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Old 02-02-2012, 12:22 PM   #1
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Still haven't smoked and have been trying to wean myself off the nicotine lozenges. I didn't have my first one until 11 am today. I still am gettin about 1 powerful urge to smoke a day...but I've come too far to go back. I wih I could smoke one every once in awhile and not start the habit again, but apparently I can not. I used to be able to, but it is playing with fire! Way too easy to get sucked back in!
Been there and done that. I took a trip to Texas and thought what could it hurt, I will quit again once I get back. Well, I have been back and had to start all over again. Today is day 3 with smoking....I am the old school type in many ways....Cold turkey....sometimes I wish I could change the way I am....other times I am fine

Keep up with it and keep coming here to check in, it sure helps me and encourages me when I see folks posting!
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Old 02-02-2012, 09:33 PM   #2
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Been there and done that. I took a trip to Texas and thought what could it hurt, I will quit again once I get back. Well, I have been back and had to start all over again. Today is day 3 with smoking....I am the old school type in many ways....Cold turkey....sometimes I wish I could change the way I am....other times I am fine

Keep up with it and keep coming here to check in, it sure helps me and encourages me when I see folks posting!
It is great that you quit again! It isn't easy, but you made it past the hardest part! BTW, I am sure you are fine just the way you are.

I usually quit cold turkey too, the 10 or so other time I have quit. I knew I couldn't do it this time. My life is too stressful right now, My work is CRAZY because it is tax season, and I'm taking 2 classes and a few other things, I wouldn't have made it a day without smoking, so I decided to use the nicotine "supplements" LOL.

Today...I had the food craving...I ate way more sugar cookies than I should have! Then...I realized what I was doing and took a nicotine "supplement" to save me from gaining 5lbs in 5 minutes! LOL I'm okay now :-) Good thing I didn't have any potato chips in the house!

Stay strong everyone! I know you all have helped me to not smoke a great deal. The support is great and it's nice that you all understand what a struggle quitting can be. Just realized, it is 7 days today...still not out of the woods...will probably always be in the woods...but each day I breathe a little easier!
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First let me say CONGRATS to all who are quitting or trying to quit! That is fanstastic!

I have chosen to cut down as you have seen. I haven't been back in a few days so thought I would check in..lol
I am on day 22 and I am currently at 3 to 4 a day right now.

Will be cutting down to 2 or 3 real soon. My body is still fighting it a lil.
But this is what seems to work for me the best.

Seems to me like that lil bit would be easy to cut down but seriously it is not.
But it will happen...trust that...ha!

It simply amazes me I have kept to it and am down to that..btw I have gained 5 lbs so I am still ok..That won't be hard to get off. smiles
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First let me say CONGRATS to all who are quitting or trying to quit! That is fanstastic!

I have chosen to cut down as you have seen. I haven't been back in a few days so thought I would check in..lol
I am on day 22 and I am currently at 3 to 4 a day right now.

Will be cutting down to 2 or 3 real soon. My body is still fighting it a lil.
But this is what seems to work for me the best.

Seems to me like that lil bit would be easy to cut down but seriously it is not.
But it will happen...trust that...ha!

It simply amazes me I have kept to it and am down to that..btw I have gained 5 lbs so I am still ok..That won't be hard to get off. smiles
That is awesome that you can do that! I don't have enough will power! I think I'm an all or nothing kinda gal. LOL
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That is awesome that you can do that! I don't have enough will power! I think I'm an all or nothing kinda gal. LOL
I did the all or nothing thing last time I quit..I did it well and stopped for 2 years..dumb me picked up a tiny cigar..lol

This time I find I can't do it that way..but I was smoking way more this time than then.

I figure even if stopping is slower for me, it is better than what I was doing and consistant.

I have slowed from almost 2 packs to this now.
Hope to be smoke free soon..smiles

And thank you very much....It is nice to others doing the same or the same process..it really does help during the hard times.

Atleast it does for me!
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Pacing the floors this morning.....I will not go buy, I will not go buy, I will not go buy!!
So, lemme get ready to have a few folks over for Super Bowl watching this evening....The good news is they are non smokers!
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Pacing the floors this morning.....I will not go buy, I will not go buy, I will not go buy!!
So, lemme get ready to have a few folks over for Super Bowl watching this evening....The good news is they are non smokers!
Stay strong, my friend!!! You can make it! I know you can! :-)
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Pacing the floors this morning.....I will not go buy, I will not go buy, I will not go buy!!
So, lemme get ready to have a few folks over for Super Bowl watching this evening....The good news is they are non smokers!
Fantastic!!! That is way cool.

toothpicks to play with help alot.
remember to breath, get rid of all smells on smoke or ashtrays.
And when you really desire a smoke, get busy doing something.


Today is my 23rd day of cutting down...SO FAR I HAVE HAD NONE.

My daughter started today as well to not smoke...way cool
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Just a question to everyone else.
Have any of you noticed horrible heart burn since you have tried to quit or when you quit before?

If so, what did you do for it? Nothing seems to help yet that I have tried.
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Sorry I don't have anything to pass on for this, I never had that out of all the times I have quit.

Not sure how to reply to the message you left! I don't have a particular team to root for this year....pretty much the Super Bowl this year is just a reason for friends to get together.

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Have any of you noticed horrible heart burn since you have tried to quit or when you quit before?

If so, what did you do for it? Nothing seems to help yet that I have tried.
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