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I agree , never tell someone that you " love "them because if your not inlove with the person your with 1. why are you with the person and 2. why are you telling the person you love them when in fact your not "inlove" with them?
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03-09-2012, 05:15 PM
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I have to say, I felt a rush of peace... as I read these responses,
My common sense feeling all along has been to not say it. I have waited and tried to get the relationship passed the, early stages of "its so wonderfull to have someone in my life" phase... I have struggled with feeling like a jerk.. because I have not been completely upfront with her about this issue,... I can talk things to death! I think my life experience is warning me ...that she will feel more attached if I said what I feel. It never would have gone this far if I didn't care for her. But, I can love someone and walk away... she has said she can too. but I think, ... my gut is warning me that ..she really isn't at that level. the conflict.. has been I am a very open and honest person... and I haven't told her. (but, I may have told everyone else in the whole world.) --- And I very much appreciate everyone hashing this out with me.
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03-18-2012, 10:27 PM
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I spent many, many years inside my own head, worrying about how what I said or did would be perceived. I never put myself out there unless I was sure that the other person felt the same way.
Recently I realized how important it is to let the people you care about know how much you care about them. I tell everyone that I love, that I love them, that I appreciate them, that I am glad they are in my life. Life is too short to keep that important information to yourself. It is amazing how the more you share your love for others the more it is shared with you. I am truly blessed to have so many people in my life to love. Risk is a part of life, but if you don't risk you don't really live. Good Luck, L |
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03-19-2012, 06:17 PM
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03-19-2012, 06:58 PM
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how about bringing something delectable to bed..something you can feed her and just say something sweet like.." i love the way you make me feel" or ' i love the way you kiss me" etc. you are using the word love but in an appreciative way most women would enjoy hearing.
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03-19-2012, 07:04 PM
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03-19-2012, 07:11 PM
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does this person understand the difference between love and in love? If they do, I see nothing wrong with saying I love you, but dont think it would be a good idea to say...."I love you , but not in love with you" .. thats an ouch.
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03-19-2012, 07:22 PM
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