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02-26-2012, 12:46 AM
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 I remember when I smoked I hated how it controlled me, how I would have to take a break and smoke or I would not be able to focus at work. I would have to smoke. I hated it. I have been feeling much stronger. Thank you all for helping I feel like you all are back up strength, like a strength boost when I feel like I may slip up
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02-26-2012, 01:18 AM
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3 weeks and 3 days...and still counting..smiles
24 days today...Yippieeee.. Keep it up if your on the ride..It is worth it..hard but definately worth it!
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02-29-2012, 09:55 PM
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27 days and still going.
Had a hard time today but talked myself out of smoking. Ya all still holdin on? Keep it up!
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03-01-2012, 04:38 AM
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Woooohooooo 27 days is awesome.
 Very well done for talking yourself over the hump of craving yesterday. After almost a month you'd be really disappointed in yourself if you caved. It's just not worth feeling like crap after all the hard work you've done. Congrats for planting yourself on the non smoking magic carpet and staying put.  ps. Day 31 |
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It's finally time...I started the patch today! I've "quit" several times before...most notably a three-year smoke free stint starting when I got pregnant with my son...but I always fell back. This time...I gotta stick with it! I'm starting to seriously feel the effects of smoking, and I don't like the way it feels. So...wish me luck!
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also read some of the great stuff in this thread. Stay honest to yourself..tell yourself often you don't need that. And make yourself accountable..here or elsewhere. It really does help. Welcome to the ride. Glad to have more company..smiles
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03-01-2012, 03:43 PM
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Always2late.....good for you!! It is NEVER 2 LATE to quit smoking. Someday soon you will say you are a non-smoker and what a feeling that is to be able to do! I don't know where you go to get strength when you need it, but for those few minutes when you are fighting the nicotine demon to not buy a pack or bum one.....call that strength to the forefront. I support you from afar.......and know one day soon you will be an even stronger woman from your success!
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@always2late: I also quit for three years once I became preggers. Really wish I could quit again.
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Jump on the ride with us..it is a hell of a great support system..also your state offers help if you need it. I will help in any way possible if you need info etc.
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.........I totally get it and say to those of you who are quitting and /or desire to quit: YOU ARE SO WORTH IT, EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU!! I admire you for the work and ongoing efforts in your successes!! If you feel you have let yourself down, get over it and continue your efforts. No one of us is perfect. GO! GO! GO! {waving pom pom's}
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03-14-2012, 12:56 AM
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Just stoppin in to say hi. Check on everyone and say still going strong. Starting day 41...smiles
Hang in there everyone..Still going day by day..but the point is..I am still going. Someone asked me yesterday why I was still having issues..lol My thought was...you try going all but 14 years of your life smoking and breathing a certain way and then yank it away..see how well you adapt or breath..but I didn't..I just smiled and said...That is how it works for me..lol Keep it going strong. Have a great day. .
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I am sure if you seen my weak moments, it wouldn't be so impressive..ha But I don't break..That is all that matters..Right? Smiles Thank you again. The support here and keeping a record, also holding myself accountable and holding it up to others..Truely has helped for me. .
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Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~*~ Author unknown ~*~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~*~ Lady Pamela ~*~ |
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I say..... if you are having some struggles it is the battle you are winning!! Someday LP, you as well as others here will no longer count the days, but will be able to say years ago.
Although I am a reformed smoker.......I feel it is important once I stumbled on this thread, to stop in and support people who choose to quit. As corny as it may sound, it is admirable to see ya all more than just wanting to be successful, but having successes every day. Imperfections are human traits, I am human and l love me!! Keep up the good work......positive energy!!Quote:
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Well today is the day !!!!
.gif "Say What?") So far so good a little irritated here and there but not too bad. Right now I have one heck of a headache but that will go away soon. This will be the 3rd time I have quit cold turkey in my lifetime and I want this time to be the LAST !!!!
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WHOOO HOOOO Day one complete
 Didn't get much sleep last night but that's to be expected. Now on to another day and one more under my belt 
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