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			i miss... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	my Mom...she was the glue that held my family together... Spending hours dolphin spotting with Clay... Home as in OUR Island... Sitting on the veranda with Clay, sipping coffee, talking...or not, listening to OUR Island wake up and watching the gentle sway of the Spanish moss in the breeze... Seductive sapphire blue eyes and that bright smile...  | 
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			i miss the walk for a danish
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I miss being visible to my community.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			peeks around Jesse's  corner .. peek - a - boo  I see u  lol..  send imvites  to  the LGBT community for a BBQ @ Jesse's     hola  Jesse ~~
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 
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			I miss the Gallery.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			My young friend, and ex-coworker Alexandra...so, I'm going to meet her for coffee...Right now  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Oblivion and avoidance of difficult feelers. 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I miss having someone to hang out and do things with on a regular basis
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			The gentle squeezing of my hand to guide me while walking along a crowded street.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Having my nails done right. My nail lady left my usual nail salon, and it's been downhill ever since. I am extremely overly picky and sensitive about them, which makes it harder, but still.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Peeking around the corner... Join Date: Oct 2011 
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 I miss that as well....and holding hands and snuggles too. 
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		#172 | 
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			having someone to cuddle to sleep with.  My Malaysia ex cuddled her bolster to sleep.  Every night.  I never got cuddled in bed.  My American ex and I cuddled to sleep every night and she was the FIRST lover I ever let sleep facing my back.  I miss having her arm around my waist. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I miss waking up and that first smile and hello and kiss and do we have time to ... 
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			-Pitching a little tent on the banks of the Whitewater river and fishing for trout for a weekend... cooking it up for supper in a cast iron fryer on the fire, and sharing little bits with my pup, think I'm going to have to pack up my Daisy girl and do that again soon. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			-During times that suck my Mom being there to say "It's going to be ok kid..." -Portland! (though I like it where I am now) -Formal gatherings... it's been awhile and my tux is gathering dust... blah. 
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			I miss sleeping the entire 8 hours through or even 5 hours through the night. This waking up every couple of hours or so is getting old quick. I am so tired throughout the day. Yawn. I think I should go to bed now. Good night Planet. Sleep well.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			My Mother....
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			In perfect love and perfect trust I believe that will be directed..for now Just friends in my life. ![]() Join Date: Mar 2010 
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			Just noticed this thread...definately one I will respond to when I am not so tired. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Just wanted to say ..GREAT THREAD though...smile Will be back to add my 2cents shortly...lol 
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			I miss feeling sure of myself. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I miss not caring what others think of me. 
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			My mom.  My sister has been doing some landscaping at her grave site and has been sending me pictures.  It only reinforces how much I really miss that wonderful woman. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			Happy with my butch. Join Date: Jun 2012 
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			the hamburgers mum used to make on a Friday night when we were kids: 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			* STEAMED buns * lettuce, tomato, onion, shredded cabbage, tomato sauce * poached egg * beetroot YUMMY    Sometimes when I'm flying out of NZ, I'll have a Kiwiburger at McDs  (hmmm probably shouldn't admit to McDs...)
		
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			I miss my children being little enough to plan get togethers and celebrate their accomplishments...its been a while but today I'm at it again! My daughters Bf is  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			graduating from school and SHE is throwing him a dinner in his honor...and guess who gets to cook? Moi. Wish me luck. Its been some time since i throw down some Enchiladas and all the fixings, pico de Gallo etc...i might have lost touch....just in case, I threw on some Shalia Durcal to get me back in the groove.... I miss being able to do this like i breathe, which used to be the case I miss being the hands on mama i was...(empty nest syndrome here)... I miss the energy i had to do all this with...lol 
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