Single ENOUGH

Ciaran · 07-06-2012, 12:54 PM

Good for you.

I've been partnered at times and single at times. I'm currently single. That's not single enough - it's just single. There's no mourning involved, nor do I have any ethical issues over flirting or such like.

I'm generally a discontented person but my discontent is ingrained into my psyche. It's nothing to do with being single. There are pros and cons to being single vis-a-vis partnered.

I've no doubt that I'll be partnered at times over the rest of my life - though when, where and who with, I don't yet know nor is it a subject that over-exercises me. When it happens, it will happen.

CA_BabyCakes · 07-06-2012, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Ciaran

Good for you.

I've been partnered at times and single at times. I'm currently single. That's not single enough - it's just single. There's no mourning involved, nor do I have any ethical issues over flirting or such like.

I'm generally a discontented person but my discontent is ingrained into my psyche. It's nothing to do with being single. There are pros and cons to being single vis-a-vis partnered.

I've no doubt that I'll be partnered at times over the rest of my life - though when, where and who with, I don't yet know nor is it a subject that over-exercises me. When it happens, it will happen.

I crush on Kermit the frog too

Ciaran · 07-06-2012, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by CA_BabyCakes

I crush on Kermit the frog too

You might very well crush on Kermit too but a word of warning (said in a vaguely sinister Northern Irish accent) .... if you make a move on Kermit, knowing I've got my eye on him, I'll get my revenge

ps - what part of SoCal are you from? We are arranging a B/F/GQ/Trans gathering last Friday in September. Low key but good fun. More than welcome to attend.

CA_BabyCakes · 07-07-2012, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Ciaran

You might very well crush on Kermit too but a word of warning (said in a vaguely sinister Northern Irish accent) .... if you make a move on Kermit, knowing I've got my eye on him, I'll get my revenge

ps - what part of SoCal are you from? We are arranging a B/F/GQ/Trans gathering last Friday in September. Low key but good fun. More than welcome to attend.

Same to you buddy...... I have had my eye on that little sexy green guy since i was about 5.... Hes mine!

P.S. I think i more closely resemble his past love

BTW im in the Los Angeles Area

ManOMan · 08-31-2012, 11:25 PM

ps - what part of SoCal are you from? We are arranging a B/F/GQ/Trans gathering last Friday in September. Low key but good fun. More than welcome to attend.[/QUOTE]

How do I find out about this gathering? I'm in the general LA area.

T-lee · 03-26-2013, 07:55 PM

It has to be on our own level for each of us. I know that my last relationship was sadly my shortest. Mainly because she was not over her last one. Hide it well for awhile till I saw that I was clearly her replacement. Found out some time in that I even looked like her. Some of us just have to be very clear on if we are truely ready to move on or not. Start something new when we are ready or not. No one else can ever tell us what is right for ourselfs.

Parker · 07-06-2012, 02:40 PM

I say, prowl on!

I see nothing wrong with anyone's status and it isnt my concern how often they do or do not change that status, up to and including that it is none of my business how long one waits to change said status after a break up, death, or divorce.

Imo, everyone's got to do right by themselves and no one else.

LadyHilary · 07-06-2012, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by June

Just to let you know, I moved this from the Red Zone - Isms to the Singles forum.

Learning the site and navigating.... thank you!

08-31-2012, 11:25 PM	#5
ManOMan Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Male Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him/His... Relationship Status: Single & searching.... Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 96 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 249 Thanked 217 Times in 64 Posts Rep Power: 1447910	ps - what part of SoCal are you from? We are arranging a B/F/GQ/Trans gathering last Friday in September. Low key but good fun. More than welcome to attend.[/QUOTE] How do I find out about this gathering? I'm in the general LA area. __________________ The Truth is you are Loved more than you can imagine

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T-lee Junior Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Mishawaka, IN Posts: 4 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 16 Times in 4 Posts Rep Power: 0	It has to be on our own level for each of us. I know that my last relationship was sadly my shortest. Mainly because she was not over her last one. Hide it well for awhile till I saw that I was clearly her replacement. Found out some time in that I even looked like her. Some of us just have to be very clear on if we are truely ready to move on or not. Start something new when we are ready or not. No one else can ever tell us what is right for ourselfs. __________________ T-lee

07-06-2012, 12:54 PM	#1
Ciaran Member How Do You Identify?: Altocalciphilic Preferred Pronoun?: Papa Smurf Relationship Status: Curmudgeonous spinster Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: London (but from Belfast) Posts: 678 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 471 Thanked 3,654 Times in 602 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Good for you. I've been partnered at times and single at times. I'm currently single. That's not single enough - it's just single. There's no mourning involved, nor do I have any ethical issues over flirting or such like. I'm generally a discontented person but my discontent is ingrained into my psyche. It's nothing to do with being single. There are pros and cons to being single vis-a-vis partnered. I've no doubt that I'll be partnered at times over the rest of my life - though when, where and who with, I don't yet know nor is it a subject that over-exercises me. When it happens, it will happen.

07-06-2012, 02:40 PM	#7
Parker Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Butch. Lesbian. Dyke. Woman. Female. Preferred Pronoun?: She, of course! Relationship Status: Content Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Small Town Life Posts: 2,880 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,858 Thanked 11,727 Times in 2,429 Posts Rep Power: 0	I say, prowl on! I see nothing wrong with anyone's status and it isnt my concern how often they do or do not change that status, up to and including that it is none of my business how long one waits to change said status after a break up, death, or divorce. Imo, everyone's got to do right by themselves and no one else.