to blind dates. She's looking for dates and see how it goes, no rush to the altar. Email me via the site with your email address. Rope-- __________________ www.ButchFemmeSocials.com

01-01-2012, 02:57 PM	#14
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01-01-2012, 01:48 PM	#1
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I see this isn't a popular idea with peeps to post a "would like to meet" as no one has followed suit in the thread... I take it there's a butch-femme dating site that of more use that people use. Linky, anyone? oh, and I'm good with holidays. cough. just sayin, like. In case someone charming is travelling through london/oxford... I know some very good kick ass real ale pubs with very good food and know oxford/london quite well for alternative queer night life...

01-01-2012, 01:51 PM	#2
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,286 Times in 4,167 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	god, if i were younger and butch and not in the UK and cool enough, i would so be responding to this one. Sigh at an available (but not) Honeybarbara.

01-01-2012, 08:00 PM	#5
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,286 Times in 4,167 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	i haven't had a date off of OKCupid. i am poly but have been busy with work, gained a BUNCH of weight, and otherwise have placed a number of roadblocks in front of dating outside my D/s (which i am free to do and want to do at some point). ANYWAY, i am a member of OKCupid and love the folks they send my way. They seem like real and cool people. i do not know if there is an OKCupid for the UK.

01-03-2012, 11:43 AM	#7
ArkansasPiscesGrrl Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: feeling pretty darned blissful right now! Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: central AR Posts: 856 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,594 Thanked 3,079 Times in 741 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I am single too. I have recently signed onto several of the dating sites (Zoosk, Compatible Partners, Butch-Femme-dating etc), but all of them require monthly fees just to even see possible matches, or to respond in any way. These sites even advertised "Free" matches! OK, I guess getting matched was free, but anything else was different. I have to wait till later this week (XMas shopping, rent, other first of the month type bills cut it kinda close for me last paycheck) to be able to find out. I did see several very interesting possibilities, and most fairly close by to me too. Soooo.... So, singles, how many of you have used these sites to find others, and what were your results? (working on putting myself out there a bit.. not wanting to rush into anything, but I need and deserve to have a little fun!)

01-01-2012, 02:23 PM	#12
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,286 Times in 4,167 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	btw i meant if i WERE in the UK. In fact, if i were, i might ask for a date anyway and hope she might mistake me for a butch who wears eyeliner.

01-01-2012, 03:12 PM	#17
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	haven't a fuckin clue which marshes, luv! LOL I'm just learning now as I had never been there before. Oh, hey, if you are interested: http://boards.gingerbeer.co.uk/index.php?topic=105025.0 I know bar wotever does this kind of stuff weekly on a tues but I figure a sat eve might suit some people more who are coming from a distance.

01-02-2012, 05:32 AM	#20
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	there were sensitive members at bar wotever?? That doesn't sound like when I used to go!! you must have had a bad audience night? The room was usually full of delightful letches. Well. I haven't gone since it left kings cross when it was above the piss-play fuck club for gay men. I hope it hasn't gotten prudish. My heteroflexible mate got up and played an irish style folk tune on a fiddle and changed to words to having a hot load of jesus' love in her mouth (and other various sexual acts with the saviour) and no one blinked. It would be sad to have lost that randy aspect. So then, what did you do that got some of the more delicate creatures in a bit of a flap? and did Ingo spank you?