Are butches really a dying breed?

Beloved · 04-22-2012, 09:35 AM

OFOS butch? Is that Old fashioned old school or???

Breezy · 04-22-2012, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Beloved

OFOS butch? Is that Old fashioned old school or???

Old Fashion Old School is correct.

LadyRieinAL · 07-21-2012, 11:12 PM

I've never expected anyone to pump my gas, or take the garbage out, it is just the way it has always been, in my relationships.
I've always worked, I've always done what ever it took to make my relationship work, I've always given and pulled my fair shair.
Everyone I've ever been with has always been stronger than I am, they have to be, to open my mayonaise jars.
In gardening, which I love to do, my partner has always been the one to dig the holes and I plant and cover it with the dirt. Normally around my house in the past, if I cook, my partner washes the dishes.
I've never know anything other than being a girl - I don't even own a pair of tennis shoes - I refuse to change the oil on my car, but I don't expect my butch to do that, I'll pay someone, just as I would pay someone to cut the grass. But you know what, all that is done is always done out of co-creating a better relationship, it has nothing to do with expecting someone to do certain chores. I just know there are certain things that a Butch is better equipped to do. And I am appreciative!

rustedrims · 07-21-2012, 11:33 PM

I didnt mean to offend you in anyway.I apologize if i did.
That stuff i mentioned is automatic to me.I just do that stuff because i get alot of satisfaction out of pleasing my partner.I want her happy.The biggest thing is that i am such a tightwad.If there is anything i can do for myself or for you free i will attempt it.I am not that stuborn to realize if i cant do something i will get help.I also ask for directions.{eventually}.

I appreciate Femmes and all the sparklie stuff that goes with them.
I love Femmes!!

07-21-2012, 11:12 PM	#3
LadyRieinAL Member How Do You Identify?: Evolving Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, girl, her Relationship Status: found my vibrational match Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Sweet Home Alabama Posts: 459 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,024 Thanked 1,214 Times in 281 Posts Rep Power: 18359992	Butches Not a dying breed I've never expected anyone to pump my gas, or take the garbage out, it is just the way it has always been, in my relationships. I've always worked, I've always done what ever it took to make my relationship work, I've always given and pulled my fair shair. Everyone I've ever been with has always been stronger than I am, they have to be, to open my mayonaise jars. In gardening, which I love to do, my partner has always been the one to dig the holes and I plant and cover it with the dirt. Normally around my house in the past, if I cook, my partner washes the dishes. I've never know anything other than being a girl - I don't even own a pair of tennis shoes - I refuse to change the oil on my car, but I don't expect my butch to do that, I'll pay someone, just as I would pay someone to cut the grass. But you know what, all that is done is always done out of co-creating a better relationship, it has nothing to do with expecting someone to do certain chores. I just know there are certain things that a Butch is better equipped to do. And I am appreciative!

07-21-2012, 11:33 PM	#4
rustedrims Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Northern Ohio close to Lake Erie and ice-cream places Posts: 445 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,125 Thanked 2,554 Times in 368 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Hi Lady I didnt mean to offend you in anyway.I apologize if i did. That stuff i mentioned is automatic to me.I just do that stuff because i get alot of satisfaction out of pleasing my partner.I want her happy.The biggest thing is that i am such a tightwad.If there is anything i can do for myself or for you free i will attempt it.I am not that stuborn to realize if i cant do something i will get help.I also ask for directions.{eventually}. I appreciate Femmes and all the sparklie stuff that goes with them. I love Femmes!! __________________ I don't want to be perfect because if I was then I will loose the ability to learn.

04-22-2012, 09:35 AM	#1
Beloved Member How Do You Identify?: alive Preferred Pronoun?: um Relationship Status: married Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: on the stars Posts: 460 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,415 Thanked 1,653 Times in 298 Posts Rep Power: 19348704	OFOS butch? Is that Old fashioned old school or???