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Old 05-26-2012, 03:44 PM   #1
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Itltl....having a good, solid, life partner that you can trust with your child, life, heart.
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Reassurance, understanding, patience ~ those little things go a long way
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The tone in her voice when she says endearing things, and feeling the weight and honesty of her words.
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For me being single, I don't need a partner to appreciate the little things....
Listening instead of tuning out

Making me laugh

Distracting me from stress instead of adding to it

Taking me to breakfast and helping with chores

True worry for our comfort ...making sure we have what we need to live comfortable ...like getting pharmaceuticals we need and necessary things for home

Not pushing my boundaries and respect when I need space (physical and emotional)

(The next wasn't done by a partner or companion, but done by a very respectful young man that drove all the way from another county to help me)...changing my oil on a blistering hot day without complaint or grumbling ....driving many miles to meet me at house.
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waking up and having the coffee ready
sitting on hys lap facing hym, trimming hys hair
taking care of all the little things when hy has too much on hys mind
a suttle wink and smile ~ showing ur proud
making hys fav.meal in a healthy way
knowing when hy needs me.
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Old 06-09-2012, 05:52 PM   #6
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My kids waking up super early a getting in bed with me just to snuggle a bit before we have to start our day.

Getting sweet texts periodically throughout the day from my love.

Reading books with the kidlets before bed.

Snuggling with my love and watching tv (like big bang theory) before we go to bed.

Waking up late for work, only to find out that she made me coffee and packed my lunch, so I'm really not running behind.
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its the little things like
a brush of the hand on the hip in the morning
a cuddle before coffee
dinner for two or three or 5
a shared picnic
watching a movie together
a simple good morning how are you?
the dinner hour conversation
its in all the little moments that make up the day
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Old 06-10-2012, 01:19 PM   #8
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Texts before bed, even when he's very busy, to say goodnight and sweet dreams.
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The little things like setting a phone date to watch a movie together. Remembering the bread she like and making sure its here when she gets here.
Knowing that she is the world to me and I am to her.
Little things like asking if I want something from the kitchen and vice versa.


We have so many little things it hard to really list them all. However they are the things we do without really thinking about then due to all the bad we have had in past.

I shall remember to continue to do the little things for her to show her just how much she means to me.
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getting me coffee and / or making my coffee in the a.m.

picking up some groceries for me while she's at the store.

asking each other every day how our day is even though we see each other!

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Old 06-04-2012, 10:54 AM   #11
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Kissing my forehead whenever I'm worried about something.
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Cutting up my sandwich for me! Teeheee. Frickin adorable.

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We still both say be careful or be safe to each other
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In hindsight it is the little things.....like her smile, her voice, her laugh, her immature silliness that used to drive me crazy and eventually had me yelling "grow the **** up!" and to which she would laugh because she knew she got to my core. LOL! Her gifted insight to see things in the future. The fact that she always remembered me when she was out of the house and brought little gifts home. Her stealing my clothes just to wear them and to feel close to me. The little things....*nods.
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a strong, gentle hand raising my chin up to behold devoted, wise and loyal eyes that say-
'shhhh.... I got you.'
oh my, such a little thing that speaks volumes to me, especially when i believe it .

also, that same gentle strong hand upon my face, or upon the small of my back- guiding me, thru life in general.
its all about the little things...

goodness, i could write in here all evening!
this is such a lovely thread.
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spending 30 mins pruning and weeding to get to the back of the blackberry bushes because that is where the big ripe berries lived...

My girl does love blackberries
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Spending time together doing crafts and talking about nothing in particular...
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That He offers to help me get comfy on the bed with the heating pad because He knows I hurt THAT bad...

That He stands patiently in the makeup section while I pick out what I want/need... and then pays for it even though He doesn't need to

That He HELPS.. with cleaning, cooking, picking up around the house, etc.

When His hand rests on the small of my back while we walk through the store

That He thinks of AWESOME dates, like going to the batting cages!
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showing that I care for her by waking up with her in the morning on my day off to spend time with her and make her some breakfast before she leaves for work. It's little things like "actions" sometimes.. I didn't miss a drop of sleep, loved the conversation and took advantage of the time together being we work conflicting schedules.
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her leaving notes on my car for me to find.

her being happy makes me happy!
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