Being perceived as ditzy, flaky or shallow for being femme

genghisfawn · 01-29-2012, 01:13 PM

Tale as old as time...

Imagine a small city with more straight butches than queer butches, and most of the queer butches are straight.

A brainy, fun femme meets a single butch (into femmes! no wai!) and pitches some demure woo.

Then it happens... butch begins to talk down to femme. Femme is justifiably annoyed as it has become apparent that butch is either a bit of an airhead or is somewhat insecure. Femme responds politely but with as much mannerly wit as is possible without brow-furrowing or a big eff you.

Butch throws down with something downright insulting (my best yet, in response to a comment about how Saturday nights are more about the freedom of opportunity than the pressure of obligation... "That's a bit heavy for a Saturday night... Did you go to school or something?")

Femme smiles and thanks butch for the drink, but heads around talking to friends for awhile and leaves.

*cuddles up and sighs*

01-29-2012, 01:13 PM	#19
genghisfawn Member How Do You Identify?: Femme/Gentlewoman Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Happily married 05/17/14 Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Posts: 561 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,056 Thanked 2,158 Times in 403 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Tale as old as time... Imagine a small city with more straight butches than queer butches, and most of the queer butches are straight. A brainy, fun femme meets a single butch (into femmes! no wai!) and pitches some demure woo. Then it happens... butch begins to talk down to femme. Femme is justifiably annoyed as it has become apparent that butch is either a bit of an airhead or is somewhat insecure. Femme responds politely but with as much mannerly wit as is possible without brow-furrowing or a big eff you. Butch throws down with something downright insulting (my best yet, in response to a comment about how Saturday nights are more about the freedom of opportunity than the pressure of obligation... "That's a bit heavy for a Saturday night... Did you go to school or something?") Femme smiles and thanks butch for the drink, but heads around talking to friends for awhile and leaves. cuddles up and sighs