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The Butch Femme Dance (literally)
i absolutely l.o.v.e. this video:
[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bu3nYLdbQfI"]butch femme - YouTube[/nomedia] social dancing can be so intimate -- this video makes me long for the time when i guided a femme around the dance floor on a regular basis...  if anybody else has links to similar videos please post & share! |
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02-09-2012, 03:16 PM
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How beautiful! I love social dancing and would love to take lessons with a Butch partner some day
 I can do some basic steps,but would love to learn more dances.
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02-09-2012, 03:16 PM
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Third Coast as in Nashville?
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02-09-2012, 03:44 PM
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I love this <3 ty so much for sharing! Totally puts a smile to my face
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02-09-2012, 08:15 PM
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glad my new bff and everyone else enjoyed this post!
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02-09-2012, 08:31 PM
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SweetUrbaneBoi,thank you for this thread.
There is a studio here that offers women's partnered dance and a monthly women's dance. Unfortunately I only see a couple of what I would consider B-F couples there. They're mostly feminist lesbians. But there is such a wonderful exquisiteness to dance with a good lead butch who knows how to guide a femme around the room. I did experience that for the first time last month.....I absolutely loved it---waltz, salsa, two-step.. |
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02-15-2012, 07:54 AM
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It has been WAY too long since I danced...
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02-15-2012, 09:08 AM
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I would love to learn to dance someday with a partner
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02-15-2012, 09:35 AM
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Love this!!
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02-15-2012, 09:49 AM
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This is great,I wish I could still dance like that but for some reason my brain knows the steps but my feet forgot,somhow I need to change that before the reunion if possable.
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02-15-2012, 12:02 PM
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The feeling of being guided around the floor is so amazing, I love the feeling of a strong butch hand at the small of my back. It seems though that there are never enough opportunities to go out dancing.
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02-15-2012, 12:21 PM
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02-15-2012, 06:06 PM
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I'm surprised AtLast has not been in here as she is a dancing fool.
The Bay Area has tons and tons of partner dancing (including lessons for free) opportunities.......everything from ballroom to jitterbug to tango to salsa to cheek/cheek slow dancing to pick a genre. When ButchFemme Socials does our annual big dance (in May this year) we always have a variety of music that includes most of what I listed above plus house & hipho & country western. The local DJs consider us a HUGE challenge. Lucky for us DJ Luna loves spinning for us.
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02-15-2012, 06:24 PM
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I would love to take ballroom dance classes with TF, but around here there are no lesbian classes (not surprisingly). I am not too sure that all of the women in a hetero class would want me to lead (and probably not too many of their husbands/boyfriends). Maybe they have some "couple only" classes around here where you don't have to switch partners, but I haven't heard of any.
Private classes would just be too costly.
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02-15-2012, 06:42 PM
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I've seen this video before, it has the same effect on me every time...It makes me remember the feeling I had the first time I danced with a butch, and realized that I finally knew what all of Mom's smut books were beating around the bush about...Just yum!
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02-19-2012, 12:08 AM
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Also a personal interest of mine,,,
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We have a great mostly gbltq etc dominated ballroom dance school here. Straight folks go there too but it's pretty balanced. I'm just waiting for that butch who wants to take me there!
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Sign me up .. I'd love to learn a few steps to get around the dance floor..
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I absolutely love to dance and slow dancing is my favorite. I think it can be so hot.
I can pretty much follow anyone but have to watch my tendency to lead. I find butches don't like that much...
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