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Old 07-12-2012, 05:08 PM   #1
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I think you mean undergarments! "Panties" assumes a gender ID that may not be accurate for others in the thread!

NO, I mean, my assigning a gender to panties indicates a projection of my undergarment preference on others who may share my gender id but choose for their own valid personal reasons to wear boxers

WAIT, why am I assuming boxers are the opposite of panties?? What is the deal with my undergarment binary???
I just don't like the word panties period! We call 'em chonies at our house. And I've never heard (or even thought of) an undergarment binary, but I think I'm in love with your brain, DC!
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I briefly dated a fifty-something male-ID'd butch -- not a member of this or the other site -- who, if say a waitress addressed us as "ladies," would have a sullen half an hour or so. I can't say it ruined too many dates, but even so. . . . . Looking back on it, I am not sure I would go out with someone now who was so easily bruised by a social reality they were sure to run up against with some frequency.
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I just don't like the word panties period! We call 'em chonies at our house. And I've never heard (or even thought of) an undergarment binary, but I think I'm in love with your brain, DC!
Roos here.......but these are adult roos boxers & panties............not under-aged roos like under-roos.........oh damn....... binary age bias. I'm pretty certain that Andi just went by wearing the Jaws boxers that I never wore because they are cut funny and ride just enough to be too annoying for me.
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I liked the piece. My partner is not a girl but he is a butch. I would not call him girl but he was not offended by the piece. I liked the juxtaposition of girl and butch in the piece. It highlighted the usual connotation of the word by expressing what many would say girls should not be. I understand that the word might not be acceptable to some people. Some butches don't want to be called he. I would have a problem if I wrote a piece about my partner and used he instead of girl just like she did and then was told I was being offensive, heteronormative or dated.
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