Friendship Survey - Page 4

Ginger · 06-10-2012, 09:19 AM

Blade wrote:

15) Describe a time when you really came through for a friend.

I had a friend who was being released from prison. She couldn't be released until she had a place to live and a job. I went to her previous job and ask them to hire her back, and I told her she could live at my house as long as she was drug free. I let her drive my truck to work every night.

Wow. That is trust. It must have felt so validating to her, to be trusted by you, to that degree.

16) Describe a time a friend really came through for you.

He let me use his credit card to buy a fridge. I had bought 3 used ones in one year and the last one went out the first week of June last year. I paid him back, but had he not been generious enough to do that for me, I guess I still wouldn't have a working fridge.

What a nice guy, your friend, to loan out his credit card like that. And what a relief for you, to finally get a good fridge.

It sounds like you trust others, and they trust you. Only good can come of that!

Blade · 06-10-2012, 07:14 PM

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Part 3 of 5: How important is it to you that:

1) …your friend’s age is fairly close to yours?It doesn't matter I have friends of all ages
2) …your friend’s educational level is similar to yours?doesn't matter
3) …your friend’s economic situation is similar to yours? doesn't matter
4) …your friend’s religious beliefs are similar to yours? doesn't matter
5) …your friend’s class background is similar to yours? doesn't matter
6) …your friend’s gender identity or sexual preference is similar to yours?doesn't matter
7) …your small or adult children like your friends?doesn't matter
8) …your friends like to include your children, when you hang out together?doesn't matter

Part 4 of 5: Which of the following shared activities with a friend appeal to you?

1) Attending singles events and supporting each other as you scan the environment for someone to flirt with, etc.

2) Exercising; outdoors or indoors sure
3) Watching movies or videos; at home or in a theater sure

4) Playing video or electronic games; at home or somewhere else sure

5) Attending sports events or watching sports on TV sure

6) Participating in team sports sure

7) Attending cultural events (museums, concerts, readings, etc.) sure

8) Shopping sure
9) Cooking, or eating in restaurants sure

10) Visiting wildlife centers, going to a county fair, hanging out to watch the dog run in an urban area, bird watching—anything that involves animals sure

11) Other im open

Part 5 of 5: What important things has this survey left out?

BONUS QUESTION: In your opinion, has the fact that this survey was created by a femme, affected it in any way?

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06-10-2012, 09:19 AM	#61
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,309 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Blade's Friendship Survey Blade wrote: 15) Describe a time when you really came through for a friend. I had a friend who was being released from prison. She couldn't be released until she had a place to live and a job. I went to her previous job and ask them to hire her back, and I told her she could live at my house as long as she was drug free. I let her drive my truck to work every night. Wow. That is trust. It must have felt so validating to her, to be trusted by you, to that degree. 16) Describe a time a friend really came through for you. He let me use his credit card to buy a fridge. I had bought 3 used ones in one year and the last one went out the first week of June last year. I paid him back, but had he not been generious enough to do that for me, I guess I still wouldn't have a working fridge. What a nice guy, your friend, to loan out his credit card like that. And what a relief for you, to finally get a good fridge. It sounds like you trust others, and they trust you. Only good can come of that!