A question for the butches....

[fludderbies]

Thanks again everyone for all of the replies! I am just going to talk to her about it. We talk about everything, i was just wondering how to do it without hurting her feelings, or making her feel like she isn't already great-- which she is. So... i guess if I want more/ different things, i have to ask for them. I can't expect her to read my mind!

Thanks again!!

Fludder

[Ginger]

Originally Posted by fludderbies

Thanks again everyone for all of the replies! I am just going to talk to her about it. We talk about everything, i was just wondering how to do it without hurting her feelings, or making her feel like she isn't already great-- which she is. So... i guess if I want more/ different things, i have to ask for them. I can't expect her to read my mind!

Thanks again!!

Fludder

Fludder,

I'm glad you're going to talk to your partner about what you want, sexually.

It's about you; what you want, not about her, and what she lacks.

I hope she can hear it that way.

Also, I hope she can hear that your voicing of what you want, is a vote of confidence in her.

The fact that you can even bring it up says that you believe she wants to hear it, you believe that she wants the sexual bond between the two of you to be stronger.

Scout