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Old 06-13-2012, 07:41 PM   #1
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Okay so here's what I've been trying to say.

Hands speak for us. They announce our intentions. Try to lie—your hands will give you away; they'll flutter nervously or do the palms-up, "don't-kill-me" thing.

And when you love someone, and you're afraid for them to know, your hands will pave the way. They'll reach out, pat that person's arm, pick some lint off her shirt.

Tenderness is in the hands, and that's hot. For me, anyway.
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Tenderness is in the hands, and that's hot. For me, anyway.
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so is strength, despair, supplication, power, authority, fear... a lifetime of carrying and reaching toward or protecting is all reflected in the hands. They are how we extend ourselves and how we receive others....

nice post, thank you.
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Sometimes you can feel Butch hands that aren't there.
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Sometimes you can feel Butch hands that aren't there.
Absolutely! i can often feel Clay's amazing & firm guiding hands...
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I love butch hands. Its one of the first things I notice. Its usually eyes, smile, and then hands. I love when a butch takes my hand into theirs and gently caresses and rubs my hand. Their hands are gentle, loving and safe. They can provide extreme pleasure to the inter-most depth of our being.
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My right closed hand
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I'm torn...
She doesn't claim "Butch" or other identifiers...she isn't femme (her words) ... I see and feel her masculine female energy ... to people on the outside of our little personal bubble, she presents as Butch but she isn't. She mentioned the other day that she's always felt and been tomboy but she's uncomfortable with being identified by others as Butch, Dyke or Lesbian ...what I'm getting to is she's female identified with incredible energy and masculine qualities ...and I often find myself drawn in by her hands. I never understood the attraction until now....only it's a bit more complicated for me.
Wish I could take and post pictures .. with her approval of course...
I once apologized for objectifying her (when we were joking around and I'd made comment about a certain quality) .. her response was "you can objectify me anytime, baby doll"...
Told her today ( when we were talking about losing weight) that she "carries her Sexy very well"... but those hands.... one of the many qualities that show her strength ...
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Butch Hands....oh....my....yes. Stutter....shiver....swoon.
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oh my I think I'm loosing it.....
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