Important things I learned from past relationships

nycbutch · 03-24-2012, 06:28 PM

when someone shows you who they are, believe them!!!

communicate----communicate----communicate

you don't have to have everything in common, but it certainly helps to have some things

respect each others differences and make compromises

above all, NEVER lose sight of who YOU are to try and keep someone....be true to yourself!!!

DeviantDaddy · 03-24-2012, 06:50 PM

I thought that the happily ever after dream wasn't what Disney portrayed.
Sometimes the very best thing you can do for someone, is walk away for their own good.
Being in a great and healthy relationship, does not mean everything is always perfect.
That I am capable and strong enough to truly forgive.
That I can love deeply and can truly love with no reservations.
Love does not go hand in hand with happiness.
Sharing everything should be done slowly and carefully.
That if you ever find yourself thinking... "she can change".. then you are likely better off ending it.

That although happily ever after isn't Disney's portrayal, it can still happen

03-24-2012, 06:28 PM	#1
nycbutch Junior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: moved on and ready to start again Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: nyc Posts: 76 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 276 Thanked 144 Times in 42 Posts Rep Power: 1165395	when someone shows you who they are, believe them!!! communicate----communicate----communicate you don't have to have everything in common, but it certainly helps to have some things respect each others differences and make compromises above all, NEVER lose sight of who YOU are to try and keep someone....be true to yourself!!! __________________ my theme song.... http://youtu.be/39gpaDnjW4I

03-24-2012, 06:50 PM	#2
DeviantDaddy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: TG Male Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Mated Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: FL Posts: 93 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 115 Thanked 258 Times in 65 Posts Rep Power: 1840892	My lessons. I thought that the happily ever after dream wasn't what Disney portrayed. Sometimes the very best thing you can do for someone, is walk away for their own good. Being in a great and healthy relationship, does not mean everything is always perfect. That I am capable and strong enough to truly forgive. That I can love deeply and can truly love with no reservations. Love does not go hand in hand with happiness. Sharing everything should be done slowly and carefully. That if you ever find yourself thinking... "she can change".. then you are likely better off ending it. That although happily ever after isn't Disney's portrayal, it can still happen __________________ Only as high as I reach can I grow, only as far as I seek can I go, only as deep as I look can I see, only as much as I dream can I be.