What was it about your lover...

apretty · 03-18-2012, 11:30 AM

E had years of therapy before I even met him and thus, emotional health and amazing boundaries which I admire, still.

Salt and Pepper pompadour, black rimmed eyeglasses, sweater vest and tie, grey J Crew dress pants and he brought me some artisan chocolates when we met.

On that first date, E never wavered from being appropriate and respectful while steadfastly determined to get me in a roadside motel.

Medusa · 03-18-2012, 11:35 AM

She made me laugh until I peed and drooled while ogling me.

Then she sent me a colon cleansing kit as a love gift. *instant amour!*

Miss_J · 03-21-2012, 11:57 AM

That is absolute hilarity and amazing connection!

Quintease · 03-21-2012, 05:23 PM

I'd love to contribute to this but he's annoyed me today.

He always say's 'But would you change me?' and I always reply with 'No, but there's bits of you I could happily live without.'

Gemme · 03-21-2012, 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DeviantDaddy

We both feel a very primitive draw to one another. Nothing mundane or civilized about it, it is buried deep within us. Society has done an excellent job of taming the very primitive nature of man and woman yet she awakens the animal within me. And it calls to the lioness within her. It is very powerful, intense and raw.

She is my kitten, my slut, my babygirl, my pet, my partner, my woman... my mate.

Love this!!!

Deborah · 03-22-2012, 10:18 AM

Positive Attitude
Great Smile
Gorgeous Blue Eyes
He really 'gets' me
He listens to me
Positive Attitude
Makes me feel special
Makes me feel safe
Makes me feel beautiful
Makes me feel loved
Positive Attitude
Great Kisser
Kind
Considerate
Great Arms
Awesome Outlook on Life
and did I mention his Positive Attitude

BullDog · 03-22-2012, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Deborah

Positive Attitude
Great Smile
Gorgeous Blue Eyes
He really 'gets' me
He listens to me
Positive Attitude
Makes me feel special
Makes me feel safe
Makes me feel beautiful
Makes me feel loved
Positive Attitude
Great Kisser
Kind
Considerate
Great Arms
Awesome Outlook on Life
and did I mention his Positive Attitude

Oh I so get what you are saying Deborah. Belle is the most positive person I have ever been around. It is an absolute joy to be in her presence and makes all the difference in the world for our day to day life. She has big beautiful blue eyes too.

Novelafemme · 03-18-2012, 11:44 AM

...the way she raises one eyebrow when discussing something complex. her black prada glasses and her hazel eyes. she has impeccable style and walks with such confidence, yet is the most humble person i know.

like apretty said, years of therapy and self-work resulted in her knowing how to communicate and assert who she is when need be. and the j crew pants don't hurt one bit.

we just fit. instantly. there was no second guessing or fear. have we had our "moments"...of course! but ultimately it was written for us. we simply had to follow the notes.

Inked_Trinity · 03-18-2012, 11:49 AM

She is so open and honest! She has a wonderful sarcastic wit!

DaddysKitten · 03-18-2012, 12:21 PM

I remember late night talks with him, completely chaste before, any sort of 'acknowledged chemistry' began. He was so traditional, much like I am, and our beliefs seem too old to the world, that I had decided long before this that I would either have to settle, or be alone. And settling was indeed out of the question.

Without even knowing it, we had solidified a basis for our future relationship with those late night talks that left me curled in bed, just so overjoyed that someone out there still saw things the way I did. Ways that so many had forgotten, or even now see as, male chauvinistic.

I loved those old ideas of being a stay at home housewife, barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. Waiting til he came home, with dinner prepared, and ready to serve his every need and whim, contently. Thanking him in even the simplest ways for providing for his family.

And then our relationship moved to another level, and everything just felt so natural, so very natural. We slipped into a Daddy/babygirl relationship without it ever even being something either of has had considered before. Our D/s dynamic had been set in stone before the idea of 'dating' even came to our minds.

I think it was much like before the internet, when you just really spent the time to get to know someone, before hopping into discussions of expectations on an intimate level. We just... happened.

And then, time grew on, and his touch. I remember the electrification of the simplest thing, even a brush of his fingers to my cheek. I remember being so breathless after our first simple kiss. And again, everything, from sitting around talking for hours just snuggling, to the darker sides of our intimate life together.

Intelligent, pride, confidence, sex appeal, kindness, tenderness. All things I saw and embraced about him. Finally the man I had dreamt of since I was a young girl, had come gone from a dream to becoming reality. And here we are.

In love, planning our future, both of us had so many walls up, and they have all come crumbling down, leaving us raw, vulnerable, and so in love.

I love him, more than words can describe. Even the word 'love' seems almost generic in comparison to what I truly feel.

I worship you, Daddy. Always... and forever.

MsTinkerbelly · 03-18-2012, 01:23 PM

I have loved before, and some I love still...but when all is said and done, my Kasey is the one I don't want to live without. THAT is how I know she is the one.

Novelafemme · 03-18-2012, 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsTinkerbelly

I have loved before, and some I love still...but when all is said and done, my Kasey is the one I don't want to live without. THAT is how I know she is the one.

TOTALLY, MsTinkerbelly! I couldn't agree more!

TimilDeeps · 03-18-2012, 05:08 PM

A mind unlike any other in the universe.

DeviantDaddy · 03-18-2012, 07:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DaddysKitten

I worship you, Daddy. Always... and forever.

I love you, kitten. Plan on replying to this when I have the appropriate amount of time... smiles.

Thank you everyone for posting! It has been wonderful to read your sappiness... grins.

DeviantDaddy · 03-21-2012, 10:00 AM

I recall the moment I first met her, think of it often actually. It was an instant attraction and pull that at the moment I did not understand. As she stated in her post, our conversations were never about anything regarding intimacy. It was not on our minds, we did not look for it or were even interested in it at all.

I recall the way in which she impressed me. While she was addressing the small group of people that evening, I was amongst them. The manner in which she addressed everyone, the way she spoke exuded confidence, strength, character and power. We met on a virtual world therefore I had no idea what she looked like, but that voice. Absolutely captured me and I found myself grinning as I listened to every word. I admired her, as a woman and not a partner or lover. Strictly platonic.

Then we began to chat more in IM, and we simply flowed so naturally. It was so incredibly easy and our personalities just meshed. I discovered that she wasn't just a sexy voice, there truly was no facade - what resided behind the screen and the pixels was a woman that made me yearn for her. To simply talk to her and be in contact.

Then the chats got longer and eventually we found ourselves "together" on the grid, sitting up all night talking about everything. And it left me dumbstruck, really. Here was a woman who shared my views on so many things.

Highly intelligent, passionate, raw, traditional and utterly feminine. She truly is the perfect female specimen and after some time our relationship evolved. She calls to the very core of me in a way that no one has ever done. She is ferocious on so many levels. A woman I am proud to call mine, to have beside me or at my feet.

We both feel a very primitive draw to one another. Nothing mundane or civilized about it, it is buried deep within us. Society has done an excellent job of taming the very primitive nature of man and woman yet she awakens the animal within me. And it calls to the lioness within her. It is very powerful, intense and raw.

To this day, I find myself still drawn to the very things that caught my eye in the first place. Her wit is unlike any others, her passion, her very essence. She is all woman and much to my very delight, she is absolutely stunning in the flesh. A body that calls to me, made to buffer the lust of the animal in me. Green eyes that can see deep into my very soul and a touch that can pull me out of any agony, be it physical or mental. I can be furious and the moment I feel her touch I calm. I am hurting and her touch eases the tension and pain away.

She has given me the love that we all pray and hope for. The kind of love that changes a person forever.

She is my kitten, my slut, my babygirl, my pet, my partner, my woman... my mate.

03-18-2012, 11:30 AM	#1
apretty Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: san diego Posts: 1,687 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,927 Thanked 4,373 Times in 1,012 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	short list E had years of therapy before I even met him and thus, emotional health and amazing boundaries which I admire, still. Salt and Pepper pompadour, black rimmed eyeglasses, sweater vest and tie, grey J Crew dress pants and he brought me some artisan chocolates when we met. On that first date, E never wavered from being appropriate and respectful while steadfastly determined to get me in a roadside motel.

03-18-2012, 11:35 AM	#2
Medusa Mentally Delicious How Do You Identify?: Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?: Mme. Relationship Status: Married to JD. Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 10,446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,995 Thanked 42,686 Times in 7,831 Posts Rep Power: 10000025	She made me laugh until I peed and drooled while ogling me. Then she sent me a colon cleansing kit as a love gift. instant amour! __________________ . . . Buy ButchFemmePlanet Merch Here: https://teespring.com/stores/butchfemmeplanetcom-merch

03-21-2012, 11:57 AM	#3
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03-21-2012, 05:23 PM	#4
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,817 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10560327	I'd love to contribute to this but he's annoyed me today. He always say's 'But would you change me?' and I always reply with 'No, but there's bits of you I could happily live without.' __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

03-22-2012, 10:18 AM	#6
Deborah Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme Preferred Pronoun?: Babydoll is a start.... Relationship Status: Mrs. Livingston 4/20/2013 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville where my heart belongs... Posts: 611 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,451 Thanked 1,454 Times in 276 Posts Rep Power: 14676215	Positive Attitude Great Smile Gorgeous Blue Eyes He really 'gets' me He listens to me Positive Attitude Makes me feel special Makes me feel safe Makes me feel beautiful Makes me feel loved Positive Attitude Great Kisser Kind Considerate Great Arms Awesome Outlook on Life and did I mention his Positive Attitude __________________ "Slow to trust but I'm quick to love, I push too hard and I give too much, I aint saying I'm perfect, but I promise I'm worth it" "The Good Within Me Honors The Good Within You"

03-18-2012, 11:44 AM	#8
Novelafemme Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ........ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ........ Posts: 2,402 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,981 Thanked 8,925 Times in 1,834 Posts Rep Power: 0	...the way she raises one eyebrow when discussing something complex. her black prada glasses and her hazel eyes. she has impeccable style and walks with such confidence, yet is the most humble person i know. like apretty said, years of therapy and self-work resulted in her knowing how to communicate and assert who she is when need be. and the j crew pants don't hurt one bit. we just fit. instantly. there was no second guessing or fear. have we had our "moments"...of course! but ultimately it was written for us. we simply had to follow the notes.

03-18-2012, 11:49 AM	#9
Inked_Trinity Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: BadAss! / Sarcastic Bastard! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Earth Posts: 2,352 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,507 Thanked 6,927 Times in 1,819 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	She is so open and honest! She has a wonderful sarcastic wit! __________________ Tell me I can't do it.. then stand back and watch me amaze you.

03-18-2012, 12:21 PM	#10
DaddysKitten Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Claimed Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Norfolk, VA Posts: 47 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 60 Thanked 129 Times in 33 Posts Rep Power: 1656425	Memories I remember late night talks with him, completely chaste before, any sort of 'acknowledged chemistry' began. He was so traditional, much like I am, and our beliefs seem too old to the world, that I had decided long before this that I would either have to settle, or be alone. And settling was indeed out of the question. Without even knowing it, we had solidified a basis for our future relationship with those late night talks that left me curled in bed, just so overjoyed that someone out there still saw things the way I did. Ways that so many had forgotten, or even now see as, male chauvinistic. I loved those old ideas of being a stay at home housewife, barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. Waiting til he came home, with dinner prepared, and ready to serve his every need and whim, contently. Thanking him in even the simplest ways for providing for his family. And then our relationship moved to another level, and everything just felt so natural, so very natural. We slipped into a Daddy/babygirl relationship without it ever even being something either of has had considered before. Our D/s dynamic had been set in stone before the idea of 'dating' even came to our minds. I think it was much like before the internet, when you just really spent the time to get to know someone, before hopping into discussions of expectations on an intimate level. We just... happened. And then, time grew on, and his touch. I remember the electrification of the simplest thing, even a brush of his fingers to my cheek. I remember being so breathless after our first simple kiss. And again, everything, from sitting around talking for hours just snuggling, to the darker sides of our intimate life together. Intelligent, pride, confidence, sex appeal, kindness, tenderness. All things I saw and embraced about him. Finally the man I had dreamt of since I was a young girl, had come gone from a dream to becoming reality. And here we are. In love, planning our future, both of us had so many walls up, and they have all come crumbling down, leaving us raw, vulnerable, and so in love. I love him, more than words can describe. Even the word 'love' seems almost generic in comparison to what I truly feel. I worship you, Daddy. Always... and forever. __________________ Daddy's Sassy Kitten It is because of him, I exist.

03-18-2012, 01:23 PM	#11
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,906 Times in 5,017 Posts Rep Power: 0	I have loved before, and some I love still...but when all is said and done, my Kasey is the one I don't want to live without. THAT is how I know she is the one.

03-18-2012, 05:08 PM	#13
TimilDeeps Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer fucker Preferred Pronoun?: Mine Relationship Status: I'm dating myself. It's really working out. I think I'm the one!!! Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: To your right and a bit South. Posts: 1,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 108 Thanked 1,470 Times in 445 Posts Rep Power: 19646657	A mind unlike any other in the universe.

03-21-2012, 10:00 AM	#15
DeviantDaddy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: TG Male Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Mated Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: FL Posts: 93 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 115 Thanked 258 Times in 65 Posts Rep Power: 1840892	Along came my kitten... I recall the moment I first met her, think of it often actually. It was an instant attraction and pull that at the moment I did not understand. As she stated in her post, our conversations were never about anything regarding intimacy. It was not on our minds, we did not look for it or were even interested in it at all. I recall the way in which she impressed me. While she was addressing the small group of people that evening, I was amongst them. The manner in which she addressed everyone, the way she spoke exuded confidence, strength, character and power. We met on a virtual world therefore I had no idea what she looked like, but that voice. Absolutely captured me and I found myself grinning as I listened to every word. I admired her, as a woman and not a partner or lover. Strictly platonic. Then we began to chat more in IM, and we simply flowed so naturally. It was so incredibly easy and our personalities just meshed. I discovered that she wasn't just a sexy voice, there truly was no facade - what resided behind the screen and the pixels was a woman that made me yearn for her. To simply talk to her and be in contact. Then the chats got longer and eventually we found ourselves "together" on the grid, sitting up all night talking about everything. And it left me dumbstruck, really. Here was a woman who shared my views on so many things. Highly intelligent, passionate, raw, traditional and utterly feminine. She truly is the perfect female specimen and after some time our relationship evolved. She calls to the very core of me in a way that no one has ever done. She is ferocious on so many levels. A woman I am proud to call mine, to have beside me or at my feet. We both feel a very primitive draw to one another. Nothing mundane or civilized about it, it is buried deep within us. Society has done an excellent job of taming the very primitive nature of man and woman yet she awakens the animal within me. And it calls to the lioness within her. It is very powerful, intense and raw. To this day, I find myself still drawn to the very things that caught my eye in the first place. Her wit is unlike any others, her passion, her very essence. She is all woman and much to my very delight, she is absolutely stunning in the flesh. A body that calls to me, made to buffer the lust of the animal in me. Green eyes that can see deep into my very soul and a touch that can pull me out of any agony, be it physical or mental. I can be furious and the moment I feel her touch I calm. I am hurting and her touch eases the tension and pain away. She has given me the love that we all pray and hope for. The kind of love that changes a person forever. She is my kitten, my slut, my babygirl, my pet, my partner, my woman... my mate.