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Old 06-11-2012, 10:50 PM   #1
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for my mom...
i came in her and i saw all these beautiful posts and my heart is warmed and im a mess just a hot mess...my kids came over htis evening we spent some time together..im packed and ready to go and i hope i can sleep.

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gaea,
i'm so very sorry for your loss.
know theres another candle burning for you here, as well.

brightest blessings my friends....
thank you all for the love and strength that y'all show to me, i feel it- i always feel it.
know that i care about all of y'all... and my candle always burns.

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for my mom...
i came in her and i saw all these beautiful posts and my heart is warmed and im a mess just a hot mess...my kids came over htis evening we spent some time together..im packed and ready to go and i hope i can sleep.

May you, your mom and family and friends ..Feel much love and support and energy that you are needing at this time.

Know that you are not alone. And that if you need anything , all you need to do is ask.

Lighting a candle for you now.

Namaste
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gaea...Clay & i are holding you very close...sending you peace, strength and much love during this time...travel mercies too...we are both here for you if you need us...

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It is difficult for me to ask but I am undergoing another surgical procedure this morning.

It is the 5th or 6th time I will undergo general anesthesia since March 8th.

Sending positive thoughts and healing energy my way would be most appreciated.

I hope it will be all over with this one.

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I am lighting a candle today for StoneOne.
I am also asking that you add this name to your list of candle/energy work as well.

May this candle light the way through whatever may come your way.
May you have the energy that you need for your situation at this time.
May the guides, angels and loved ones who have transended already,
direct and protect you and those who surround you.

May understanding and endurance be given to you at this time as well.
And may health be addressed. Even that which has been put aside.

And may you recieve and know anything that I may not have written,
that you may need in your life at this time as well.

Blessings upon you I ask,
So mote it be,
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I am asking that the elder one, angels, guides and loved ones past over..and those within the planet involved here....

To bless, protect and nuture all within this planet, on this site..at this time.

May those who need help recieve it with open arms.
May those who are wanting to help,
Step foreward and lend energy and prayer to those needing it.

May we all unite and lite candles for our friends and brothers and sisters on this site now.

May balance, love ,understanding, encouragemant, health, and a knowing that you are not alone...Be our goal at this time and what all feel.

May each person know they have another to come to.
And may we extend our friendship and caring hearts to learn and know those who may feel alone at this time.

"If you need a listening ear, a smille or laugh..or someone just to lite a candle for you...I am here as are those within this thread.

May the guides direct us to those who do not have th strength to speak out.


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Today my big brother would have been 40 years old. He passed away from a tractor accident last october. I have missed him so very much and don't think I'll ever feel less pain from his passing. I light a candle for my brother Michael. I love and miss you so very much. You're always in my heart.
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Continued light and support for
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Lady D
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Sometimes life pushes us, sometimes it feels like we've been shoved off a cliff...

and often we don't see the good in it til later...

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Sometimes life pushes us, sometimes it feels like we've been shoved off a cliff..
and often we don't see the good in it til later...

...Blessed Be
Thanks Turtle Amen.

"YOU'RE CURED" , is echoing in my universe.

Doctor Berman, my Gyneco/Oncologist at Long Beach Cancer Center said
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" This is your 8 year follow-up, no signs of cancer, so at this
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I wanted to share this with you as I rejoice in the moment and know
that life is one precious day at a time and glad you are all along for the journey with me on the Planet.



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