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It has been WAY too long since I danced...
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I would love to learn to dance someday with a partner
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Love this!!
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This is great,I wish I could still dance like that but for some reason my brain knows the steps but my feet forgot,somhow I need to change that before the reunion if possable.
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The feeling of being guided around the floor is so amazing, I love the feeling of a strong butch hand at the small of my back. It seems though that there are never enough opportunities to go out dancing.
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yep u better buddy...Mys Hawtness is going to be expecting that dance...so get moving buddy..lol
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I'm surprised AtLast has not been in here as she is a dancing fool.
The Bay Area has tons and tons of partner dancing (including lessons for free) opportunities.......everything from ballroom to jitterbug to tango to salsa to cheek/cheek slow dancing to pick a genre. When ButchFemme Socials does our annual big dance (in May this year) we always have a variety of music that includes most of what I listed above plus house & hipho & country western. The local DJs consider us a HUGE challenge. Lucky for us DJ Luna loves spinning for us.
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I would love to take ballroom dance classes with TF, but around here there are no lesbian classes (not surprisingly). I am not too sure that all of the women in a hetero class would want me to lead (and probably not too many of their husbands/boyfriends). Maybe they have some "couple only" classes around here where you don't have to switch partners, but I haven't heard of any.
Private classes would just be too costly.
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The last time I danced was with my ex's mum at a YMCA senior citizens celebration
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Sign me up .. I'd love to learn a few steps to get around the dance floor..
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I absolutely love to dance and slow dancing is my favorite. I think it can be so hot.
I can pretty much follow anyone but have to watch my tendency to lead. I find butches don't like that much...
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I, like others, would love to learn. Also like others, not much is offered around here. There's also the dilemma of finding someone to learn with....even if it's just a friend.
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several years ago there was a class being taught in my community...it was held every friday and offered up something for those of us that do not enjoy the bar scene. I took this class so i could dance at my daughter's wedding, suffice it to say, i had no one to dance with at her wedding so the classes i think were more for me ...i learned a lot.
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Needless to say, I LOVE dancing, couples dancing with a strong lead in particular. Once my life settles just a bit I'm going to start taking lessons even if I don't have a regular partner - Dancing has saved my life more than once and it still nourishes my soul in ways that nothing else can, even if I'm just dancing by myself.
There is a dance festival in NY every year that is very gay-friendly that I've wanted to go to for years. One of these days I'll make it there! |
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DWM. Which festival are you thinking of?
The one I've talked to you about before? We have a large traditional dance community here and one of the cool parts of it is a lot of gender bending. Not necessarily about being attracted to the same sex, but that it's a place where the even some of the most traditional men bust out their skirts and dresses and dance with each other and the women dance with each other wearing whatever they want and taking turns leading how they please. One of my closest friends and I were both partnered for years to soft butches who would not go dancing with us. We both loved the OFOS atmosphere at the traditional dances here, and would leave our partners at home and go dance with the men, snickering about it a lot, but having fun with the dancing part of it all. Too bad we never had any of the OFOS butches come to the dances but maybe someday there will be an infusion! |
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It's mid-February. Come!
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I love to lead my beautiful handsome Pete around the dance floor.
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I'm so GLAD you said this, I tend to lead rather well in dance, I can follow but it's rare to find anyone who can dance salsa who can lead. Boy of beer takes great mental, vocal, and beat direction so we flow quite nice onna dance floor, if needed during a cumbia hy's secure enough to let me lead till he gets it.
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Believe it or not there are allot of dance studios that teach same sex couples:
Locations: New York, Ohio, Mass, Many along the coast of California, Dallas, Chicago, Baltimore, DC, FL, CT, RI, PA, KS and many more. some don't even require you to bring a partner*shrugs* seems its a growing thing here in the states...and more and more competitions are popping up every year. of course for me it's just about dancing and having fun |
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