Are butches really a dying breed? - Page 2

ConCrtAnge1 · 02-28-2014, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by ConCrtAnge1

i have went through and read this post. Although I am new here I felt a need to post... I live in So. central Il. And around here it seems there are more Andros then anything or a lot of butch on butch... Leaving a lot of femmes.. I am not a femme on femme kinda girl. I want my true butch. Don't get me wrong I want a true butch but one that enjoys her womyn side in bed ... A butch that know the true song and dance..

OK please allow me to clean this post up a bit.. First off the wording of True Butch comes off wrong I understand however having dated womyn who ID as butch around here are no more then Chapstick Lesbians. Sorry to have offended or confused but what I said. "True song and dance" was more meant as they need to be on the same song and dance as myself!! As for having to a butch who is also in tune with her sexuality as a womyn isn't so wrong. I feel as if my wording was way off for that I am sorry. Please forgive... I also know Butch isn't just the clothing or the hair.. I know it goes so much deeper..

Loren_Q · 02-28-2014, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by ConCrtAnge1

OK please allow me to clean this post up a bit.. First off the wording of True Butch comes off wrong I understand however having dated womyn who ID as butch around here are no more then Chapstick Lesbians. Sorry to have offended or confused but what I said. "True song and dance" was more meant as they need to be on the same song and dance as myself!! As for having to a butch who is also in tune with her sexuality as a womyn isn't so wrong. I feel as if my wording was way off for that I am sorry. Please forgive... I also know Butch isn't just the clothing or the hair.. I know it goes so much deeper..

I bolded the parts of this I'm going to address.

It's perfectly fine for you to know what you're attracted to, what calls to you. I think it's great you know what you want.

However you do not get to quantify me or others. By my appearance or size or race, I would likely fall into your "no more than Chapstick Lesbians" model.

But I'm butch because I say I am, not because someone else conferred that upon me.

I bolded that last part because it seems incongruent with the prior statement. I'd like to believe this is true for you.

C0LLETTE · 02-28-2014, 12:08 PM

Well, I've reread this series of posts several times now and I thought I understood the original post, even with it's slightly ambiguous phrasing. Now that it's been examined, clarified and reclarified, I am confused. Maybe we all just have different ways of expressing ourselves and could use a little breathing room. I honestly saw the original post as a personal statement and not intended to offend anyone.

Deborah* · 10-03-2017, 05:17 PM

I hope not. They're the only lesbians I've ever been attracted to.

Deborah

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Deborah* Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: single and not looking Join Date: Sep 2017 Location: Texas Posts: 354 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 304 Thanked 420 Times in 180 Posts Rep Power: 2658954	I hope not. They're the only lesbians I've ever been attracted to. Deborah Last edited by Deborah; 10-03-2017 at 05:19 PM. Reason: I thought it looked better.*

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C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,170 Times in 4,340 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Well, I've reread this series of posts several times now and I thought I understood the original post, even with it's slightly ambiguous phrasing. Now that it's been examined, clarified and reclarified, I am confused. Maybe we all just have different ways of expressing ourselves and could use a little breathing room. I honestly saw the original post as a personal statement and not intended to offend anyone.