Butch Femme Planet  

Go Back   Butch Femme Planet > LOVE > Dating, Marriage, Family

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 05-26-2012, 04:02 PM   #161
Leigh
Infamous Member

How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
She, Her, etc
Relationship Status:
Single
 
Leigh's Avatar
 

Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 7,767
Thanks: 9,029
Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts
Rep Power: 21474859
Leigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST ReputationLeigh Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Reassurance, understanding, patience ~ those little things go a long way
__________________
"When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

Leigh is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Leigh For This Useful Post:
Old 05-26-2012, 04:45 PM   #162
Hollylane
Practically Lives Here

How Do You Identify?:
.
Preferred Pronoun?:
.
Relationship Status:
.
 

Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: .
Posts: 11,495
Thanks: 34,694
Thanked 26,361 Times in 5,875 Posts
Rep Power: 21474862
Hollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST ReputationHollylane Has the BEST Reputation
Default

The tone in her voice when she says endearing things, and feeling the weight and honesty of her words.
Hollylane is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 9 Users Say Thank You to Hollylane For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2012, 10:54 AM   #163
Talon
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
Divine Feminine
Preferred Pronoun?:
.
 
Talon's Avatar
 

Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: .
Posts: 4,921
Thanks: 16,246
Thanked 10,223 Times in 3,305 Posts
Rep Power: 21474854
Talon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST ReputationTalon Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Kissing my forehead whenever I'm worried about something.
Talon is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 10 Users Say Thank You to Talon For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2012, 09:04 PM   #164
ruffryder
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
FTM
Preferred Pronoun?:
guy ones
Relationship Status:
...
 

Join Date: May 2011
Location: chillin' in FL
Posts: 3,690
Thanks: 21,951
Thanked 9,679 Times in 2,875 Posts
Rep Power: 21474854
ruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Cutting up my sandwich for me! Teeheee. Frickin adorable.

mutual respect

We still both say be careful or be safe to each other
ruffryder is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 9 Users Say Thank You to ruffryder For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2012, 09:35 PM   #165
PaPa
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
GQ Butch Daddy
Relationship Status:
A Very Protective BIG Daddy...
 
PaPa's Avatar
 

Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 2,657
Thanks: 7,597
Thanked 5,871 Times in 1,530 Posts
Rep Power: 21474854
PaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST ReputationPaPa Has the BEST Reputation
Default

In hindsight it is the little things.....like her smile, her voice, her laugh, her immature silliness that used to drive me crazy and eventually had me yelling "grow the **** up!" and to which she would laugh because she knew she got to my core. LOL! Her gifted insight to see things in the future. The fact that she always remembered me when she was out of the house and brought little gifts home. Her stealing my clothes just to wear them and to feel close to me. The little things....*nods.
PaPa is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to PaPa For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2012, 10:07 PM   #166
miss entycing
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
dangerous, but worth the risk.
Preferred Pronoun?:
just be nice.. it's that easy.
Relationship Status:
CapitalM's carved upon my skin.
 
miss entycing's Avatar
 

Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: on the southern edge of sanity, under a carolina moon.
Posts: 3,276
Thanks: 8,341
Thanked 8,262 Times in 2,254 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855
miss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputationmiss entycing Has the BEST Reputation
Default

a strong, gentle hand raising my chin up to behold devoted, wise and loyal eyes that say-
'shhhh.... I got you.'
oh my, such a little thing that speaks volumes to me, especially when i believe it .

also, that same gentle strong hand upon my face, or upon the small of my back- guiding me, thru life in general.
its all about the little things...

goodness, i could write in here all evening!
this is such a lovely thread.
__________________

True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate their life,
through devotion,
to something beyond themselves.

Whenever someone awakens fully,
it affects human consciousness at a collective level.
It is like dropping a stone into a dark murky pond.
Ripples of light...
Not one word need be spoken.


miss entycing is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 8 Users Say Thank You to miss entycing For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2012, 10:47 PM   #167
Random
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
femme
Relationship Status:
Married
 
Random's Avatar
 

Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: back in the land of trees and snow
Posts: 2,072
Thanks: 8,017
Thanked 5,327 Times in 1,378 Posts
Rep Power: 21474854
Random Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST ReputationRandom Has the BEST Reputation
Default

spending 30 mins pruning and weeding to get to the back of the blackberry bushes because that is where the big ripe berries lived...

My girl does love blackberries
__________________
~Volunteer~ "It gets in your blood"
Random is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 11 Users Say Thank You to Random For This Useful Post:
Old 06-05-2012, 04:40 AM   #168
Miss Scarlett
Infamous Member

How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Relationship Status:
.
 

Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: .
Posts: 5,530
Thanks: 4,478
Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts
Rep Power: 21474857
Miss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST ReputationMiss Scarlett Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Spending time together doing crafts and talking about nothing in particular...
Miss Scarlett is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Miss Scarlett For This Useful Post:
Old 06-05-2012, 07:10 AM   #169
*Anya*
Infamous Member

How Do You Identify?:
Lesbian non-stone femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
She, her
Relationship Status:
Committed to being good to myself
 

Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: West Coast
Posts: 8,258
Thanks: 39,306
Thanked 40,460 Times in 7,284 Posts
Rep Power: 21474858
*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation*Anya* Has the BEST Reputation
Default

It is the little things like...

Strong, welcoming and enveloping arms

The kindest, most loving eyes that have ever looked upon me

Smiles that melted the the most protected and afraid heart into a puddle of joy

__________________
~Anya~




Democracy Dies in Darkness

~Washington Post


"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."

UN Human Rights commissioner
*Anya* is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 14 Users Say Thank You to *Anya* For This Useful Post:
Old 06-05-2012, 10:23 AM   #170
sara-bera
Member

How Do You Identify?:
female
 

Join Date: May 2011
Location: Massachusetts
Posts: 1,161
Thanks: 2,687
Thanked 2,858 Times in 739 Posts
Rep Power: 21474851
sara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputationsara-bera Has the BEST Reputation
Default

When he says things like, "I love you; you can have whatever you want," and all I want is him.
sara-bera is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 12 Users Say Thank You to sara-bera For This Useful Post:
Old 06-05-2012, 10:34 AM   #171
laruss
Member

How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
She or Goddess
Relationship Status:
Settled in
 

Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Edmonton Alberta
Posts: 1,322
Thanks: 2,849
Thanked 5,329 Times in 1,045 Posts
Rep Power: 21474851
laruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputationlaruss Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Text reminders that she is thinking of you
__________________
Creativity is a drug I can't do without.
-Cecil B. DeMille
laruss is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to laruss For This Useful Post:
Old 06-05-2012, 10:45 AM   #172
Massive
Member

How Do You Identify?:
Trans man
Preferred Pronoun?:
He, Him
Relationship Status:
not looking
 
Massive's Avatar
 

Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Northern England
Posts: 945
Thanks: 5,669
Thanked 2,383 Times in 765 Posts
Rep Power: 17762095
Massive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST ReputationMassive Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Actually enjoying being told off because I bought something, when I was told not to, cos, sometimes, random presents just have to be bought, no matter what's been said.
__________________
You may not be able to choose your bio-family, but you can choose your Family
Massive is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Massive For This Useful Post:
Old 06-05-2012, 10:49 AM   #173
JustJo
Infamous Member

How Do You Identify?:
pushy broad
Preferred Pronoun?:
she
Relationship Status:
Follow your heart; it knows things your mind cannot explain.
 
1 Highscore

Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Southeast corner
Posts: 5,633
Thanks: 24,417
Thanked 25,406 Times in 4,660 Posts
Rep Power: 21474857
JustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST ReputationJustJo Has the BEST Reputation
Default

...his caring for my comfort enough to carry beach chairs, umbrella and a cooler of cold drinks down to the beach

...his noticing that the back yard was getting scruffy and mowing and edging it completely just because it needed it

...his putting gas in my car...paying and pumping...because it needed doing and the smell of gas makes me feel icky

...him assembling the new fans....rather than me doing it and cussing. I can assemble stuff and have done a ton with this house, but it stresses me out and he knows it

...him running to the store for ice and bread because we need them, instead of expecting me to do it

...talking about building raised beds, and the kiwis and tomatoes and peppers we will grow

...it's having a partner in life....the "we're in this together" and working together towards a goal and handling the tasks of daily life together kind

__________________
I'm not tall enough to ride emotional roller coasters
JustJo is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 14 Users Say Thank You to JustJo For This Useful Post:
Old 06-05-2012, 05:44 PM   #174
Lazy Daze
Member

How Do You Identify?:
*
Preferred Pronoun?:
*
Relationship Status:
*
 
Lazy Daze's Avatar
 
1 Highscore

Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: *
Posts: 1,036
Thanks: 1,665
Thanked 2,808 Times in 745 Posts
Rep Power: 21474851
Lazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST ReputationLazy Daze Has the BEST Reputation
Default

That He offers to help me get comfy on the bed with the heating pad because He knows I hurt THAT bad...

That He stands patiently in the makeup section while I pick out what I want/need... and then pays for it even though He doesn't need to

That He HELPS.. with cleaning, cooking, picking up around the house, etc.

When His hand rests on the small of my back while we walk through the store

That He thinks of AWESOME dates, like going to the batting cages!
__________________
In a world where you can be anything..be Yourself
Lazy Daze is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 8 Users Say Thank You to Lazy Daze For This Useful Post:
Old 06-07-2012, 06:27 AM   #175
ruffryder
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
FTM
Preferred Pronoun?:
guy ones
Relationship Status:
...
 

Join Date: May 2011
Location: chillin' in FL
Posts: 3,690
Thanks: 21,951
Thanked 9,679 Times in 2,875 Posts
Rep Power: 21474854
ruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputation
Default

showing that I care for her by waking up with her in the morning on my day off to spend time with her and make her some breakfast before she leaves for work. It's little things like "actions" sometimes.. I didn't miss a drop of sleep, loved the conversation and took advantage of the time together being we work conflicting schedules.
ruffryder is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to ruffryder For This Useful Post:
Old 06-07-2012, 06:42 AM   #176
Gaige
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
Stone Butch
 

Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: above my boots
Posts: 2,097
Thanks: 2,649
Thanked 3,755 Times in 1,171 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853
Gaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST ReputationGaige Has the BEST Reputation
Default

candy buttons thank you baby
Gaige is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to Gaige For This Useful Post:
Old 06-08-2012, 09:51 PM   #177
ruffryder
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
FTM
Preferred Pronoun?:
guy ones
Relationship Status:
...
 

Join Date: May 2011
Location: chillin' in FL
Posts: 3,690
Thanks: 21,951
Thanked 9,679 Times in 2,875 Posts
Rep Power: 21474854
ruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputationruffryder Has the BEST Reputation
Default

her leaving notes on my car for me to find.

her being happy makes me happy!
ruffryder is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to ruffryder For This Useful Post:
Old 06-08-2012, 10:19 PM   #178
Corkey
Infamous Member

How Do You Identify?:
Human
Preferred Pronoun?:
He
Relationship Status:
Very Married
 
Corkey's Avatar
 

Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Where I want to be
Posts: 8,155
Thanks: 47,491
Thanked 29,268 Times in 6,637 Posts
Rep Power: 21474859
Corkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST ReputationCorkey Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Her making cookies and giving me first try.
__________________
"Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them".
~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)
Corkey is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 11 Users Say Thank You to Corkey For This Useful Post:
Old 06-09-2012, 01:18 PM   #179
Julien
Member

How Do You Identify?:
TG/GenderQueer
Preferred Pronoun?:
I'm flexible, but only up to a point.
Relationship Status:
Single
 
Julien's Avatar
 

Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area
Posts: 1,007
Thanks: 2,247
Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853
Julien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST ReputationJulien Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Like a simple caress of your lover's face. The kind that gives you chills.
__________________
Julien


“Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock

Formerly known as Graphiteta2s
Julien is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to Julien For This Useful Post:
Old 06-09-2012, 01:53 PM   #180
Kenna
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy
Preferred Pronoun?:
She
Relationship Status:
I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye.
 

Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: NC & CO
Posts: 4,806
Thanks: 4,624
Thanked 12,194 Times in 3,779 Posts
Rep Power: 21474856
Kenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST ReputationKenna Has the BEST Reputation
Default

For me being single, I don't need a partner to appreciate the little things....
Listening instead of tuning out

Making me laugh

Distracting me from stress instead of adding to it

Taking me to breakfast and helping with chores

True worry for our comfort ...making sure we have what we need to live comfortable ...like getting pharmaceuticals we need and necessary things for home

Not pushing my boundaries and respect when I need space (physical and emotional)

(The next wasn't done by a partner or companion, but done by a very respectful young man that drove all the way from another county to help me)...changing my oil on a blistering hot day without complaint or grumbling ....driving many miles to meet me at house.
Kenna is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Kenna For This Useful Post:
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -6. The time now is 12:42 AM.


ButchFemmePlanet.com
All information copyright of BFP 2018