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I forgot to mention those big peas? I have never ever seen peas that big!!!! Sunny
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02-26-2010, 01:09 PM
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Happy Friday lofters! Hope everyone is having a wonderful day! I am having another upaid day off thanks to the snow and ice. After all these snowdays, my purse is feeling the pinch.
 lolHey Sunny, I live in south Jersey too! Maybe we could meet for lunch or something sometime. See ya! Ruthie (wants to be here --------> 
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Hi all...wishing everyone a happy friday. I want to know about these peas...what kind are they and where do I get seeds to plant them? they look scrumptious!
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02-26-2010, 01:41 PM
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Enjoy the day & the weekend lofters. I myself will be shoveling out for the rest of the day.
hopping to get done...full blown cabin fever. need to go out tonight & see people |
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I had a great day with my pal, Mel today. She cooked southern gullah for me and it was great. She's born and bred southern from georgia. We killed a bottle of wine eating and talking southern history and politics.
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soooo ........
here I am 46, happy as hell to be alive, just startin' to accept the fact that for the first time in my life I HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE FREE AND I just went through menapause ( and I love the feeling)... then.. there is this young girl, 16 who ran away from home....she was being abused, no one wanted her......she spent Christmas with me and the fam and her mom just signed her off to me....don"t know me from shit, but is like.... here ya go...."you better put her on birth control... shes a little whore"....( um yeah... nice huh) so I became her guardian. well so now after having an empty nest for like ...." two seconds" Im ... well raisin' another. Now of course, 16 , you would think might not be too hard.... well the child has been through it, she has been abused for a long long time... she has issues... we get along great though, she loves it here her therapy is going well. but now... I dont know why Im tellin ya all this but I need someone my age to feel me.... Child protective services just t took my sons and gf parental rights, and I was made guardian now I also have a 1yr old and a 4 yr old. Im 46 and I really had some pretty cool plans for my life now that it is the first time in 26 years I didnt have kids!....... I love my grand children But....... FFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!! GODDAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!^$#@%%&&^*&(*((* F*CK F*CK F*CK ( I feel a little better now) Stoney Last edited by Stoney; 02-28-2010 at 06:50 AM. Reason: spelling |
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wow sounds like you have a full plate there.... where are u ??? hope it all works out....... do you have a MCC church there??? maybe they can help in some ways.
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well , I doubt that,he has a drug problem....and well... I have raised my grand daughter for the better part of 4 years ne way... it is just damn it .. I wish they would get their shit together.. I dont foresee it...
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i am so sorry that u have to put the empty nest on hold again. May u can find some couples that has the same age kids and be able to spend time with them and relax a bit and enjoy good company. There seems to be a few people in their forties that taking care of children.
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alrighty Lofters...... i think im gonna take a nap before i head to the Nissian plant....... nites
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This is gonna get a HUGE shriek of disapproval BUT... there is nothing in the Mom Handbook that says you have to take in grandkids or have adult children move home...
Do the grandkids have no other relatives? Where are the other grandparents, any other siblings or cousins age appropriate etc to take responsibility? Is this a matter of you being the only "unmarried" relative and therefore you are free and can take on this responsibilty? Why are you obligated to take them on? If the parents are drug addicts perhaps the kids would be best adopted... As for adult children moving home... just say no, otherwise you are stuck with them 'til you go to the old age home...
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well in my case, as i have mentioned I have already raised my g baby for 3 out of 4 years, yes My son is on drugs, so are millions of other people, I love my son with all my heart as I do these g-babies. He was my Baby. Now as a matter of fact I am the only relative around. but that would make no difference to me I would fight like hell for all of my G babies. Sometimes, doing the responsible thing is giving your children to some one who loves them and will take good care of them while you get your shit together so you can be a parent in some capacity. I am frustrated, I am disappointed, and a little relieved at the same time. it isnt written in the handbook, I have to take them....no but it is 100% in my heart......I love those babies , and could never stand them to be with strangers or in the system. I have 5, 4yrs old and under..... I would take them all . just been one crazy ass week just had to scream for a second is all. stoney |
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