The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

[Vlasta]

Originally Posted by claybaby

aww Vlasta you are just too kind for words! I am so happy your son and grands will be coming to be with you...the house will runneth over with love now!! Remember to cherish every moment...

Evening lofters...where is everyone...I think STAR is up to no good at that Inn in Okie City...and will head to Wa state tomorrow.
Heavenleah is fast asleep in the hay with her son, I am sure.
RUSTED was putting up ceiling tiles last I heard
Clay..staying out of trouble..actually getting into trouble...lol..makes life so interesting though!!
Wanted to wish everyone a peaceful night's slumber...take care all..see you all manana.....heart you all..Clayboi

Clay thank you for your kind words . It's always precious to me when I come here . I can write in Russian or some other language , but I don't think nobody would appreciate it .... lol .

have a good night

[clay]

Originally Posted by Vlasta

Clay thank you for your kind words . It's always precious to me when I come here . I can write in Russian or some other language , but I don't think nobody would appreciate it .... lol .

have a good night

aww sure you can...just not sure how many of us would be able to read it...grin...can you write my name on here in Russian? PLs?
YOU have a great night as well..let's throw a pack of firecrackers out on the floor in here..see how many we wake up...lol...later sweet Vlasta...Clayboi

[Vlasta]

Originally Posted by claybaby

aww sure you can...just not sure how many of us would be able to read it...grin...can you write my name on here in Russian? PLs?
YOU have a great night as well..let's throw a pack of firecrackers out on the floor in here..see how many we wake up...lol...later sweet Vlasta...Clayboi

here ya go my friend ..... good luck it's in Russian lol " глина. " it's really not typical Russian name if you were Maxim , it would be more easy . This it's just translation of Clay .... Enjoy

[clay]

Originally Posted by Vlasta

here ya go my friend ..... good luck it's in Russian lol " глина. " it's really not typical Russian name if you were Maxim , it would be more easy . This it's just translation of Clay .... Enjoy

wow...coolios...thanks lady!! grin

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Morning, Everyone. Another day begins and life goes on. I couldn't sleep at all last night. I stayed hot all night long! I wanted to go sleep in a snowbank!

[clay]

Morning everyone...another beautiful day here in Pair O' Dice!!! LOVE...LOVE....LOVE this gorgeous weather!!!
HEAVEN......bless your heart! My wife would get the "roid red face" and the hot flashes post treatment. She got pre medicated with some Benadryl, Decadron, and then something for nausea....she would get sleepy in the treatment center and nap a bit. Once home she would take a short nap, then be "wired" for 24 to 36 hrs. She would want to talk..and I wanted to sleep...so I got her a dry erase board and let her write down anything she wanted me to know the next day....we kept a big fan on high all the time anyway and she would have one on her if she sat up as well. She would say the steroids in the pre med. would "light her up like a Christmas tree"...smiles..Anyway nap today whenever you can...sending big hugs to you....have a good day..take care of that ankle, BTW!
LOFTERS PEEPS.......sending you all some of my sunny and warm weather......hugs to all..Clay

[morningstar55]

morning Lofter dwellers and peekers

welll.... i am still in OK city.. our load got cancelled just as we got backed up to the dock ... we were not very happy campers.
anyways. its very windy here this morning... wind rocking the truck. but its a very nice sunny day ... should be t shirt weather if the wind wasnt blowing so much.
clay .. wish i cold get a load out your way.. but its extremly rare I would get one to the beach where you are..... now i was sent to cocoa beach last Nov..and i been working at this job for 6 yrs now... sooo never know...
hope everyone has a nice day.

[Licious]

Hi Loft Folks,

Just saying hello and checking in, reading posts. Wish to be more consistent on this thread in 2012.


Have a great Friday and weekend!

[clay]

Morning all you lofters! It's FRIDAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY....hope the weekend is awesome for all of you. I can't wait to watch Super Bowl!! grin..
Go GIANTS!!!!
Incredibly awesome day here....still in shorts and tank top....LOVE it!!!
Anyone up for some myschief...gimme a holla....grin.
Hugs to all..Clay

[Sunny]

It is another beautiful day here. Just took a walk and headed off to work. Hope all of you amazing people are blessed today. Good news is on the way.

[clay]

afternoon all you lofters...hope everyone is having an awesome day..it is truly gorgoeus here. Weather is in high 70's and sunny, blue skies.
I can't wait til tomnorrow for Super Bowl! Sushi & Super Bowl..yummmmm!
Sending hugs and wishes for a fantastic weekend to all!!!
GO GIANTS!!!!! yay!!!!!

[ruthie14]

Hi folks, sorry I haven't been on much. Lots going on! Family and friends have been quite ill lately so lots to take care of. Still job hunting... yuck!

On the bright side..very bright side.. I have had a few dates with nycbutch. One of the sweetest people I have ever met! We are having tons of fun and getting to know one another is an adventure!

Have a great superbowl sunday!

Ruthie

[clay]

On the bright side..very bright side.. I have had a few dates with nycbutch. One of the sweetest people I have ever met! We are having tons of fun and getting to know one another is an adventure!



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Hey Ruthie:
That is just awesome. I am so very happy for you! Enjoy that time..and let it evolve..slowly...and YOU are a beautiful woman..and hy is a lucky butch! Grin..hugs..Clay

[Gaige]

Originally Posted by ruthie14

Hi folks, sorry I haven't been on much. Lots going on! Family and friends have been quite ill lately so lots to take care of. Still job hunting... yuck!

On the bright side..very bright side.. I have had a few dates with nycbutch. One of the sweetest people I have ever met! We are having tons of fun and getting to know one another is an adventure!

Have a great superbowl sunday!

Ruthie

That’s great Ruthie. IMO getting to know one another is one of the most exciting parts of a relationship. I may just drag that part out in my next relationship. Good luck to the two of you.

[blueeyes226_l]

Ruthie,
I'm sorry for all the sickness in your family and friends,I know how it is. Its the pitts. I'm glad you have found someone to date and havr fun. I'm happy for you. Shoot that means I don't stand a chance.LOL You desurve someone.

[SaltyButch]

Ahh nice to see so many "seasoned" ladies and gents....this thread is a great place to discuss what our generation faces....look forward to some enlightening discussion. Here's a question to start things off....Do you think we as "older" persons should be limited to a particular age range when dating?

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Afternoon, Lofters; Just popping in to say hello and see how everyone has been. We are enjoying this unseasonably warm, snowless weather. Lord, I hope it doesn't all hit us in April!

[SweetJane]

Originally Posted by SaltyButch

Ahh nice to see so many "seasoned" ladies and gents....this thread is a great place to discuss what our generation faces....look forward to some enlightening discussion. Here's a question to start things off....Do you think we as "older" persons should be limited to a particular age range when dating?

Very good question, Salty.

I, for one, don't think that we should be limited--within reason, of course. This is especially true for older femmes. Here in the B-F community, we often are subjected to traditional het social rules; ie femmes only date older butches. For some of us, that's just fine. For others, that's very uncomfortable on many levels.

Let me explain. When you are dipping into your sunset years, the number of available older butches is quite limited. That means your dating pool is smaller than a thimble. That can make some of us resign ourselves to an easy chair and watch life pass us by.

For myself, in general I prefer the energy of younger people, butch or femme, straight or gay. Their fresh view on life, their raw courage to try new things, their stamina amazes me. That's one reason I've covered music for so long. Younger people keep me young and keep me looking forward toward the next sunrise.

But to date? I prefer someone a bit younger (or someone who has that same youthful attack on life). But my cut off is about 20 years my junior. Once someone is in their 40s the age and generational barriers dissolve. It's a matter of personal charisma and, of course, integrity.

[Heavenleahangel]

Originally Posted by SweetJane

Very good question, Salty.

I, for one, don't think that we should be limited--within reason, of course. This is especially true for older femmes. Here in the B-F community, we often are subjected to traditional het social rules; ie femmes only date older butches. For some of us, that's just fine. For others, that's very uncomfortable on many levels.

Let me explain. When you are dipping into your sunset years, the number of available older butches is quite limited. That means your dating pool is smaller than a thimble. That can make some of us resign ourselves to an easy chair and watch life pass us by.

For myself, in general I prefer the energy of younger people, butch or femme, straight or gay. Their fresh view on life, their raw courage to try new things, their stamina amazes me. That's one reason I've covered music for so long. Younger people keep me young and keep me looking forward toward the next sunrise.

But to date? I prefer someone a bit younger (or someone who has that same youthful attack on life). But my cut off is about 20 years my junior. Once someone is in their 40s the age and generational barriers dissolve. It's a matter of personal charisma and, of course, integrity.

Jane; That was a wonderful response! Thank you.

[Kobi]

Originally Posted by SaltyButch

Ahh nice to see so many "seasoned" ladies and gents....this thread is a great place to discuss what our generation faces....look forward to some enlightening discussion. Here's a question to start things off....Do you think we as "older" persons should be limited to a particular age range when dating?

Unlike Jane, I prefer to stick to my own age group.

Young folk can be fun and exhilarating and exhausting. Been there, done that, have the tattoo as a reminder

I prefer the wisdom and settledness that comes with age.