It's the little things, like.....

spritzerJ · 05-23-2012, 07:14 PM

the way hy'll go help a friend pack when they are running behind schedule at night even though hy has been busy and is sore. what a total sweetie! I sure love that gy!

Hollylane · 05-24-2012, 01:19 AM

She stopped on a dime so that I could run right down the middle of a busy Norfolk Virginia street to rescue a wayward turtle from certain death...

barnes · 05-24-2012, 02:40 AM

the tray of drinks i get,not 1 drink i get 3 drinks ! she knows ima thirsty guy !

Corkey · 05-24-2012, 03:09 PM

Sharing a belly laugh...ya' just can't make this stuff up.

MsTinkerbelly · 05-26-2012, 03:44 PM

Itltl....having a good, solid, life partner that you can trust with your child, life, heart.

Leigh · 05-26-2012, 04:02 PM

Reassurance, understanding, patience ~ those little things go a long way

Hollylane · 05-26-2012, 04:45 PM

The tone in her voice when she says endearing things, and feeling the weight and honesty of her words.

Kenna · 06-09-2012, 01:53 PM

For me being single, I don't need a partner to appreciate the little things....
Listening instead of tuning out

Making me laugh

Distracting me from stress instead of adding to it

Taking me to breakfast and helping with chores

True worry for our comfort ...making sure we have what we need to live comfortable ...like getting pharmaceuticals we need and necessary things for home

Not pushing my boundaries and respect when I need space (physical and emotional)

(The next wasn't done by a partner or companion, but done by a very respectful young man that drove all the way from another county to help me)...changing my oil on a blistering hot day without complaint or grumbling ....driving many miles to meet me at house.

Talon · 06-04-2012, 10:54 AM

Kissing my forehead whenever I'm worried about something.

ruffryder · 06-04-2012, 09:04 PM

Cutting up my sandwich for me! Teeheee. Frickin adorable.

mutual respect

We still both say be careful or be safe to each other

Lazy Daze · 06-05-2012, 05:44 PM

That He offers to help me get comfy on the bed with the heating pad because He knows I hurt THAT bad...

That He stands patiently in the makeup section while I pick out what I want/need... and then pays for it even though He doesn't need to

That He HELPS.. with cleaning, cooking, picking up around the house, etc.

When His hand rests on the small of my back while we walk through the store

That He thinks of AWESOME dates, like going to the batting cages!

ruffryder · 06-07-2012, 06:27 AM

showing that I care for her by waking up with her in the morning on my day off to spend time with her and make her some breakfast before she leaves for work. It's little things like "actions" sometimes.. I didn't miss a drop of sleep, loved the conversation and took advantage of the time together being we work conflicting schedules.

05-24-2012, 03:09 PM	#4
Corkey Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Very Married Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Where I want to be Posts: 8,155 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 47,491 Thanked 29,268 Times in 6,637 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Sharing a belly laugh...ya' just can't make this stuff up. __________________ "Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them". ~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)

05-26-2012, 04:02 PM	#6
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Reassurance, understanding, patience ~ those little things go a long way __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

06-05-2012, 05:44 PM	#11
Lazy Daze Member How Do You Identify?: * Preferred Pronoun?: * Relationship Status: * Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: * Posts: 1,036 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,665 Thanked 2,808 Times in 745 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	That He offers to help me get comfy on the bed with the heating pad because He knows I hurt THAT bad... That He stands patiently in the makeup section while I pick out what I want/need... and then pays for it even though He doesn't need to That He HELPS.. with cleaning, cooking, picking up around the house, etc. When His hand rests on the small of my back while we walk through the store That He thinks of AWESOME dates, like going to the batting cages! __________________ *In a world where you can be anything..be Yourself*

05-23-2012, 07:14 PM	#1
spritzerJ Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Queer (gender), female (biological marker) Preferred Pronoun?: she will work as a default. Relationship Status: engaged to jac until 8/10/14 Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Maine Posts: 3,154 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,307 Thanked 15,802 Times in 2,905 Posts Rep Power: 0	the way hy'll go help a friend pack when they are running behind schedule at night even though hy has been busy and is sore. what a total sweetie! I sure love that gy!

05-24-2012, 01:19 AM	#2
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05-24-2012, 02:40 AM	#3
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05-26-2012, 03:44 PM	#5
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05-26-2012, 04:45 PM	#7
Hollylane Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: . Posts: 11,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,694 Thanked 26,362 Times in 5,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	The tone in her voice when she says endearing things, and feeling the weight and honesty of her words.

06-09-2012, 01:53 PM	#8
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,189 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	For me being single, I don't need a partner to appreciate the little things.... Listening instead of tuning out Making me laugh Distracting me from stress instead of adding to it Taking me to breakfast and helping with chores True worry for our comfort ...making sure we have what we need to live comfortable ...like getting pharmaceuticals we need and necessary things for home Not pushing my boundaries and respect when I need space (physical and emotional) (The next wasn't done by a partner or companion, but done by a very respectful young man that drove all the way from another county to help me)...changing my oil on a blistering hot day without complaint or grumbling ....driving many miles to meet me at house.

06-04-2012, 10:54 AM	#9
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06-04-2012, 09:04 PM	#10
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06-07-2012, 06:27 AM	#12
ruffryder Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: guy ones Relationship Status: ... Join Date: May 2011 Location: chillin' in FL Posts: 3,690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,951 Thanked 9,680 Times in 2,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	showing that I care for her by waking up with her in the morning on my day off to spend time with her and make her some breakfast before she leaves for work. It's little things like "actions" sometimes.. I didn't miss a drop of sleep, loved the conversation and took advantage of the time together being we work conflicting schedules.