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04-11-2012, 05:44 PM
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I am completely beside myself, and hesitate to even come in here and post...
I found out today that Mom woke up on Monday....something she did not expect, and was furious. Since then she has been in and out of consciousness, and they are still trying to figure out the level of sedation she needs. This has been an issue with anesthesia and her....and she has woken up during surgery a few times previously....horrifying thought. Some days I hate Google....especially today when I learned that death by dehydration takes a week or ten days. Cancer sucks....this whole thing sucks.
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04-11-2012, 08:38 PM
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04-11-2012, 08:41 PM
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{{{{Jo}}}} My mom used to do the same thing and it is indeed horrifying to contemplate.
I don't know what to say except that we are here for you and yes, cancer sucks big time! All my love, Novela 
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04-11-2012, 10:37 PM
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 Hi Jo, Always glad to read your posts and updates, because Cancer Sucks. Cancer sucks for those that don't have cancer because we are painfully aware that our loved one is leaving us. Glad to see your Mom's suffering is almost over. My heart goes out to you and the Rooster. Cancer sucks and I can come here and spit it out...  [/COLOR][/B]: ((((MOM)))) So as "they" say, keep coming back and share with us. Last edited by Tommi; 04-11-2012 at 10:41 PM. |
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04-12-2012, 08:23 AM
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Mom passed away early this morning. She was still unconscious so it was, at least, peaceful at the end.
Thank you so much to everyone for the support you've given me through this whole process....and thank you Tommi....I saw that salute to cancer and laughed so hard I cried....and know that Mom would have happily given that salute herself. Hugs to you all.
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04-12-2012, 08:26 AM
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{{{{{{{{MOM}}}}}}}} R.I.P., Mom!!! Hugs for you, Jo & Rooster!!!
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04-12-2012, 05:23 PM
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Jo, I'm so sorry to hear this. My prayers go out to you and your family and Snack. I also know this pain it will be 4yrs next month for my mom with cancer. It's so not fair .... Many blessings sweet lady !
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04-12-2012, 05:52 PM
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Jo, may you and your family be surrounded with love and peace in your deepest sorrow.
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04-12-2012, 06:25 PM
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Just got a call that an Uncle passed...had been fighting cancer for several yrs.
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04-12-2012, 08:38 AM
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Jo... You are continually in my thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in memories and the knowledge that that the suffering is finally over for Mom. Sending you many hugs in return.
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04-12-2012, 09:49 AM
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04-12-2012, 11:43 AM
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 You are now the Sun - what need have you for a crown? You have vanished from this world - what need have you to tie your robe? I’ve heard that you can barely see your soul. ... But why look at all? - yours is now the Soul of Souls! ~Rumi |
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04-12-2012, 03:30 PM
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Jo and family.
Jo,im sending you all the healing light I can muster,may it help you and the family at this time.I feel your pain,I know where you are comeing from as the strong are chosen...my friend be at peace.
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04-12-2012, 04:26 PM
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Hugs Jo! If you need anything, please let me know.
From my family to you and your family, Zimmeh
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04-12-2012, 06:34 PM
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There is nothing else to say but to tell you that you are in my thoughts and prayers. And also to tell you that I really mean that. I know that your mom was not the perfect mother and you have had mixed feelings about her, but that doesn't mean pain and loss is not deep. I am so sorry. I am around, my friend.
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