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Bless you, hun. Get all comfy. Got anyone to help you out there? |
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The American Cancer Society chapter in our area has volunteers that help with errand running, house stuff, etc. for folks undergoing chemo, radiation, etc. I felt a little odd about it, since I'm able to take care of my Mom, but they assured me that they were still happy to help even though I'm her caregiver. I've opted not to use the volunteers' time so that they can use it to help folks who are alone and really need it.....but I recommend giving them a call, or checking out their website. Sometimes, just having someone run to the store, or toss in a load of laundry, can be a real help. Hugs, Jo
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Thanks Jane and Jo. I will actually give the cancer center a call tomorrow. I could really use an extra set of hands right now! I am dealing with Jacob on my own right now but someone will be here in a little while to help me with him and get him to bed. Im not supposed to be putting any weight on my foot and I am a clutz on crutches. But, hey, I gotta do what I gotta do. A lil boy needs his Mama!
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Hello all! My Mom is doing really well. Amazingly so. She had a radiation treatment last week. She had no side effects and it was not too hard for her. She has gained 10 pounds since she started chemotherapy.
This week she had a fever a couple of days but her white cell count was ok. She in on antibiotics and seems to be ok with that. They are tapering her off the steroids slowly. Next week she will start her fourth round of chemotherapy. She got two super cute wigs and that has made her very happy. They look great! HeavenleAngel I hope you are feeling well and will call the cancer center. I have started volunteering with seniors and I get so much pleasure from helping. Anyone who is volunteering wants to help and you will be doing them a favor by allowing them to help you! Be well everyone. |
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Just stopping in to give everyone an update on my progress. I have been sick to my stomach and feeling really "bloated" all week. I know now why they say chemo causes fatigue but I dont understand how they expect you to exercise to beat the fatigue. The people who tell you that obviously have never went through this stuff. I just cant muster the energy to walk up my stairs, let alone exercise. Mine is partly from the dehydration, Im sure.
I have tried to shield Jacob from as much of this as I can, but he is so smart and so clingy to me, I cant hide my condition. It really makes me sad... Thanks again everyone for the private and yahoo messages wishing me well. It really brightens my day when I log in and see that someone cares.
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Sorry you're feeling so bad. My mom struggles with dehydration and it was a major issue. We found that adding Pedialyte did her a world of good. Right now we use the unflavored variety and mix it half and half with juice a couple times a day. It's worth a try. ![]()
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There have been a number of studies done that have shown that even the smallest amount of exercise helps with fatigue during chemo. Even just taking a 5-10 minute, slow walk will make a difference. Built up from there. Ok, so I didn't follow that advice consistently myself during chemo, but I thought I would let you know what I have read in more than one place. Don't forget that Gatorade is great for dehydration. It has the electrolytes to get you back into balance (you lose this when you are dehydrated). If you start to lose weight and have a hard time not getting it under control, choose the Pedialyte, for certain. Or do Gatorade for dehydration and protein shakes for calories/health. Also, drinking a lot of water is important after chemo. It flushes the chemo out of your system. You will feel less shitty the sooner you get that stuff out.
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