If You *REALLY* knew Me...

LaneyDoll · 07-05-2012, 09:52 AM

If you really knew me you would know that I recently took a stand that likely will or likely has cost me a few friends and could make life at the club different than it was before.

You would also know that I firmly believe that those who talk the talk really should walk the walk.

And, you would know that integrity is super important to me.

~ocean · 07-05-2012, 10:07 AM

((( laney ))) ^ 5 grl

LaneyDoll · 07-05-2012, 10:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ~ocean

((( laney ))) ^ 5 grl

Thanks ocean! It was not an easy thing to do. But I was tired of someone being a bully and I spoke up. Thankfully the actions were mostly directed to me and not someone else. And thank God that I have Riley on my side. It is so much easier to stand when you know you do not stand alone.

Blade · 07-07-2012, 09:08 PM

If you really knew me you'd know eletronic gadgets are not my forte. I get quite agadamnvated with them rather quickly. I threaten to take a hammer to them or throw them in the driveway and run over them with the truck. Then I calm down and call a life line or try to look up on line how to do or undo as it may be what I've done.

SleepyButch · 07-07-2012, 10:09 PM

If you really knew me you would know that:

I am shy at first. Just because I may be quiet does not mean that I think I am better than anyone.

I am always there for my friends, no matter what time of the day or night.

I have a great sense of humor and like to joke around.

Just because I am Butch, does not mean that I cannot get my feelings hurt.

I am harmless, unless I feel that connection with someone. At that point.. I may try to charm my way in.

I am a good person. I give all the time and take very little.

If you knew me, you would know that:

I would never intentionally hurt you, regardless of what you may think about the conversation.

TimilDeeps · 07-07-2012, 10:14 PM

If you really knew me you'd know why I am awake right now . . .

ferret · 07-08-2012, 08:00 AM

Even though I consider myself butch, I'd say I'm a bottom.

I'm a grammar and spelling "nazi."

I'm a clean freak and I can't stand clutter, but I'm not OCD by any means.

I typically fall hard and fast for someone, and that's burned me more than once.

I've never done illegal drugs.

not2shygrrl · 07-20-2012, 09:48 PM

if you really knew me you would know that I would not welcome myself into your world without you initiating the invitation.....

if you really knew me you would know that although I am not shy, I am not a dominant woman.....and like myself that way!......

if you really knew me you would know that I am chemically blonde !

yotlyolqualli · 07-21-2012, 01:03 AM

you would know why I love the snow...

you would know why I love to sing...

you would know why I dread mother's day...

If you knew me, you would know why I don't casually flirt, I don't casually date, I don't casually fuck...

If you knew me, you would understand why I keep myself to myself, except with those who I trust enough to get that close.

If you knew me, you would know that I smell like gardenia's, though I wish I could find a hyacinth or lilac perfume...

and if you knew me, you would know that my favorite flower is the daisy... and you would know why.

~ocean · 07-21-2012, 01:44 AM

if u really knew me we would stay up for whats left of the night ~
i'd be making coffee and going down the beach and watch the world wake up
u would kiss me , as the sun catchs my eyes
u would relax as i rubbed ur shoulders and back in the sun rays
u would listen to music w. me.... getting sleepy as we sat and talked b4 the night ended
if u really knew me , u would taste my kiss
if u really knew me i'd leave a smile on ur face as u rode away

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~
i would look at u and smile every morning as i handed u ur coffee .
I;d open the windows and let the mountain air in
I'd be there making ur brkfst .
I would listen to what was going threw ur mind
I'd go back to bed w. u cause u wanted me there
i;d be your strength, and submissive lover if i really knew you .

Mr Nice Guy · 07-21-2012, 02:12 AM

If you really knew me then you'd know that I'm looking for you. I just haven't found you yet.

Amber2010 · 07-05-2012, 10:23 AM

If you really knew me you would know I am a great actress. I am able to keep my voice happy when inside I am screaming
If you really knew me you would see that my constant excessive talking is a protection thing
If you knew me you would really know….I crave laughing and happiness and hate to see dark clouds so I try to ignore the stress that comes with the things that happen in my life.
If you knew me you would know.. I work more than anyone should.. worry about others before myself. “A caregiver” tries to help others and it usually ends up with hurting myself to satisfy them…
If you knew me you would know I always wish to be the one who is taken care of .. to not have to fix .. to not have to live my life for others but can’t seem to stop…
If you knew me you would know my friends are my world and so very important to me because they are a part of my life not because they have to be but because they choose to be. 
If you knew me you would know in spite of everything that has happened I still believe life is a wonderful thing and that we really should wake up every day trying to make it the best day of our lives…..

~ocean · 07-06-2012, 04:07 PM

if you really knew me ~~ u would know how much i love music ~~ all genre's ~~ can we share what we both like ? ~~ will u let me have my own then ~

if u really knew me ~~ u would know how I adore music in the backround while enjoy the day w. hym ~~ doing what we have to do ~~ melt into eachother, to do what we want to do ~

if u really knew me ~~ I would surcome to ur scent ~~ move to the beat ~~ follow ur lead ~

Julien · 07-06-2012, 04:22 PM

If you really knew me you would know that I am a complex person, but not so complex that you can't know me for who I am. I am a challenge not a deterrent.

prettyboyreg · 07-07-2012, 05:20 PM

If you really knew me you wouild know that:

I am a passionate and compassionate guy
I honestly love my Mother
I believe in giving back to my community in anyway I can
I am honest and loyal
I will do anything I can to help anyone
My passions are coffee and Craft beer
I surround myself with people that I admire
It takes a while to get to know me, but once you do you will not be disappionted.

Reg

Mr Nice Guy · 07-07-2012, 05:56 PM

If you really knew me then you'd know that I'm not your average butch.

07-05-2012, 09:52 AM	#1
LaneyDoll Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Girly girl femme Preferred Pronoun?: She; Ma'am; Miss ;) Relationship Status: Pitbull protected. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 2,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,892 Thanked 7,683 Times in 1,607 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	If you really knew me you would know that I recently took a stand that likely will or likely has cost me a few friends and could make life at the club different than it was before. You would also know that I firmly believe that those who talk the talk really should walk the walk. And, you would know that integrity is super important to me. __________________ There are beauties who stop traffic and then there are beauties who grow obsessively in the hearts of the susceptible.

07-07-2012, 09:08 PM	#4
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,413 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	If you really knew me you'd know eletronic gadgets are not my forte. I get quite agadamnvated with them rather quickly. I threaten to take a hammer to them or throw them in the driveway and run over them with the truck. Then I calm down and call a life line or try to look up on line how to do or undo as it may be what I've done. __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

07-21-2012, 01:03 AM	#9
yotlyolqualli Member How Do You Identify?: submissive femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: moving forward and not looking back... anything is possible! Join Date: May 2012 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 242 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,206 Thanked 1,272 Times in 184 Posts Rep Power: 21357560	you would know why I love the snow... you would know why I love to sing... you would know why I dread mother's day... If you knew me, you would know why I don't casually flirt, I don't casually date, I don't casually fuck... If you knew me, you would understand why I keep myself to myself, except with those who I trust enough to get that close. If you knew me, you would know that I smell like gardenia's, though I wish I could find a hyacinth or lilac perfume... and if you knew me, you would know that my favorite flower is the daisy... and you would know why. __________________ ~Love is a verb~

07-06-2012, 04:22 PM	#14
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	*If you really knew me you would know that I am a complex person, but not so complex that you can't know me for who I am. I am a challenge not a deterrent.* __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

07-07-2012, 05:20 PM	#15
prettyboyreg Member How Do You Identify?: TG Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2012 Location: Central CA Posts: 337 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 894 Thanked 1,512 Times in 293 Posts Rep Power: 15589056	Me If you really knew me you wouild know that: I am a passionate and compassionate guy I honestly love my Mother I believe in giving back to my community in anyway I can I am honest and loyal I will do anything I can to help anyone My passions are coffee and Craft beer I surround myself with people that I admire It takes a while to get to know me, but once you do you will not be disappionted. Reg __________________ Acceptance is the key to everything!

07-05-2012, 10:07 AM	#2
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07-07-2012, 10:09 PM	#5
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	If you really knew me you would know that: I am shy at first. Just because I may be quiet does not mean that I think I am better than anyone. I am always there for my friends, no matter what time of the day or night. I have a great sense of humor and like to joke around. Just because I am Butch, does not mean that I cannot get my feelings hurt. I am harmless, unless I feel that connection with someone. At that point.. I may try to charm my way in. I am a good person. I give all the time and take very little. If you knew me, you would know that: I would never intentionally hurt you, regardless of what you may think about the conversation.

07-07-2012, 10:14 PM	#6
TimilDeeps Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer fucker Preferred Pronoun?: Mine Relationship Status: I'm dating myself. It's really working out. I think I'm the one!!! Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: To your right and a bit South. Posts: 1,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 108 Thanked 1,470 Times in 445 Posts Rep Power: 19646657	If you really knew me you'd know why I am awake right now . . .

07-08-2012, 08:00 AM	#7
ferret Member How Do You Identify?: As myself. Preferred Pronoun?: Female ones. Relationship Status: Timed out. Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: US Posts: 332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19 Thanked 887 Times in 277 Posts Rep Power: 5468780	Even though I consider myself butch, I'd say I'm a bottom. I'm a grammar and spelling "nazi." I'm a clean freak and I can't stand clutter, but I'm not OCD by any means. I typically fall hard and fast for someone, and that's burned me more than once. I've never done illegal drugs.

07-20-2012, 09:48 PM	#8
not2shygrrl Member How Do You Identify?: as a Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: under the cover of starry starry nights...enjoying a warm fire in the pit ! Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: in a cabin in the woods Posts: 636 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,068 Thanked 2,454 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	if you really knew me you would know that I would not welcome myself into your world without you initiating the invitation..... if you really knew me you would know that although I am not shy, I am not a dominant woman.....and like myself that way!...... if you really knew me you would know that I am chemically blonde !

07-21-2012, 01:44 AM	#10
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,018 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	if u really knew me we would stay up for whats left of the night ~ i'd be making coffee and going down the beach and watch the world wake up u would kiss me , as the sun catchs my eyes u would relax as i rubbed ur shoulders and back in the sun rays u would listen to music w. me.... getting sleepy as we sat and talked b4 the night ended if u really knew me , u would taste my kiss if u really knew me i'd leave a smile on ur face as u rode away ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~ i would look at u and smile every morning as i handed u ur coffee . I;d open the windows and let the mountain air in I'd be there making ur brkfst . I would listen to what was going threw ur mind I'd go back to bed w. u cause u wanted me there i;d be your strength, and submissive lover if i really knew you .

07-21-2012, 02:12 AM	#11
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	If you really knew me then you'd know that I'm looking for you. I just haven't found you yet.

07-05-2012, 10:23 AM	#12
Amber2010 Member How Do You Identify?: Happy, Crazy, Bubbly, Funny, Strong, Outgoing, Friendly Preferred Pronoun?: Femme Relationship Status: Complicated Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 920 Thanked 594 Times in 154 Posts Rep Power: 3787185	If you really knew me you would know I am a great actress. I am able to keep my voice happy when inside I am screaming If you really knew me you would see that my constant excessive talking is a protection thing If you knew me you would really know….I crave laughing and happiness and hate to see dark clouds so I try to ignore the stress that comes with the things that happen in my life. If you knew me you would know.. I work more than anyone should.. worry about others before myself. “A caregiver” tries to help others and it usually ends up with hurting myself to satisfy them… If you knew me you would know I always wish to be the one who is taken care of .. to not have to fix .. to not have to live my life for others but can’t seem to stop… If you knew me you would know my friends are my world and so very important to me because they are a part of my life not because they have to be but because they choose to be.  If you knew me you would know in spite of everything that has happened I still believe life is a wonderful thing and that we really should wake up every day trying to make it the best day of our lives…..

07-06-2012, 04:07 PM	#13
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,018 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	if you really knew me ~~ u would know how much i love music ~~ all genre's ~~ can we share what we both like ? ~~ will u let me have my own then ~ if u really knew me ~~ u would know how I adore music in the backround while enjoy the day w. hym ~~ doing what we have to do ~~ melt into eachother, to do what we want to do ~ if u really knew me ~~ I would surcome to ur scent ~~ move to the beat ~~ follow ur lead ~

07-07-2012, 05:56 PM	#16
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	If you really knew me then you'd know that I'm not your average butch.