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06-08-2012, 05:38 PM
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Senior Member
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Masculine ones plz Relationship Status:
Single but haven't given up on finding the One 
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I light a candle for my cousin Jean that is feeling her loss even more today on what would of been her mother's birthday.
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06-08-2012, 07:13 PM
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Femme Join Date: May 2010
Location: @ home with my granddaughter, chosen friends & family. ツ
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From my heart of hearts: <3 <3 <3
I just want Spirit Dancer
 to know how much it means to me - the way she cares for all of us in this community, the loving kindness she has given to me over the years: what a beautiful servant-leader she is.Tommi? Your post reduced me to tears (in a good way). Your servant leadership in taking care of every detail imaginable for Peggy... is... priceless. I'm a terribly private woman; moreso, even online (if you can imagine that at all). My own family has experienced waves of death: death of loved ones, death of relationships, death of careers, death in every way you could possibly imagine or experience. Even in my own life, it would seem that death is knocking at my own door - but I refuse to answer. I guess that may very well be a large part of my own personality: I have never been the kind of woman to bow down in the face of death. I've never been the kind of woman to lay down in the face of extremely challenging times. I may fall dead into bed because I'm flat worn out (exhausted), but there are times where I sit in my own kind of quietness and with a knowing heart, I know that I am doing all that I can do - even if I cannot see where I am going or I am too tired to think anymore or I am tempted to throw a dart on the map and hoping it will land anywhere other than here. But none of the above is possible, it would seem. All I can do is be present, ride this train for all it's worth and hope that I come crashing through to the other side (of who knows where) and arrive with a sweet smile on my face, even though I might have a bit of a tousseled appearance. I just want all of you to know how much I appreciate you and that not a one of you escape my attention because I want all of you to know how much you've given to my life and how much it means to me, the friendships I have cultivated in this community over the years. My heart felt love to all of you and may each day you live, be as sweet as possible; even if the impossible dominates your lives for a second or two.  ~D |
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06-09-2012, 06:54 AM
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The original lime-twisted femme Preferred Pronoun?:
I answer to most things, especially lesbian. Relationship Status:
Still loving my Mare ;) 
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June 8, 1925 - August 29, 1980 Happy Birthday, Mommy. 
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06-10-2012, 10:34 AM
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whatever Relationship Status:
chillin 
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 Some days are just for being quiet and letting the tears fall... |
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06-10-2012, 12:09 PM
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Timed Out - Permanent
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Queer (gender), female (biological marker) Preferred Pronoun?:
she will work as a default. Relationship Status:
*engaged to jac* until 8/10/14 
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Lighting candles today for pure love and compassion for E. As you confront yourself know you are wildly worth ever step you make toward healing and sobriety. You are surrounded by open giving love and gentle understanding. There is no where you can sink to we will not be with you. There is no fall you can take that the earth will not greet you with grounding.
Lighting candles today for firm compassion and faith for my love. Your love for him is pure and with out limits. You are supported in every move you make even when it hurts like hell. The universe knows your anguish and love. He is loved and will heal. |
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06-10-2012, 03:47 PM
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light a path o' hope...
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be true, be you, be brave.
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06-10-2012, 06:14 PM
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dangerous, but worth the risk. Preferred Pronoun?:
just be nice.. it's that easy. Relationship Status:
CapitalM's carved upon my skin. 
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please give me strength.
give us all strength. 
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True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate their life, through devotion, to something beyond themselves.  Whenever someone awakens fully, it affects human consciousness at a collective level. It is like dropping a stone into a dark murky pond. Ripples of light... Not one word need be spoken. |
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06-11-2012, 06:36 AM
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“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart.
It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” Judy Garland |
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06-11-2012, 09:26 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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For Gaea and her family...
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06-11-2012, 08:32 PM
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For Gaea and her family
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“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart.
It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” Judy Garland |
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06-11-2012, 08:40 PM
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We're never alone
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“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart.
It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” Judy Garland |
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06-11-2012, 10:17 PM
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Member
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she, her Relationship Status:
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Lighting a candle for Gaea, her family.
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Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi |
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06-11-2012, 10:50 PM
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for my mom...
i came in her and i saw all these beautiful posts and my heart is warmed and im a mess just a hot mess...my kids came over htis evening we spent some time together..im packed and ready to go and i hope i can sleep. 
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Gaea "Building a lifetime together one day at a time" Courage: the willingness to risk who you are for who you want to be and what you have for what you want You're not who your past says you are, you are who you choose to be today moving forward. |
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06-12-2012, 06:48 AM
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“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart.
It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” Judy Garland |
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06-12-2012, 09:44 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status:
married to my forever 
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Safe travel amulet & candle for Gaea!!! Holding you close, my beautiful friend! I heart you! Clay
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06-23-2012, 08:07 AM
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Infamous Member
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Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira ) Join Date: Nov 2009
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 I am heading to the jacuzzi after a looooonnnnng yesterday of helping the movers at my Ex's.. Helping Peg sort through her walk-in closet, doing the "Keep or Donate" thing had us cracking up!! She wanted to KEEEP ththis and that, in case she gains weight. I HAVE the opposite problem. Ended up filling 3 full size wardrobes, and just shipping it to Oregon to surprise our Grandaughter and let her help Gramma sort it out up there. She wanted to "Keep " everything, even if she went from a size 10 to 6 which is hanging on her. Smoking is a killer. Lost my Mom to it with lung cancer, now my estranged wife with COPD, emphysema and Altzheimer's. Separated since 1997, I never saw imagined this sort of thing coming . Few more weeks and I'll take Peg and Freedom the cat to live with our Grandaughter, who will be looking after her full time, as long as she can. Then, the house goes up for sale. |
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