What TO DO in a relationship.....

softheart · 02-03-2012, 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG

Make promises you keep.
Make yourself easy to love.
Make the one you love feel safe and secure.
No matter what, make the one you love know she is a priority.
Talk about everything, and be brutally honest, even if it's difficult.
Treat her like a queen, and love her in all ways , always.
Build a bond together that noone or no thing can come between .
Apologize for your mistakes, make amends and do better next time. Then make amends again.
Take responsibility for your actions .
Validate her feelings by listening, stop what your doing, even when you're busy and pressed for time.
Always make time for her needs , even if your tired ,injured or bored.
Just a few things I always try to do when I love someone. It doesn't guaranty she won't still choose to walk away, but I don't think it hurts anything.

I love this!

TimilDeeps · 02-03-2012, 09:12 PM

Be real . . . .

WingsOnFire · 02-04-2012, 05:10 PM

Take time to "be in the moment". Life is too short as I have recently found out the hard way.

girl_dee · 02-06-2012, 01:49 PM

talk, like to each other

MsTinkerbelly · 02-06-2012, 01:52 PM

Forgive each other for not being perfect.

Estella · 02-06-2012, 02:59 PM

Holy Mother of God do NOT stop having sex! There's a name for lesbian partners who don't have sex anymore ... they're called roommates.

Blade · 02-06-2012, 03:11 PM

SHHHHHhhhhhh LISTEN.........this requires your mouth to be closed

AtLast · 02-06-2012, 03:33 PM

Be present................

princessbelle · 02-06-2012, 03:36 PM

Go grocery shopping together.

Plan a movie night when you stay home and watch a movie and eat popcorn and curl up on pillows and snuggle!!!!!

Don't ever let the romance go away. Intimacy...all levels of it...is SOOOOOOOOOOO important!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dixie · 02-06-2012, 03:50 PM

Talk...openly and honestly.

Okiebug61 · 02-06-2012, 04:11 PM

Love the things about each other that are yet to come.

Martina · 02-03-2012, 11:33 PM

Keep your car in good repair so you can go visit Her when She wants to see you.

NorCalStud · 02-04-2012, 12:11 AM

Be patient

girl_dee · 02-04-2012, 02:55 PM

be realistic about things you like or don't dislike in the beginning, that annoying small annoying detail will become a monstrosity after you get serious!

~ocean · 02-04-2012, 03:08 PM

have your own friends as well as mutual friends. everyone needs space

girl_dee · 02-04-2012, 03:23 PM

don't ever let the honeymoon be over.

02-04-2012, 05:10 PM	#3
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02-06-2012, 02:59 PM	#6
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princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,496 Times in 5,198 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Go grocery shopping together. Plan a movie night when you stay home and watch a movie and eat popcorn and curl up on pillows and snuggle!!!!! Don't ever let the romance go away. Intimacy...all levels of it...is SOOOOOOOOOOO important!!!!!!!!!!!!!! __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

02-06-2012, 04:11 PM	#11
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02-03-2012, 09:12 PM	#2
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02-06-2012, 01:49 PM	#4
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02-04-2012, 12:11 AM	#13
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02-04-2012, 02:55 PM	#14
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,830 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	be realistic about things you like or don't dislike in the beginning, that annoying small annoying detail will become a monstrosity after you get serious!

02-04-2012, 03:08 PM	#15
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02-04-2012, 03:23 PM	#16
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