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Old 04-24-2012, 12:43 PM   #1
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the people I've lost to cancer : (it feels like a fucking lot some days but it has given me a bigger appreciation of how I want to live and I'm now a lot less tolerant of nonsense)
both good things!


childhood friend to leukemia
two male friends to Aids
two time breast cancer survivor (mom) who then developed brain cancer
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Woke up to the newd that a HS friend - very talented young lady, passed away after battling cancer for a year or month...either way...I am totally shocked and speechless! Life is so short....
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Woke up to the newd that a HS friend - very talented young lady, passed away after battling cancer for a year or month...either way...I am totally shocked and speechless! Life is so short....
Sorry to hear of the loss of someone in your life.

Yes , life can be cut short, be fragile and cancer doesn't care. Hope you are doing well.
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Debby had her surgery this afternoon...she is doing good, is just getting settled into her room, and will be in touch later tomorrow...keep Debby in your thoughts......I will update tomorrow when I hear form her again....
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Debby had her surgery this afternoon...she is doing good, is just getting settled into her room, and will be in touch later tomorrow...keep Debby in your thoughts......I will update tomorrow when I hear form her again....
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the people I've lost to cancer : (it feels like a fucking lot some days but it has given me a bigger appreciation of how I want to live and I'm now a lot less tolerant of nonsense)
both good things!
You've suffered so many losses. Lives that were taken too soon. Living life YOUR way and being less tolerant of nonsense are very, very good things. To do anything else only cheats ourselves in the long run. Thank you for the reminder and for sharing.

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Woke up to the newd that a HS friend - very talented young lady, passed away after battling cancer for a year or month...either way...I am totally shocked and speechless! Life is so short....
I am so sorry for the loss of your friend =( Keep your memories of her close and remember her always with a smile. Sending you gentle hugs.

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Debby had her surgery this afternoon...she is doing good, is just getting settled into her room, and will be in touch later tomorrow...keep Debby in your thoughts......I will update tomorrow when I hear form her again....
Thank you for the update Clay. Glad to hear that she is doing well. Sending thoughts of healing.
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Thank you for the update Clay. Glad to hear that she is doing well. Sending thoughts of healing.
Thanks, Vonni! I heard from her this am..she was in a lot of pain but maintaining that fighting spirit and humor of hers...I just love her so much...she is a phenomenal lady...and appreciates your well wishes to her!! Send her a message...she is on the Planet here...Debby is her handle...she will see ti when she is up to logging on here....have an awesome day yourself Miss Vonni!!!
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Thanks Dapper & Vonni!!! She was in pain this am, but still with her humor....possibility she may go home this afternoon. She appreciates everyone's sentiments much!! Thank all of you...Clay
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