FTM C*ck

chefhmboyrd · 05-23-2012, 07:15 PM

i think the discussion about safety can cover so many difference perspectives. whether you are butch, femme, stone, ftm, mtf, genderqueer, intersexed, cis, or gender fluid.
It boils down to trust.
do i trust this person with my most vulnerable moments, to completely submit to them and open myself to them?
are you going to allow them to penetrate you physically, mentally, spiritually, metaphorically, partially, or completely?
can you count on this person to use discretion, and not tell your innermost passions to others, or use them against you in the future?
do i feel safe with this person?

@

Nadeest · 05-23-2012, 10:07 PM

I can say, as a preop tranwoman, that we vary, just as much as any other group does. Some do enjoy using their 'Original Equipment' while they have it, and for others, it is a complete turnoff. I have heard of some that prefer using a strapon, though I am certainly not one of them.
For me, using my 'original equipment' or a strapon triggers my dysphoria, and would be very uncomfortable. Others, however, are different.

Ginger · 06-03-2012, 01:42 PM

So far, from reading these posts, I'm understanding that the difference between FTM and butch cock is that one is a response to gender dysphoria and one is a response to female-bodied sexual expression—or maybe that's a misread or incomplete reading.

(And so far, no one is talking about surgically constructed FTM cock, so that's not in the analysis; I'm just mentioning that to be clear that when I say FTM cock I'm talking about strapped on cock.)

My question is, what is different, and what is the same, in the relationship an FTM or butch might have with his/her/hyr cock?

Thank you, anyone who responds. I think you're all great, btw.

TenderKnight · 06-03-2012, 07:16 PM

mmm.. Not that I don't love getting into long winded debates about intimacy issues and security issues and what the difference between butch and FTM cock..

BUT..

I was kinda just hoping to talk about my cock and how much I enjoy it.. When I say my cock I am talking about the equipment I was born with and that I am slowly starting to love again. I love it so much that I posted a picture of it on another adult themed site.. It is getting bigger now that I am on T and is actually starting to stick out a lil more.. I look down sometimes and say, "go lil guy, GO!".. well not out loud.. but yeah..

Maybe that is what one could say along the topic of security.. I feel secure enough in my manhood not to be defined by how big it is.. I don't pack unless requested to. I prefer to feel my cock rub against whatever garment I'm wearing. I dislike having the lil guy all mashed up against a piece of silicone.. That is *MY* relationship with my cock.

I am no less and no better then anyone else on this site. This is my FTM cock and I am proud of it.

Now, did I derail the thread? I hope not.. Discussion is always good. People need it. For me, I needed to post about my cock. The end and thankyouverymuch.

-Tony and his oh so awesome FTM cock.

DMW · 06-04-2012, 11:36 AM

Hear Hear...Tender Knight...Bravo...I am proud of my little pecker too.
It works for me and for my partner. I never heard any complaints.
Oh but, maybe some women weren't honest or worried about my ego.
Fortunately, my pecker doesn't rule my ego

and it is really...hear him...hear him

shiagirl · 06-04-2012, 01:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TenderKnight

mmm.. Not that I don't love getting into long winded debates about intimacy issues and security issues and what the difference between butch and FTM cock..

BUT..

I was kinda just hoping to talk about my cock and how much I enjoy it.. When I say my cock I am talking about the equipment I was born with and that I am slowly starting to love again. I love it so much that I posted a picture of it on another adult themed site.. It is getting bigger now that I am on T and is actually starting to stick out a lil more.. I look down sometimes and say, "go lil guy, GO!".. well not out loud.. but yeah..

Maybe that is what one could say along the topic of security.. I feel secure enough in my manhood not to be defined by how big it is.. I don't pack unless requested to. I prefer to feel my cock rub against whatever garment I'm wearing. I dislike having the lil guy all mashed up against a piece of silicone.. That is *MY* relationship with my cock.

I am no less and no better then anyone else on this site. This is my FTM cock and I am proud of it.

Now, did I derail the thread? I hope not.. Discussion is always good. People need it. For me, I needed to post about my cock. The end and thankyouverymuch.

-Tony and his oh so awesome FTM cock.

girls mouth drops open!!!! I just love reading this thread.......tee hee.

Leigh · 06-04-2012, 02:10 PM

Both c*ck threads are awesome to read, and hazardous to the health

05-23-2012, 07:15 PM	#1
chefhmboyrd Senior Member How Do You Identify?: man Preferred Pronoun?: beef Relationship Status: Uncle Daddy Snap Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: nashvegas Posts: 1,607 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,411 Thanked 2,846 Times in 898 Posts Rep Power: 14271905	BUMP!!! i think the discussion about safety can cover so many difference perspectives. whether you are butch, femme, stone, ftm, mtf, genderqueer, intersexed, cis, or gender fluid. It boils down to trust. do i trust this person with my most vulnerable moments, to completely submit to them and open myself to them? are you going to allow them to penetrate you physically, mentally, spiritually, metaphorically, partially, or completely? can you count on this person to use discretion, and not tell your innermost passions to others, or use them against you in the future? do i feel safe with this person? @ __________________ what's a cowboy got to do to get a drink around here?

06-03-2012, 07:16 PM	#4
TenderKnight Member How Do You Identify?: Kinky Poly Transman Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Monroe, NC Posts: 551 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 773 Thanked 822 Times in 256 Posts Rep Power: 2402408	mmm.. Not that I don't love getting into long winded debates about intimacy issues and security issues and what the difference between butch and FTM cock.. BUT.. I was kinda just hoping to talk about my cock and how much I enjoy it.. When I say my cock I am talking about the equipment I was born with and that I am slowly starting to love again. I love it so much that I posted a picture of it on another adult themed site.. It is getting bigger now that I am on T and is actually starting to stick out a lil more.. I look down sometimes and say, "go lil guy, GO!".. well not out loud.. but yeah.. Maybe that is what one could say along the topic of security.. I feel secure enough in my manhood not to be defined by how big it is.. I don't pack unless requested to. I prefer to feel my cock rub against whatever garment I'm wearing. I dislike having the lil guy all mashed up against a piece of silicone.. That is MY relationship with my cock. I am no less and no better then anyone else on this site. This is my FTM cock and I am proud of it. Now, did I derail the thread? I hope not.. Discussion is always good. People need it. For me, I needed to post about my cock. The end and thankyouverymuch. -Tony and his oh so awesome FTM cock. __________________ The beatings shall continue.. until moral improves..

06-04-2012, 11:36 AM	#5
DMW Member How Do You Identify?: FTM/Male (Will 14) Relationship Status: Caught An Angel and she doesn't lie! Join Date: May 2012 Location: @ Posts: 784 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,256 Thanked 1,857 Times in 614 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Hear Hear...Tender Knight...Bravo...I am proud of my little pecker too. It works for me and for my partner. I never heard any complaints. Oh but, maybe some women weren't honest or worried about my ego. Fortunately, my pecker doesn't rule my ego and it is really...hear him...hear him Last edited by DMW; 06-04-2012 at 11:45 AM. Reason: my misspelling

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05-23-2012, 10:07 PM	#2
Nadeest Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Leesburg, FL Posts: 595 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,876 Thanked 2,118 Times in 501 Posts Rep Power: 17077998	I can say, as a preop tranwoman, that we vary, just as much as any other group does. Some do enjoy using their 'Original Equipment' while they have it, and for others, it is a complete turnoff. I have heard of some that prefer using a strapon, though I am certainly not one of them. For me, using my 'original equipment' or a strapon triggers my dysphoria, and would be very uncomfortable. Others, however, are different.

06-03-2012, 01:42 PM	#3
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,296 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	So far, from reading these posts, I'm understanding that the difference between FTM and butch cock is that one is a response to gender dysphoria and one is a response to female-bodied sexual expression—or maybe that's a misread or incomplete reading. (And so far, no one is talking about surgically constructed FTM cock, so that's not in the analysis; I'm just mentioning that to be clear that when I say FTM cock I'm talking about strapped on cock.) My question is, what is different, and what is the same, in the relationship an FTM or butch might have with his/her/hyr cock? Thank you, anyone who responds. I think you're all great, btw.