Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet? - Page 40

Gráinne · 07-01-2012, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Ciaran

Okay, so I got a rep comment from someone on this thread who said I was "adorkable".

My mind immediately started racing towards thoughts of a prospective wedding, pre-nupital agreements and whether or not we'd start a family with children or, rather, with cats (I understand that litter training cats is easier and less stressful than potty training kids so I favour the cats option). I tend to be a quick mover and don't really do all the flirting and dating stuff as I'd rather watch baseball.

And then I looked at the comment again. I had misread it as "adorable" when it actually said "adorkable". In a second, my ego and vanity was crushed. I had always hoped to be some sort of sex idol or such like .... but, in fact, I'm incredibly dorkish. That's surprising as, whilst I'm socially inept, I can't even properly work my iPhone.

That said, I'll need to try to use this dorkish image to my advantage i.e. if I meet a really nice femme, I can now try to chat her up by saying that, although I mightn't be great in bed, I'd be happy to try to fix her hard drive. Anyone think that could work?

Never underestimate the power of dorkishness!

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 07-01-2012, 09:31 AM

Hey, it is nice to find out that, even if you are already in a relationship with someone else, that someone has a crush on you. That someone admires you, and thinks you are pretty cool.

I wrote once in this thread about how I had small crushes on some here in the Planet, even though I am madly-in-love with someone else. I have fellow-Femme crushes, and crushes on some of the Butches here too. I admire their writing, their energy, their style. I enjoy hanging out with the local ones, love meeting up with others when I travel or at the Reunion.

Those crushes have no bearing on my relationship with my gf. They just enrich me in this world.

And Ciaran, I adore the "adorkable" tag you were given! As someone who is very non-tech-able, I have great respect and awe at those who know their way around a hard drive! *grinning*

SleepyButch · 07-01-2012, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Ciaran

It is if it's infected with a virus and you don't take measures to protect your equipment.

Sometimes I have to replace my hard drive because of overuse... viruses aren't ever an issue if you take the appropriate precautions up front.

Mr Nice Guy · 07-01-2012, 10:06 AM

Hello Crushers, hoping your day is a crushable one.

Scuba · 07-01-2012, 10:16 AM

Not crushing anyone on the Planet but have a wicked crush on the barista at the Starbucks down the road

clay · 07-01-2012, 11:01 AM

For ME....anyone can crush anyone..it is a secret admiration....usually about something I find attractive about them..ie: a brilliant mind, a sense of humor, maybe their aura I sense, or their heart....my crushes aren't about any specific gender or with the intent & purpose of "falling madly in love & cohabitating for life"...it is simply an admiration of some one or more of their attributes..their moral compass..their fabric of life..or their heart for others...or the incredibly sexy intelligence...I can, and do crush often...and in no way does those crushes have any affect on my relationship with the girl...being confident & secure in myself and in my relationship allows for my heart strings to be tugged by others...in any or all ways I mentioned above...BTW I DO tell my crush(es) I am crushing.......

Miss Scarlett · 07-01-2012, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by claybaby

For ME....anyone can crush anyone..it is a secret admiration....usually about something I find attractive about them..ie: a brilliant mind, a sense of humor, maybe their aura I sense, or their heart....my crushes aren't about any specific gender or with the intent & purpose of "falling madly in love & cohabitating for life"...it is simply an admiration of some one or more of their attributes..their moral compass..their fabric of life..or their heart for others...or the incredibly sexy intelligence...I can, and do crush often...and in no way does those crushes have any affect on my relationship with the girl...being confident & secure in myself and in my relationship allows for my heart strings to be tugged by others...in any or all ways I mentioned above...BTW I DO tell my crush(es) I am crushing.......

i agree...Anyone can crush Anyone...i've got several of my own here on the planet and in the real world and they're across the spectrum...i'm secure enough in my relationship that any crush Clay may have does not make me feel insecure (nor do my crushes have that effect on hym) because i know it's just a crush and for each of us crushing is an admiration of something about someone and does not represent sexual or romantic interest in that person...

Scuba · 07-01-2012, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by claybaby

For ME....anyone can crush anyone..it is a secret admiration....usually about something I find attractive about them..ie: a brilliant mind, a sense of humor, maybe their aura I sense, or their heart....my crushes aren't about any specific gender or with the intent & purpose of "falling madly in love & cohabitating for life"...it is simply an admiration of some one or more of their attributes..their moral compass..their fabric of life..or their heart for others...or the incredibly sexy intelligence...I can, and do crush often...and in no way does those crushes have any affect on my relationship with the girl...being confident & secure in myself and in my relationship allows for my heart strings to be tugged by others...in any or all ways I mentioned above...BTW I DO tell my crush(es) I am crushing.......

I agree

Although, I'll admit...barista crush=purely physical **chuckling**

firegal · 07-01-2012, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Scuba

Not crushing anyone on the Planet but have a wicked crush on the barista at the Starbucks down the road

No wonder your cup of java is always full!

Ciaran · 07-01-2012, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by claybaby

...BTW I DO tell my crush(es) I am crushing.......

.... hey, where was my PM then?

My hopes and dreams over the past multitude of months that Clay was secretly crushing on me have now been dashed

WolfyOne · 07-01-2012, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

Hey, it is nice to find out that, even if you are already in a relationship with someone else, that someone has a crush on you. That someone admires you, and thinks you are pretty cool.

I wrote once in this thread about how I had small crushes on some here in the Planet, even though I am madly-in-love with someone else. I have fellow-Femme crushes, and crushes on some of the Butches here too. I admire their writing, their energy, their style. I enjoy hanging out with the local ones, love meeting up with others when I travel or at the Reunion.

Those crushes have no bearing on my relationship with my gf. They just enrich me in this world.

And Ciaran, I adore the "adorkable" tag you were given! As someone who is very non-tech-able, I have great respect and awe at those who know their way around a hard drive! *grinning*

It's my dimples and poetry that make you crush on me, right

Ciaran · 07-01-2012, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by guihong

Never underestimate the power of dorkishness!

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

And Ciaran, I adore the "adorkable" tag you were given! As someone who is very non-tech-able, I have great respect and awe at those who know their way around a hard drive! *grinning*

It might be powerful but I'd rather be a David Gandy-type than a Woody Allen-type

WingsOnFire · 07-01-2012, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch

While I have to agree with you on the fun to sleep naked part.. it's also fun to be clothed with the anticipation of taking them off sometime during the night.

LOL... Guess I have to think about what thread I am posting in or I might get the reputation of being easy... lol... sooooooo agree with the anticipation of taking off someone elses clothing during the night...

Mr Nice Guy · 07-01-2012, 12:30 PM

This place is rocking!!! We will, we will rock you. Lol

WingsOnFire · 07-01-2012, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Breezy

Yay it's been busy here today! It is NEVER to hot to raise some hell! Full moon is Tuesday, feeling randy is included, going out and about is, too. Who wants to join me? C'mon, it will be FUN!

Me? I am a queer femme of sorts. I am very fluid. The whole "rule book" thing makes me yawn.

Soooo who is ready for some good times? Anyone have plans for the 4th?

I just love you guys!

Not sure what I am doing on the 4th other than vegging out... Would be nice to have a cookout but one must have a grill to cookout.. sigh... I will buy one someday... I just moved here so we havent made alot of friends... I love a good get together with friends on a holiday...

Mr Nice Guy · 07-01-2012, 12:39 PM

Did someone say BBQ? God I love food on the grill.

Scuba · 07-01-2012, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy

Did someone say BBQ? God I love food on the grill.

Did someone just say "randy"? **laughing**

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 07-01-2012, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

It's my dimples and poetry that make you crush on me, right

Wolfy, it IS your dimples, and your poetry, but also your dancing skills, and those crazy, soft, melt-your-heart-eyes, and your sense of humor, and that huge heart of yours. We so need to get you moved here to central AR, just so we can see you more often! And Wolfy, when you do find that wonderful woman that sees the incredible catch you are, and she wants to snatch you up, don't be surprised that there are a bunch of femmes (and butch bros) that will be watching closely, to make sure she is good enough for you!

(alright, before anyone goes all wonky here, I already had posted something a long time ago that I had a crush on Wolfy. A real-live "I think Wolfy is one of the nicest people I have ever met"-kind of crush. )

WolfyOne · 07-01-2012, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

Wolfy, it IS your dimples, and your poetry, but also your dancing skills, and those crazy, soft, melt-your-heart-eyes, and your sense of humor, and that huge heart of yours. We so need to get you moved here to central AR, just so we can see you more often! And Wolfy, when you do find that wonderful woman that sees the incredible catch you are, and she wants to snatch you up, don't be surprised that there are a bunch of femmes (and butch bros) that will be watching closely, to make sure she is good enough for you!

(alright, before anyone goes all wonky here, I already had posted something a long time ago that I had a crush on Wolfy. A real-live "I think Wolfy is one of the nicest people I have ever met"-kind of crush. )

Awwww shucks, now I'm

Good thing no one can see it, but me

I am sure you can feel it from this close of a distance though

Mr Nice Guy · 07-01-2012, 02:36 PM

How cute. Wolfy has been crushed. One down and many more to go.

07-01-2012, 10:16 AM	#785
Scuba Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Flying Solo Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: PNW Posts: 2,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,749 Thanked 8,047 Times in 1,618 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Not crushing anyone on the Planet but have a wicked crush on the barista at the Starbucks down the road __________________ https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-X...etuwo1_500.jpg ~~Bob Richardson~~

07-01-2012, 11:01 AM	#786
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,020 Thanked 31,671 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	For ME....anyone can crush anyone..it is a secret admiration....usually about something I find attractive about them..ie: a brilliant mind, a sense of humor, maybe their aura I sense, or their heart....my crushes aren't about any specific gender or with the intent & purpose of "falling madly in love & cohabitating for life"...it is simply an admiration of some one or more of their attributes..their moral compass..their fabric of life..or their heart for others...or the incredibly sexy intelligence...I can, and do crush often...and in no way does those crushes have any affect on my relationship with the girl...being confident & secure in myself and in my relationship allows for my heart strings to be tugged by others...in any or all ways I mentioned above...BTW I DO tell my crush(es) I am crushing....... __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

07-01-2012, 09:31 AM	#782
ArkansasPiscesGrrl Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: feeling pretty darned blissful right now! Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: central AR Posts: 856 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,594 Thanked 3,079 Times in 741 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Hey, it is nice to find out that, even if you are already in a relationship with someone else, that someone has a crush on you. That someone admires you, and thinks you are pretty cool. I wrote once in this thread about how I had small crushes on some here in the Planet, even though I am madly-in-love with someone else. I have fellow-Femme crushes, and crushes on some of the Butches here too. I admire their writing, their energy, their style. I enjoy hanging out with the local ones, love meeting up with others when I travel or at the Reunion. Those crushes have no bearing on my relationship with my gf. They just enrich me in this world. And Ciaran, I adore the "adorkable" tag you were given! As someone who is very non-tech-able, I have great respect and awe at those who know their way around a hard drive! grinning

07-01-2012, 10:06 AM	#784
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07-01-2012, 12:30 PM	#794
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07-01-2012, 12:39 PM	#796
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Did someone say BBQ? God I love food on the grill.

07-01-2012, 02:36 PM	#800
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	How cute. Wolfy has been crushed. One down and many more to go.