Big Butch Love

clay · 02-05-2012, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by smouldering

Agreed, I love reading Claybaby's posts.. you can tell they are genuine and come from the heart

P.S. It is perfect weather for cuddling a big sexy butch

Aww, smouldering...here I am...blushing...again..you ladies are so sweet! Thanks so much! Yes, I do write right from my heart!!
And ANY DAY/TIME is perfect for cuddling with a gorgeous femme....

Leigh · 02-05-2012, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by claybaby

Aww, thank you, Leigh!!! Big hug, my friend!!!
PS Make me blush in here!!

**hugs clay big time**

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Originally Posted by smouldering

Agreed, I love reading Claybaby's posts.. you can tell they are genuine and come from the heart

P.S. It is perfect weather for cuddling a big sexy butch

Hy is one of the butches that I think is sweet, thoughtful, caring & handsome plus hy certainly has a way with hys words

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Originally Posted by claybaby

Aww, smouldering...here I am...blushing...again..you ladies are so sweet! Thanks so much! Yes, I do write right from my heart!!
And ANY DAY/TIME is perfect for cuddling with a gorgeous femme....

You couldn't be more right, any day is perfect for cuddling a big butch

Cuddles · 02-22-2012, 02:41 PM

What an awesome thread!

I was sensitive to weight issues in my 20's and after failed relationships put on more weight figuring "what's the point"... but entering my 30's gave me a new perspective on myself and I stopped caring as much what others thought.

I've since lost 62 lbs and still going down. I've always been one of those cocky butches that looks in the mirror and likes what I see but worried would others. It's nice to be released from that... I got my swagger back.

I'm still a Big Butch and will be for awhile till I lose it finally but I'll be damned if I ever let myself get on the self-pity train again. So it warms my heart and soul to see this thread! You all are some amazing women/men! Proud to count myself among you all!

Seeocean2011 · 02-22-2012, 09:13 PM

Just want to say Thanks for all the Nice/Sweet thoughts out there for us Butches.
I will be the one Opening the door for you, and Opening your car door for you.:-)

Thanks again

msW8ing · 02-23-2012, 11:49 AM

Yay the weekend is almost here. Anyone have anything fun planned for the weekend?

cutie_pi · 02-26-2012, 10:19 PM

Again, as many have said on here I just love big butches! Love. Love. Love. There's nothing like a big butch hug to make my day. Big arms holding me and making me feel safe.

Just had to stop by and express my love!

Leigh · 02-26-2012, 11:00 PM

Big butches/FTM's will always rawk My world :-)

Miss Scarlett · 03-22-2012, 11:52 AM

That you do Honey and it's that amazing heart of yours that got my attention...and you're wonderful to cuddle with too!!! i am one very lucky femme indeed!!!

i love my Sexy Silver Butch!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by claybaby

Aww, smouldering...here I am...blushing...again..you ladies are so sweet! Thanks so much! Yes, I do write right from my heart!!
And ANY DAY/TIME is perfect for cuddling with a gorgeous femme....

Femmadian · 05-14-2014, 12:43 PM

Reviving this thread because... well, big butches...

What I love about big butches in particular:
-their presence (amplified to the Nth power)
-thick fingers

-that soft, warm belly to cuddle up to
-they just feel solid
-wide hips and the sexy walk that comes with it
-more to grab onto ;-)
-that sweet spot to lay my head where their chest, shoulder, and big, butch arm meet
-play-wrestling in bed with them... winning is fun but then, so is losing...
-not having to worry if I'm going to break them!
-feeling the full weight of them on top of me... or draped across me after certain activities

-the thickness of their thighs... it feels decadent to have them tangled up in/between mine
-wrapping my arms around them and pulling them closer (it feels great to have my arms totally full with a big, handsome butch and not be left wanting!)
-big, butch butt...

I like butches of all sizes, shapes, and stripes, but a big butch activates a certain primal, animal lust in me that I just can't deny. Thank Maude for big butches!

starryeyes · 05-14-2014, 02:32 PM

Big Butches=YUM!!! <3

CherylNYC · 05-14-2014, 06:49 PM

Ayup. I love big, strong butches.

Mel C. · 05-14-2014, 06:57 PM

It is refreshing to hear that there are femmes who appreciate us.

SaltyButch · 05-14-2014, 07:52 PM

I agree it's nice to know that there are women out there who appreciate us stocky fella's....I spent many years trying to lose weight so that someone might pay me attention, only to find out that some do like a little meat on the bones. All I can say is thank you for accepting me because it took me a long time to accept myself....and I finally do.

Femmadian · 05-14-2014, 08:58 PM

Some other things to love:

-more force behind each movement, thrust, etc., just for their sheer size/weight
-being hugged from behind by one and feeling totally surrounded by butchness :-)
-"borrowing" a big butch's shirt around the house - so comfy!
-watching one fawn over something fluffy/furry. Butches making a fuss over animals in general is endearing, but there's something special about watching a particularly large butch reduced to a puddle in front of a furbaby
-the sight of a big butch on the back of a motorcycle

-ever had a butch with a nice, round rump model a really cute pair of boxer briefs for you?
-bear hugs

-big butch, big boots. 'Nuff said. :-)
-they look awesome nekkid (I mean, everyone does, but I think they look extra awesome)

Basically, there's a lot to love. I'm more aware of big butches in just plain physical terms because they simply occupy more physical real estate. I love to explore those hillsides (with permission, of course)...

My most recent ex (not on BFP) was about a size 20-ish (which I don't find all that large) and 6 ft 1. I can remember seeing her for the first time and thinking "my god, she's an Amazon." It's a miracle I was able to keep my hands off her as long as I did. Would I still have been attracted to her if she had been smaller or shorter? Sure, but that lethal combination of both length and girth is dynamite for this femme.

I think confidence is key if you can unlearn and unpack some of the negative messaging society imprints on you about larger bodies. I know it's hard and it's a constant battle but I have to say, seeing a larger butch with confidence is a huge turn on. It's important to remember (for anyone) that the more time you spend fidgeting with and putting down your own body, that's time you could be giving someone else to appreciate it in all its glory. :-)

From one big-butch-loving femme, please feel free to show off a bit more.

02-23-2012, 11:49 AM	#5
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Yay the weekend is almost here. Anyone have anything fun planned for the weekend? __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

05-14-2014, 12:43 PM	#9
Femmadian Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Isla Nublar Posts: 385 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,296 Thanked 2,407 Times in 362 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Reviving this thread because... well, big butches... What I love about big butches in particular: -their presence (amplified to the Nth power) -thick fingers -that soft, warm belly to cuddle up to -they just feel solid -wide hips and the sexy walk that comes with it -more to grab onto ;-) -that sweet spot to lay my head where their chest, shoulder, and big, butch arm meet -play-wrestling in bed with them... winning is fun but then, so is losing... -not having to worry if I'm going to break them! -feeling the full weight of them on top of me... or draped across me after certain activities -the thickness of their thighs... it feels decadent to have them tangled up in/between mine -wrapping my arms around them and pulling them closer (it feels great to have my arms totally full with a big, handsome butch and not be left wanting!) -big, butch butt... I like butches of all sizes, shapes, and stripes, but a big butch activates a certain primal, animal lust in me that I just can't deny. Thank Maude for big butches! __________________

05-14-2014, 02:32 PM	#10
starryeyes Senior Member How Do You Identify?: a round peg in a square hole Preferred Pronoun?: Guess... Relationship Status: Seat taken Join Date: May 2011 Location: Rocky Mountain High Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,199 Thanked 10,052 Times in 2,076 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Big Butches=YUM!!! <3 __________________ "It's ok to make mistakes. It's ok to fall down. Get up! Look sickening....and make them eat it!" - Latrice Royale Starry

05-14-2014, 06:49 PM	#11
CherylNYC Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: I'm a woman. Behave accordingly. Relationship Status: Single, not looking. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NYC Posts: 1,467 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,474 Thanked 7,116 Times in 1,205 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Ayup. I love big, strong butches. __________________ Cheryl

05-14-2014, 08:58 PM	#14
Femmadian Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Isla Nublar Posts: 385 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,296 Thanked 2,407 Times in 362 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Some other things to love: -more force behind each movement, thrust, etc., just for their sheer size/weight -being hugged from behind by one and feeling totally surrounded by butchness :-) -"borrowing" a big butch's shirt around the house - so comfy! -watching one fawn over something fluffy/furry. Butches making a fuss over animals in general is endearing, but there's something special about watching a particularly large butch reduced to a puddle in front of a furbaby -the sight of a big butch on the back of a motorcycle -ever had a butch with a nice, round rump model a really cute pair of boxer briefs for you? -bear hugs -big butch, big boots. 'Nuff said. :-) -they look awesome nekkid (I mean, everyone does, but I think they look extra awesome) Basically, there's a lot to love. I'm more aware of big butches in just plain physical terms because they simply occupy more physical real estate. I love to explore those hillsides (with permission, of course)... My most recent ex (not on BFP) was about a size 20-ish (which I don't find all that large) and 6 ft 1. I can remember seeing her for the first time and thinking "my god, she's an Amazon." It's a miracle I was able to keep my hands off her as long as I did. Would I still have been attracted to her if she had been smaller or shorter? Sure, but that lethal combination of both length and girth is dynamite for this femme. I think confidence is key if you can unlearn and unpack some of the negative messaging society imprints on you about larger bodies. I know it's hard and it's a constant battle but I have to say, seeing a larger butch with confidence is a huge turn on. It's important to remember (for anyone) that the more time you spend fidgeting with and putting down your own body, that's time you could be giving someone else to appreciate it in all its glory. :-) From one big-butch-loving femme, please feel free to show off a bit more. __________________ Last edited by Femmadian; 05-14-2014 at 09:04 PM. Reason: i can haz proofreading skills?

02-22-2012, 02:41 PM	#3
Cuddles Junior Member How Do You Identify?: A romantic butch who loves to cuddle... and steal your french fry when you're not looking! Preferred Pronoun?: No preference. Relationship Status: Single, always looking to mingle and maybe be tamed one day Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Northern Florida Posts: 61 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 117 Thanked 191 Times in 36 Posts Rep Power: 1805812	What an awesome thread! I was sensitive to weight issues in my 20's and after failed relationships put on more weight figuring "what's the point"... but entering my 30's gave me a new perspective on myself and I stopped caring as much what others thought. I've since lost 62 lbs and still going down. I've always been one of those cocky butches that looks in the mirror and likes what I see but worried would others. It's nice to be released from that... I got my swagger back. I'm still a Big Butch and will be for awhile till I lose it finally but I'll be damned if I ever let myself get on the self-pity train again. So it warms my heart and soul to see this thread! You all are some amazing women/men! Proud to count myself among you all!

02-22-2012, 09:13 PM	#4
Seeocean2011 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Me Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: texas Posts: 19 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 34 Times in 11 Posts Rep Power: 68598	Just want to say Thanks for all the Nice/Sweet thoughts out there for us Butches. I will be the one Opening the door for you, and Opening your car door for you.:-) Thanks again

02-26-2012, 10:19 PM	#6
cutie_pi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Female Pronouns Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Rochester NY Posts: 14 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 28 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 267088	Again, as many have said on here I just love big butches! Love. Love. Love. There's nothing like a big butch hug to make my day. Big arms holding me and making me feel safe. Just had to stop by and express my love!

02-26-2012, 11:00 PM	#7
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Big butches/FTM's will always rawk My world :-)

05-14-2014, 06:57 PM	#12
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,828 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	It is refreshing to hear that there are femmes who appreciate us.

05-14-2014, 07:52 PM	#13
SaltyButch Member How Do You Identify?: Old School Butch Preferred Pronoun?: he/she/hey you..... Relationship Status: open to the possibilities Tournaments Won: 5 Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: mississauga ontario canada Posts: 345 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 432 Thanked 1,634 Times in 301 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I agree it's nice to know that there are women out there who appreciate us stocky fella's....I spent many years trying to lose weight so that someone might pay me attention, only to find out that some do like a little meat on the bones. All I can say is thank you for accepting me because it took me a long time to accept myself....and I finally do.